7dp5dt positive...scared history will repeat

[Li12]

Picture attached.

My fresh transfer before this one ended in a chemical at 13dp5dt.

It has taken all the joy of seeing a positive this time and im now terrified 😨.

This is sooooo hard!

[Char2383]

Sending you so much strength right now! I’ve had 2 chemicals and have said to my partner that the next time I see a positive (hopefully) that I will be scared. BUT, I really would encourage you to be optimistic and enjoy this moment, you are pregnant! Congratulations ✨ My advise would be to wait at least 48 hours, maybe more, until you test again. Wishing you all the best lovely 🍀 xxx

[Li12 in reply to Char2383]

I love seeing those words....you are pregnant 🥲. Thank you so much. I knew many have and will feel the same, we are all in a similar boat and its nice to know everyone here understands.Plan to wait 2 or 3 days to re test...think it will have to be 2 before I go out my mind!!! But when I come to test I will be a wreck with nerves all over again.

Sending positive vibes to you for your next transfer. We can do this!!

[Char2383 in reply to Li12]

Exactly! And thank you too 🍀🤞🏼 Keep that frame of mind lovely, you’ve got this, once again… you ARE pregnant!! Believe it lovely, wishing you all the best and sending all that sticky baby dust, if it’s meant to be then it will. Big happy hugs xxx

[Millbanks]

That looks like a good line for 7dp 5dt! Everything crossed for you xxx

[Li12 in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you so much....I so hope this one sticks.Congratulations to you btw xx

[Millbanks in reply to Li12]

It’s a great start. In my experience it’s the late BFPs that tend to have issues. This looks really good!Aww thank you. Unbelievable really ❤️❤️❤️ Xxx

[bearblue]

I totally agree with Millbanks, that’s a strong line for just 7dp. It’s usually to early for a lot to even get a line. So congratulations you are definitely pregnant. I know it must be scared and tbh it’s a pretty normal feeling. Take each day as it comes and that’s all you can do for now. But now You are pregnant. Well done .

[Kjc999]

I understand how you feel completely. But like others have said you are pregnant. I am d4p5dt and had a chemicle with my last fresh cycle. Sending you loads of positive vibes x

[Kjc999 in reply to Kjc999]

We got this 👍

[Snurf]

I suggest you ask your clinic for blood tests. I had a chemical last time so insisted (and paid for) day 9 and day 12 HcG levels to be checked. You need both to see if they’re rising appropriately. It’s the reason I stopped panicking this time as was a much more useful way of knowing what’s going on

[Fruitandflowers]

Congratulations!

I had two chemicals back to back on my fresh transfers and it made me super anxious for this FET - I was testing on FRERs twice a day... And I get what you mean about the joy being sucked out of it - I kept waiting for the 'inevitable' when it would be bad news and not letting myself get too excited about the positive as I assumed it wouldn't last.

This time I got HCGs done from a few days after my first positive and booked again for two days later to check doubling. My lines had continued to darken on the two chemicals and I got 2-3 weeks on CBDs quite early so I knew that these wouldn't reassure me. I also paid for a private HCG test around 3wks post FET. I got my progesterone checked each time too as that seems to have been the issue with the two previous.

I'm now 8+3 and whilst I don't think you 'need' to do any of this, HCG seems to be the most reliable way to know things are going in the right direction - the levels this time were vastly different to my chemicals so it's also helped me to understand that the other two probably weren't viable from very early on. I really hope it works out for you x