Just a little something I came up with last night watching my beautiful Xmas tree.
To all strong women out there hoping for their miracle, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! We are all in this together and who knows, maybe next Xmas this little stocking will be filled with love and happiness ❤️
Christmas is one of the most difficult times of the year for many of us, stay strong and enjoy the time with your loved ones. The best for us all is just yet to come ❤️❤️❤️
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Awww lovely, I feel for you hun. Thank you for sharing. Well done for doing a Christmas tree, I am not even doing that but I will go spend it with my family in Italy. Are you going for transfer soon? At Christmas let’s put ourselves FIRST. It’s ok to say no, it’s ok to spend the holidays in the way it makes us feel better! Hoping 2022 is our year hun, always believe! 💫
I can't not to the Xmas tree, I've always loved Xmas and I must have one done. I even made hubby put some lights outside the house too. We had another loss in September which to a naturally conceived and 6th in a row. My recurrent miscarriage consultant wasn't of any help at all and just lost me a year in pointless appointments. We have decided to go to Turkey for IVF and we are going next week for a consultation and to make a plan. So here we come 2022, it will be a good one I strongly believe that! ❤️❤️❤️❤️🍀🍀🥰
I am so sorry, I had another miscarriage too in September, now going for my first FET in a month! It’s good to have a plan. I also believe 2022 will be good!!! ❤️
I love Christmas too. Your tree has made me smile… I know how your heart must break… mine does too. Thank you for sharing. I hope next year will different for us! Which clinic did you go too re : recurrent implantation failure? I am booked into see one on Jan. 7 transfers with PGT normal embryos and not a whiff of a pregnancy… just don’t know what/where to look next…
Let's hope next year will be different!I live in West Sussex and I had IVF which a clinic called the Agora in Hove. I had 1 fresh and 2 frozen transfers all successful but ended in week 4-5. I had one natural pregnancy before the IVF, and another 3 natural pregnancies after the IVF and all 3 ended in the same way, the pattern with all 6 pregnancies have been identical. I was referred to our local hospital in Worthing under a lady called Lavanya Buddha but she couldn't really help me much, she is a recurrent miscarriage consultant but she only sent me for some blood tests and gave me some progesterone to use from ovulation every month. Last time when I saw her she asked me "what should I do with you" and I'm in my head "you are the specialist you tell me lol" so that's why we've decided to go to Turkey for IVF. I'm flying out there and will meet my new consultant on Tuesday and let's hope is all for the best! 😻❤️😻😗
Hope you find some answers next month and you have better luck with the consultant you will see xxxxx
This is a really beautiful message... I am soo sorry what you have been through and I really admire you being so strong and positive... I wish you with all my heart success with your next IVF and that next year you can filled that little stocking up... ❤
Gorgeous Christmas tree and message of resilience and hope. 🌟💫 I am very much a believer in embracing the Christmas spirit regardless of whether you’ve got your baby yet. I think it’s a lovely time to enjoy all the decorations and treats 🎄🧁
Couldn't agree more! Life should not be out on hold regarding on what happens! Enjoy the festive season and hope it being lots if smiles and amazing moments for you and all your loved ones 🥰❤️🥰☺️❤️
I'm so stuck in that limbo ☺️ just trying to get the best out of everything and go forward. I feel so let down by all bloody consultants, gynaecologists, and all those who pretended to care. I had my third appointment with the recurrent miscarriage consultant a week ago after my last loss and she told me "oh, what should we do with you Rosie" I mean come on she is the doctor she must be the one telling me what to do next isn't it 🙈 I've just left the room telling her I hope I won't see her again hahahha. We are going for IVF in Turkey and I really hope someone will finally take me seriously and help me.I hope you and the little ones are doing fine and enjoying life and making lots of happy memories. Sending lots and lots if love, hugs and smiles your way ❤️❤️☺️☺️🥰🥰🥰🥰
Could the Drs not suggest anything to investigate or have you had all the bloods check etc done? I really hope Turkey has some fresh ideas for you both for IVF. I see you said you really enjoy Christmas so I hope you can make the best of things, I understand how hard things can be at this time too.We are getting on ok thank you. Things are a bit sad this year for us as my Mum has been very poorly since the boys were born and is deteriorating very quickly now....in a hospice. However trying to make the most of what we have for now.xxx
Thank you, it's been a bitter sweet time but at least Mum got to meet the boys!💗 I'm absolutely rooting for you guys....I'm still here to see my lovely buddies make it!💪🏻👊🏻🥰🤗🥰xxxx
What a beautiful & heartbreaking post ♥️ It shows how strong you are & determined to keep on going when life keeps kicking you down , I’m so very sorry for all of your losses & everything you’ve been through. A Lovely Christmas tree it’s good to have the strength to have done this.I haven’t been able to put mine up this year , I’ve instead done a small memory tree for our baby daughter who was stillborn in September our miracle ivf pregnancy after 7 ttc .
This Christmas should have been our first as a family together . Instead we are holding on to her memory but we will never forgot her & it will always be her first Christmas.
Oh... I'm so very sorry for what you are going through. I know whatever I say won't make anything better but stay strong and always remember you are not alone! Sending much hugs and love your way XXX ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lovely to see an update from you but breaks my heart it’s not better news. As you know six miscarriages down myself so I hear you. Sending so much love and hope you manage to enjoy Christmas. Here’s to 2022 being our year lovely xx
Ah Hun I'm gutted to see you still here too ❤️ Life can be a b.... sometimes isn't it? But what we can do, give up or just carry on. I've always been a true believer, even though I have very, very dark days but still believing most of the time 🙈☺️Here is to 2022 being an amazing year for us!!! Sending so much hugs and love your way xxx
Aww I'm really happy you got your little miracle! Congratulations and I hope from now on you face only happiness and great time with your family 💝❤️💝❤️
Thank u for this. It really made me feel less alone. I haven’t been able to do any Christmas decorations since my natural miscarriage 3yrs ago. I just dread this time of year.I’m trying to mentally prepare 4 our 4th transfer in January. Fingers crossed we get to hang our little stocking nxt christmas.
I wish with all my heart me, you and everyone out there fighting get to hang one extra stocking next Christmas! Sending much love and positive vibes your way and good luck for January! Merry Christmas ⛄🎄⛄
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