This journey- What a roller coaster of emotions !

[lou12208]

I was so nieve, had no thought of any negative outcomes, then our last pregnancy transfer ended at our 12 week scan when I got told 'no heartbeat, it stopped 2 days ago'

Seeing that stick few days ago with the pregnancy confirmed, I suddenly realised all the fear of the negative possibilities come rushing back to me.

I should feel ecstatic and excited but I'm feeling cautious, suppressing those 'should' feelings. How sad this journey can be, even when its giving you a positive journey.

[Jrss1]

Wishing you the best of luck. This is wonderful news, try to enjoy it. This is your time xx

[lou12208 in reply to Jrss1]

Thank you for your kind words xxx

[Jrss1 in reply to lou12208]

I know what you are going through, been there so many times. But you have to believe this time is going to work for you. After you get scanned you will feel more positive. Sending you a big hug 🤗 xx

[Msze]

My journey was so so hard. I worried every single day of my pregnancy, many times bringing myself to tears for not feeling anything, or feeling too much or spotting all the way up to delivery. But now I finally have my baby. We go through so much heartbreak to get where I am. Congratulations. You are on your way to pure love 💜💜💜

[Gillis]

Congratulations on your pregnancy Lou.After I had my miscarriage at 12 weeks. When I was pregnant the second time I was a nervous wreck I kept expecting to lose the baby again. I overlooked every problem. I kept going to get checked out for reassurance. She's now 16 months old.

I hope everything goes well for you.

Good luck

[Bomboncita]

Congratulations! I know it is easier said than done, but please try to take one day at a time and to focus on other things.

In my case, I haven't managed to get pregnant after 3 transfers. Although I have another treatment coming up in June and I should be positive, I'm already feeling nervous about it. Am I crazy? I really did not expect IVF to be so tough. I'm so emotional...But hey, what I am trying to tell myself and it is also applicable to you is to focus on the moment and take one day at a time. Take a deep breath and think of all the positive posts you are getting here.

We are all rooting for you and the baby!

[zzko21]

Congratulations just enjoy each good moment!!