OTD 9th March

[Missl73]

OTD 9th March anyone else? I’ve managed to stay super calm and busy until now but starting to get a bit twitchy at 7dp5dt. This is my 4th transfer (previously I’ve had a BFP ending in a MMC, a BFN, and a BFP that brought me my DS). I’m not an early tester so holding out but could use some distracting by anyone else in the same boat!

[Sososoxx]

Hi! Did you have your transfer on 28/2? My clinic have said to test 13/3 for me. I’m going to wait as my OH is abroad at the moment.

Just my luck too, I’ve caught Covid so am housebound! Was planning to keep busy but I’m now stuck reading into everything so finding this tww so tough.

Hope you get your positive!! Xx

[Missl73 in reply to Sososoxx]

Yes on the 28th. Clinics all seem to have different test days, I’m glad mine is 9dp I don’t think I could wait much longer! So unlucky about the covid, how are you feeling? I’m sure it won’t make a difference, I’ve seen lots of ladies get sick in the 2ww.

[Sososoxx in reply to Missl73]

Oh how strange, such a big difference. I will wait anyway but wishing you all the very best for your test!! Thankfully I am just tired more than anything. And it’s definitely helping me to sleep my way through this tww! Xx

[Missl73 in reply to Sososoxx]

Yeah it is funny how different clinics decide to do it. From personal experience I’ve always had a clear result on day 9.

[minnesota_girl in reply to Missl73]

I'm supposed to test on 9dp and then on 11dp! So I have two test days!

[Missl73 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Similar here, if negative on day 9 we’re told to test again 2-3 days later to be sure.

[minnesota_girl]

I am OTD Wed and I'm feeling the same! 7dp is so hard 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[Missl73 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Isn’t it!! I’ve been fine up until today, had a really vivid dream it was positive last night so can’t stop thinking about it now.

[minnesota_girl in reply to Missl73]

How are you feeling today?

[Missl73 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Up and down. Swing between thinking it’s worked and thinking it hasn’t. How about you?

[minnesota_girl in reply to Missl73]

Exactly the same 🤣

[Missl73 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Have you had any symptoms? I don’t feel like I have but then I also know my mind plays tricks on me. I’ve had a BFP with none before and a BFP with some so I know it doesn’t mean much really!

[minnesota_girl in reply to Missl73]

I've had some but could be my mind playing tricks on me! Bit of cramping every day, some heartburn that comes and goes, tired...🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ But that could all be the meds so who knows at this point!

[Missl73 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Cramping was a good sign for me with the cycle where I conceived my son so sounds promising 🤞

[Missl73 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Good luck for tomorrow 🍀 💫

[Missl73]

It was a BFN for us this time. I’m ok, I think I knew. I just didn’t feel pregnant. Just need to regroup now and decide if we transfer our remaining embryo which is only a 4CC so not likely to work either or go into a fresh cycle, I think we’ll probably go with the latter. Good luck to you both I hope you get your BFPs

[McQueeny in reply to Missl73]

Oh I’m sorry to hear…. But glad you’re doing ok. Good luck for next attempt! 💪🤞🍀☺️

[Missl73 in reply to McQueeny]

Thank you. I’ll just cuddle my little rainbow boy a little tighter today and remind myself how lucky I am to have him xx

[McQueeny in reply to Missl73]

I’m doing exactly the same today - just found out our BFP from two days ago ended in a chemical 😥 xx

[Missl73 in reply to McQueeny]

Oh hun I’m so sorry, it’s a rough old roller coaster this IVF life. I hope you’re ok xx

[McQueeny in reply to Missl73]

Thank you….. not so ok this morning, I really thought this was it - but I will be xx

[Missl73 in reply to McQueeny]

I hear you. I would definitely still get a blood beta, test lines are so unreliable because they can vary depending on how hydrated you are, but do what you need to do to protect yourself emotionally. I've had a good cry now this morning and been for a walk to clear my head. It was our last good frostie (we have a 4CC left in the freezer) but I think given the quality we're going to go for a fresh again. Got an appointment with the clinic on Friday so hopefully we can get straight into it which is what helps me. I can't stand the waiting around.

[McQueeny in reply to Missl73]

Yes, going in for a blood test this morning just to be sure….

Ah that’s good that you’ve already got your appt sorted - I’d love to go straight into it too, will find out whether that’s possible as I hate the waiting too! xx

[Missl73 in reply to McQueeny]

Keep me posted on how you get on. I'll be thinking of you. I hope that it was just the test and you get a nice high number to reassure you xx

[McQueeny in reply to Missl73]

Thank you will do 🙏💜

[McQueeny in reply to Missl73]

That’s a no from the bloods too - which I guess is not a surprise. But at least I have a doctor’s appt booked for tomorrow so we can move on as quickly as possible 🤞 Let me know how you get on with next steps x

[Missl73 in reply to McQueeny]

I’m sorry hun but I’m glad you can move on quickly. I will keep you posted. I have crazy bad cramps tonight if it wasn’t OTD and I didn’t already know I’d have thought I was!

[McQueeny in reply to Missl73]

Thank you…. And sorry about the cramps! Hope it all settles down x

[minnesota_girl in reply to Missl73]

Sorry to hear that 💕💔💕 love to you

[Missl73 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Thanks lovely. Did you do your test yet? I have my fingers crossed for you 🤞

[minnesota_girl in reply to Missl73]

I have a positive but will retest tomorrow - for me it's always fear of chemical as that's what's happened both times prior. Keeping 🤞🤞🙏🙏 that this one sticks x

[Missl73 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Yay congratulations that’s wonderful news. So pleased one of us got a BFP. Fingers crossed for you it’s a sticky one xx