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Sorry I always seem to put miserable posts on here, as expected 4 th round and started full flow bleed before OTD. I’m not even upset anymore I expect it but I feel lost I’ve no idea what to do next it seems pointless doing the same things and getting no better results.

Every time I think when is enough, enough?

I wish someone could give me the answer, I know they can’t!

Still planning to get an opinion from Dr Jonathan Ramsey to see if anything can be done for MFI

I am also worried that because I have an endometrioma would this affect implantation? It’s the first time I knew of this when I started IVF in Feb 21 so I’ve no idea how bad the endometriosis is, and what to do about this.

I feel defeated, just needed to get it off my chest.

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I’m sorry my lovely, it’s all so hard isn’t it,

Just wanted to send you some love and let you know you’re not alone in feeling like this!

❤️❤️❤️

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Bluedestiny in reply to Millbanks

Thanks Millbanks ❤️

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Twiglet2

I’m so so sorry 😢 I’ve been bleeding before test day and we are adding in lubion injections to make sure my progesterone is being topped up next round. Hopefully your doctor will have some suggestions for you but I have defo found to come prepared with some suggestions of my own for them to rule in or out xx

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Bluedestiny in reply to Twiglet2

Thanks Twiglet it annoys me as I have voiced my concerns about my progesterone on every round and they just say that I bleed before OTD because it hasn’t worked, well obviously 🙄 my clinic doesn’t seem to want to change anything. It’s like fighting a losing battle constantly xx

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Twiglet2 in reply to Bluedestiny

Are you self finding or nhs funded? I found they wouldn’t change anything when I had my nhs round but now that I’m self funding (same clinic!) they seem very open to trying (and charging) for things 🤔 xxx

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Bluedestiny in reply to Twiglet2

my first disastrous round was NHS after that it’s all been self funded. I’ll have a follow up with them but I am going to look into other options I don’t know if natural modified would work for us because of MFI but I’m going to have a few different consultations I think. I can’t see the miracle baby for us at this point xx

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Twiglet2 in reply to Bluedestiny

Keep the faith my lovely! It fells like it will never happen….until it does! Xx

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