FET day 12 scan (1st) pcos-26

Hi all , tomorrow is finally happening and i have my baseline scan - I have been on oestrogen since the 14th of october.

If you have been following my journey i had a loss at 22 weeks lost my baby girl to fetal anomaly . In august just gone . So trying again so soon is kind of helping me grieve my loss . My baby girl was a day 3 transfer . We only obtained 5 eggs of which 2 (1 was a day 3) and one is a blastocyst we are hoping to transfer .

I am super anxious about the scan tomorrow i really hope things are looking well so we can proceed with the transfer . I am extremely anxious and the mental aspect has been quiet draining . I am just hoping all this patience will be worth it .

I have been taking oestrogen and my prenatals folic acid etc . Aswell as drinking some pomegranate juice anything to help with the lining.

If tomorrow goes well then they said they will book me in for transfer on the saturday . Provided that the embryo makes it through the thawing process.

I really hope this is my healthy baby . I am praying this baby is our silver lining . Through all the grief and suffering , i hope this baby is our miracle baby.

Does anyone know what happens if the lining of the endometrium is not thick enough? I know im just preparing for the worst and mayve everyhing will be fine on the checkup . But im wondering do they make you take more oestrogen? Up untill transfer?

I have been taking 3x progynova a day . I have had side effects ? Do side effects mean its been working? I really hope and pray tomorrow’s scan goes well . I shall keep you all updated .

Thankyou so much for your input in advance . I grt so overwhelmed with everything so i struggle to reply but i do read all your replies and appreciate every one of them ❤️❤️.

[HoneyB11]

I’ve only ever had fresh transfers not frozen as only had one embryo each round so can’t offer advise there but just wanted to wish you the best of luck and say sorry for your loss - can only imagine how heartbreaking it is to suffer a loss at that stage of a pregnancy. Praying for your miracle baby xx

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Thankyou so much❤️

[WillowPark]

Good luck! If the lining isn't thick enough they will probably tell you to keep taking the estrogen and come back in a couple of days, which means they delay the transfer a couple of days. It is just like egg collection in that they start monitoring you and they need everything to be right before they book you in and go ahead with the transfer, so if it isn't quite there first time then they will keep a close eye on you until it is. Hopefully if you have had symptoms the medication has been doing its job and you will have a lovely lining tomorrow 😊

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Thank you! I hope so , will keep you all updated xx lots of love

[Citizenerased83]

Hi lovely, so sorry for your loss. That's so heartbreaking. I too, jumped into another embryo transfer after I had a miscarriage the first time as I thiught it would help my grief if soemthing positivecane from it. Take care of yourself and I really hope you get your miracle baby.

The clinic will most likely increase your oestrogen if your lining isn't thick enough and keep monitoring you via scans. Good luck, lovely. No need to reply to this. Will be thinking of you xxx

[Kismet_x]

Wishing you all the best x

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update: Had my lining scan my gut instincts were right . My lining is only 5.6 mm too thin at the moment so transfer is not going ahead this Saturday.

I am skeptical i was on 3x 2mg progynova a day now i have to add 2mg more . I have a check up again on friday . To see if my lining has thickened after this . I am worried it wont make a difference and im just not responding or i wont respond.

Has anyone increased or taken oestrogen for 5 more days and their lining has thickened ? Today is day 10 on oestrogen . Im really gutted and deflated just feel like my body always lets me down😿😣

[WillowPark]

So sorry to hear that. Keeping fingers crossed your next scan has better news 🤞 I know that feeling about your body letting you down, there is so much disappointment in this game(!) but 5.6mm is really not far off so hopefully you just need a little extra boost!