Scared to test...

[JayceeAus]

I'm nearly 43 on my IVF donor eggs TWW. I've had cramps, nausea, bloated and gassy. I'm either pregnant or sick

I'm scared to test incase it's not good news. Anyone else feel scared?

[Facingreality]

I felt very scared when I tested just one week after transfer. (But I couldn't help it, I had to check.) My hands shook when I saw the positive result. I felt happy and excited.

The pregnancy did not work out, lost at 6weeks unfortunately.

Next time, I think I will just wait it out.

Even after a positive test, I think one can only feel a measure of relief after safely going through the first trimester when the risk of loss significantly lowers.

Good luck to you! Stay positive.