Here we go again, cycle number 4....

[Leii9]

After a failed FET last month with my 1 and only ever frozen embryo, time to start my 4th cycle of ivf , started the injections last night... In all honesty, I've lost all hope, im going into this with a negative attitude which i know is not the best thing to do, but after 5 failed transfers in 8 months, I'm feeling defeated.

Does anyone have any positive stories of a pregnancy after so many failed transfers?

Lot's of hugs to everyone xxx

[Kitkat10]

Hi, you are doing so well, keep going, your egg will come up. Mine was my 4th transfer and honestly I was so negative about my OE that I had booked a DE consult before I even started stims. I remember how tough it is and you are doing great, it is so normal to feel cautious after unsuccessful rounds but if you’ve got embryos to freeze then you are getting more embryos than most of us. Keep going x 🍀🍀

[Lamagarden]

I don’t have a positive story (yet!) I’m afraid but I have also had no ultimate success after four transfers. I’m going to keep going for now. I have read and heard of plenty of women who have their success on transfer 7 or 8. Wishing you the best of luck and strength on this terribly difficult road xx

[KediT]

Im so sorry, I don’t have a positive story. Im proud of you though for making it thus far, you are strong and brave. You are going in negatively because you are preparing yourself and protecting your heart because it has been broken so many times. I just had my 1st FET and on day 10pft. I still test negative yet I went in so positive and now I’m here. TBH I don’t even think il go back. Your feelings are valid. Don’t even feel bad God knows we keep to meds, adhere to the dos & dont’s and it is still difficult to conceive. Yet ppl get pregnant all the time throw the kids away, some don’t even take care of themselves or the babies or don’t even do half the things we do. Sorry for adding to your negativity

[Alpop]

Yes, nothing worked for me till my 8th transfer. I had given up much hope and posted very similarly to you but now have a one year old. It is such a difficult journey though.