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Last embryo and it’s a BFN 😢

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So two weeks ago we transferred our last embryo and this morning we found it was a BFN.

I’m so heart broken and feel so empty. We are incredibly lucky to already have a little boy through IVF but we so wanted to complete our family with another child.

For now I think I need to be sad and cry it out and then tomorrow I can wake up with a new head on.

I just want to curl up today though.

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Lucy92x

So sorry sweet🤍 extra cuddles with your gorgeous boy today xxx

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Rfletcher in reply to Lucy92x

Thank you. He is being so good and keeps saying ‘mummy needs love and hugs’ 🥰

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Sunflower35

So sorry to hear! Look after yourself.

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Solly-44

I’m so sorry. I hope you find peace but yes, for now you’ve every right to cry it out and feel all the ways you’re feeling. Sending big hugs xx

I am so sorry xx

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zytajones

I'm so sorry to hear that and I totally feel you as just had the last BFN results. It's been almost 2 weeks now and I still didn't totally digest it. I hope you can get your head around it quicker then me. A huge huge hug to you xxx

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Rfletcher in reply to zytajones

Oh I am sorry, you are aloud to take as much time as you need. People don’t understand and that’s ok as I wouldn’t wish this on them. But it is so hard when all of your friends and family are having their first and second children all around you and you have to smile and be happy. My brother and sister in law are due in 4 weeks, I am so happy for them but it is hard at the same time.

Xxx

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sun-and-rain

Can't do anything but sending a huge hug! I completely understand your wish for to complete the family ❤

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XOXO13

Sending big hugs ❤️

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Missl73

Sending love ❤️

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Eternalwarrior

I am so sorry, lovely. Sending you BIG hugs xxx

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AuroraXen

I'm really sorry. Hope your little legend is bringing some comfort 💔🥰 Lots of love xx

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Rfletcher in reply to AuroraXen

He is indeed, lots of mummy hugs and he has given me his special teddy 😢. Xx

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AuroraXen in reply to Rfletcher

That is just too cute! I know you'll be feeling very low and that is absolutely valid. But i know you'll all be ok in time, with such a little star in your lives xx

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Cinderella5

I'm so sorry lovely! Sending hugs....curl up and cry as much as you need to.xxxx

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Rfletcher in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you.

I have cried a lot and it has helped. Iv got up this morning and taken my little man to nursery and I have lots of jobs which need doing today so I’m making myself very busy. Xx

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KiboXX

I’m so sorry lovely, sending you big hugs xx

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alockie

I am so sorry, I am sure you will manage the situation. Sending warm hugs

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