Help

[Huwbo31]

Really not feeling okay with anything at the moment! People are asking "what's the matter" and my response is "everything!!"

Feeling very emotional

This is so f***ing hard

I hate this

[razyheath43]

i hope tommrow is better.some days are hard and scary but try to think that tomrrow will be better and that today is just a bad day,big hugs

[RogerCMerriman]

Is the problem something? Or *just* emotions?

I have quite flat emotions in many ways now or rather I struggle to process emotions, sometimes erupting in rage.

[GT500]

Hi huwbo31,

I couldn't agree more with you. I've had a nasty aneurysm coiled and since then it's just not me, I simply cannot put my finger on the problem, I've had counselling which to be honest was a waste of time for me, nothing came of it. I've sat down and made lists of issues to see if anything stood out. Tried crying my eyes out. Nothing helps. I'm just left with a tremendous feeling of something.

I should be leaping about like an idiot with joy at still being here after the op ( wish I was ) I just feel really glum and pissed off all the time.

Great isn't it !

The one single thing that keeps me going is my family ( maybe cake as well ) and how much I love them, I wouldn't swap that for anything ( not even cake ).

You are not alone, know that despite the confusing mental state that you currently trudge through, there has to be something at the end of it and I think it's called living.

Cheer up, you have friends.

[randomphantoms]

Hi Huw

How long have you been feeling this way?

Are you able to take a step back and see what the biggest problem is?

I think most of us go through phases of letting it get us down but I always try to have something to look forward to. It is a big help when people close to me can make plans for further in the future than I can think and still understand that I might not be OK when that time comes..

It was another really good piece of advice from my OT to help avoid depression "You must make time for the nice things"

Hope this soon passes.

Lovenhugs

Xoxo

[Nutkin33]

Shame. Just remember, - we are all here for you. Stay strong!

Love Debs

😉😊

[sca2013]

I relate and hate it too. It is f***ing hard. Seems as though emotions run high, where before they never did this easily. For me, every once in a while I do have a good day. Luckily yesterday was a good day, after quite a few weeks of really crappy times. Wish I could give you a magic bullet to make everything good again. In the meantime, I wish you all the best so hopefully you can feel better. So sorry you're having to go through this.