It's now a month since my husbands fall, he remains semi conscious with a traciotomy - at times he looks at you and a few days ago was following you round the bed with his eyes but mainly just staring into space. He appears to be having terrors and shifting to get away from something..... he is now 48 hours off the ventiliator and they are looking to move him to the Neuro ward. He doesn't respond to any commands..... it's awful and for me cruel, it's not what he would chose and I feels the doctors are not listening. He was a gym addict, hands on daddy, immaculately groomed and he would be mortified to see himself now ....... he is 48 and our daughter is 11.... just so low at the moment as I can tell from his eyes that he is not in there yet I can't help him. I am scared that what he will become is not what he would want and yet I can't help him.