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robably thinking this through a bit much. I've recently started going to a group for people with BI. It's the first time I've felt so comfortable with talking to people. There is a man and woman who run the group both are lovely. The man is who set the group up as he had BI 5 years ago and struggled with most day to day stuff at start and has wrote his experiences on Facebook to help others. The woman has a brother who had BI 15 years ago so she wants to help others. Both make sure everyone is included in social times and outings. They get photos of people joining in with activities to put on Facebook. The man says it helps him remember as he struggles with short term memory.
I have been getting Photos myself and the man does sometimes dance to music. I have tried to video this on my phone but second he sees my phone facing him he stops. We have joked about it and he insists it will be funnier if I get video without him knowing. That is exactly what I'm planning to do and told him everyone will see it when I get one which he doesn't mind. So today I asked a few other people to try to get a video of him dancing which one of them told him. He later changed shirts as we were doing photo shoot and after he joked to me I should have got video of him changing shirts and also mentioned he'd done semi naked calendar before. Would this be classed as flirting?
If I'm honest I do really like him I'm like enjoying going to the group and making effort to be as friendly with everyone as I'm not going to show myself up and not feel comfortable going. i would love to know him more and maybe get in relationship in future. Long way off I know but main thing is keep going to the group and see what happens.
I'm probably thinking too far ahead, but could a relationship work? Obviously both need to feel same and be single I think he is single but not 100%. He is busy a lot but no harm seeing how things go at the group. I know he has gone through depression since BI and does seem to hide how he's feeling. He does always appear happy and ok maybe he ihas been when I've seen him. but I know he has seemed fine before when he's not.