Looks like it’s all over 😢

[Bonita928]

Second FET, positive test on OTD but not looking good, I should be 6 weeks + 2, after 2 days of spotting and mild cramps went to EPU yesterday to say they can’t seeing anything. Blood tests show HCG levels are very low and no where near what they should be. Another blood is scheduled for tomorrow but it’s not looking good.

Still have 6 embryos left, 2 singles and 2 doubles so already thinking about what to do next. Feeling so deflated after exciting 2 weeks of testing positive. Did have concerns as the tests strips were not getting darker as posted before and now basically confirmed it was an early loss.

[Poppygarden]

Really sorry to hear this is happening to you. I had the same at my 7 week scan last week, I had started spotting from 6.3 so a very similar experience. Wishing you all the very best with the next few days xxx

[Kmcdon]

So sorry to hear this. I’ve been there too. So hard. It’s just such a difficult situation especially after such positive news a couple of weeks ago. Hoping you get some positive news tomorrow. I’m glad you have got some embryos in the freezer. I found planning my next steps really helpful as did just giving myself time to come to terms with it all. I felt so vulnerable but it does get better with time. Sending love. Xx

[Bonita928 in reply to Kmcdon]

Thank you, already starting to think about trying again, but could be a couple of months from next natural period to next round. Last time it took 56 days for a normal period following failed FET so seems to long to wait already 😢

[Eggfreezer2015]

Big hugs xxx

[Twiglet2]

I’m so sorry 😢 sending love xx

[Annbiel]

hi! Very sorry to hear this. You’re not alone… I had my very first BFP on the day of testing last month (never had positive in my life) my heart jolted with ‘we made it’ tears of joy…. Only to get my period in the evening. It’s a cruel journey. Sending hugs xxx

[Bonita928]

Thank you, sending a hug back at you. Just getting ready to hospital for second blood test but know deep down it is all over. Hopefully things will work for you soon xx

[C-a-t-m-u-m]

I feel for you, I am exactly the same, went for my 7 week scan. All they could see was a black dot 😭 she wasn’t sure if there was a flicker or not and measuring 5 weeks. I have to go back in a week! At least I’m grieving this week so by the next scan I would of processed everything. It’s just so crap so I totally feel for you. I feel like my breast have deflated and sickness worn off but I’m still testing positive on a pregnancy test 😭😭.

Sending a big hug , I know how your feeling xx

[Bonita928 in reply to C-a-t-m-u-m]

bless you, the journey is so hard. I had a feeling something wasn’t right when I had and early small bleed and the test strips were not getting darker, the nurse said to stop testing but still positive and wait for scan. Then this week the bleeding started again but heavier and scan couldn’t see anything and first blood test the HCG was really low so know it’s all over. It’s such a painful process both physically, emotionally and mentally. Sending a big hug back at you xx