Update -
Finally after 8 months and having to involve Abta, I have received an apology, a small recompense, but most importantly assurance that the cruise company (Azamara) will in future make sure their gluten free options amount to more than just a piece of dry gf bread (no crackers on board) and that their adapted meals will be prepared with care and be more imaginative for those that have issues other than Coeliac Disease or gf intolerances.
I have never had to complain about gf food/being veggie too, on any other cruise ship and I've since cruised on MSC and P&O, both of whom had a good variety of options available.
I'm glad to report a positive outcome and thanks to everyone that understood and supported my frustrations and annoyance in my original post below.
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I booked an upmarket cruise with my daughter for a special occasion and her 1st cruise. I've cruised with other cruise lines, and always check ahead that my gf, vegetarian, and Bell pepper allergy can be catered for. Never had any issues, generally good, sometimes exceptional. This time was awful. Not even gf crackers on board for cheese and biscuits and just pretty awful gf bread. I had the same dessert 4 times running in the restaurant as desserts couldn't adapted to gf, even though I'd been assure my choice could be, and only fruit was the other option. I went the 3 days with no options on the room service menu (can't comment re previous cruises as not had that option before but thought it would be nice to sit on balcony with lunch, since special cruise). Once I raised this, a paper list was eventually provided with food that could be made gf. We both tried again and again to discuss with the head waiter re meals (I always had to choose my food the night before which I've done on other cruises and isn't normally a problem) and each time he was convincing that it was all resolved, but due to the limitation of gf ingredients on board I think it was beyond his control. I'm just glad this wasn't my first cruise as I don't think I'd cruise again. I complained on board as wasn't really resolved, and they couldn't understand what had gone wrong as normally they process dietary needs on to the system as they receive them, so they are prepared. I emailed my dietary needs following their instructions, and got an acknowledgement so maybe mine got lost. I'm thinking of complaining to the company. Never had to complain before about this so I have no idea if it will be worth it. But I'm more aggrieved because I paid more for this cruise to get an exceptional and special experience and got worse food than on the usual cruise lines. I saved hard for this. Has anyone had a similar experience? Thanks.