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When will the worrying end 😩🙈

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Hey everyone! Hope ur all ok!

Been feeling really anxious and worried the past few days. It’s hard to wrap my head around that my ET actually worked and I’m pregnant! Keep thinking it’s too good to be true! I have my first scan in two weeks, done another pregnancy test yesterday to check I’m still pregnant as my clinic don’t do bloods. 18DP5DT yesterday and nearly got my dye stealer! Iv had sore boobs the whole time but today they haven’t been sore 😩 thinking the worse! Is anyone else around 5 weeks? Or early and absolutely riddled with Anxiety? I feel bad because I should be living in my baby bubble but it’s so hard to accept and not think the worse! Any tips 😩🙈

Sorry for the rant!

Hope ur all doing ok 🤍

Sending lots of love & baby dust to u all

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Klndmr

First of all congratulations on your pregnancy! Wishing you healthy and a happy one! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🍀🍀🍀🍀It's difficult to work your head around the positive but I'm sure once you have your first scan you will feel better

The most important thing now is to try and stay as calm and positive as possible, eat well and take very good care of yourself! Sending hugs and positive vibes your way 🥰🤗🤗🤗🤗🍀🍀🍀🍀xxx

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Hopingforbaby_

Hi!! I’m feeling terribly anxious 🙋‍♀️ Even with having betas done I’m a wreck 😞 My scan is just over two weeks from now. Like you, my symptoms tend to come and go as they please. I watched a pretty good video about it and the woman explained that sometimes the hormones are just working on different parts of our bodies so our symptoms may not be consistent. I also had a friend tell me this is the intro into parenthood, we are going to worry about these babes for the rest of our lives. It helped because now at least I don’t believe my worrying to be out of context or anything. Lol until this weekend I haven’t even been using the word ‘pregnant’. It feels too good to be true. I get it but let’s try our best to enjoy and make the most of it. I have a sneaky feeling that we may miss these early days eventually 😆

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Marcy13

Please don't worry. Symptoms come and go especially in the beginning. HSG doubles every 2-3 days and usually that's when you may get some symptoms but not always. If you get symptoms then they go away once your body gets used to that amount HSG, and they may be back again days later once HSG doubles again. Symptoms will be like a roller-coaster ride, you'll drive yourself crazy.

I used to have zero symptoms for days and I would worry sick and then they would come back. The more time goes by the stronger they will get but remember some ladies have no symptoms at all. It does happen.

Stay strong and enjoy this time. I know how scary it can be after many losses.

Everything will be ok🥰

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Greyeverything

Go to my profile and read my post from 11 months ago, all my symptoms disappeared including sore boobs and I was 4 weeks 6 days. All I will say is my 3 month old baby girl is asleep on me right now.

I totally get how you feel I was an anxious wreck up till the viability scan, well up to 12 weeks really then I started to relax a tiny bit. I was anxious throughout but it gets a lot easier when you start feeling them move. The daily reassurance is great but I hate to tell you the worrying never really ends. Even now she is here is still worry about her daily!

I also got a private blood test before the viability scan as I was going mad waiting so that’s an option. You can do postal ones and they aren’t too expensive.

Good luck and congratulations, you are going to be ok xxx

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HollyT7

I found that even when baby arrived I was still like oh... I have a baby?! congratulations ❤️❤️❤️

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