I am so sorry for your loss 😢 for your next round I would be tempted to do 2 day 6s if both graded 3BB but I’d be more tempted to use the day 5 ones first if they are graded better and maybe do one of those at a time? Xx
yeah it really is I think with that many left and those gradings I would try 2 again but there really is no right or wrong answer 🙈 I’ve just went on my gut feeling usually and twice made the decision on the morning of! I have had 2 chemicals from double transfers and loads of BFNs from single transfers….except 1 single FET that worked and stuck so I really don’t think there is any rhyme or reason to it and can just be ‘luck’ sometimes xx
Hey I'm also preparing for 3rd FET were going for 2 this time our first round ended in miscarriage at 7 nearly 8 weeks.. 2nd just didn't take and they were both high grade embryos 4AAs. this time we are having 2 put back one at 2BB and one at 3BB.. after this if not successful we only have one left at a 6BB... I would definitely be tempted to go for 2 if you have a nice amount of embabies left, I'll be just 35 on transfer day birthday the 15th transfer the 20th. But if you fit, well and healthy I'd definitely be tempted for 2 xx
Hi, thank you so much for your message. I’m so sorry to hear what you have been through too. When will you have your next transfer? I’m really hoping everything goes well for you. Thank you for your advice xxxx
Same situation here, but my doctor said it's not allowed to put 2 embryos at the same time if under 37 years old under HEFA's regulation, is it correct? It's NHS clinic so not sure if they have their own special rule, I am 31 now
My clinic (private) didn't want to put 2 back on the first cycle or even the second but because this is our 3rd go he agreed we could have 2 put back and the embryos that are going back are mid range quality but if they were high grade quality he probably would of said no. I'm 35 next week and hoping for transfer on the 20th march, xx
it’s such a hard decision. I put 2 frozen embryos in when I was 31 both 5AA grades and one stuck which is now my 2.5 year old daughter. Since then I’ve had a failed FET one embryo, and I am having a transfer in 3 weeks. I have 5 embryos left. My husband thinks 2 but I think 1!
If youre gut feeling is 2 and they are good grades I would go for it! Good luck xx
Thank you so much for your words. It really is such a tough decision isn’t it.
my gut is telling me two. I did two last time and one did stick but we lost it at 7 weeks 😞 and I keep thinking did we lose it because we put two in? But the doctors say no as the other one didn’t stick at all xxx
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