I need some honest realistic stories! I’m here for the good the bad and the ugly!!

[Matilda04]

Hey everyone. I have been spending a few days trying to be hopeful but today has got the better of me.

I actually feel all I need now is some truthful stories to help me come to terms with potential 4th loss 😔

I had a sudden bleed and cramping and it stopped after 1 minute or so and haven’t had anything since. Anyone had the same?

Wednesday -Gush of blood - dark red and positive test.

Thursday -positive test.Saturday positive test.

Sunday - Today. Haven’t tested but I’ll be going for bloods tomorrow expecting it to by quite low.

Haven’t had any bleeding since Wednesday.

Maybe this will result in surgical removal!! I think I just need a little support getting my head around this. AGAIN!

Any stories good or bad! I’m here for it if you feel happy to share. ❤️

[MissSaoPaulo]

God, the waiting is so awful isn't it. Hope it's positive news tomorrow. I have a good and a bad. Good - 20 month old from our very first transfer. Bad - I've just miscarried at 8 weeks from our second transfer. Embryo had stopped developing at 5+6. I thought I was dealing with it, but the pain and bleeding and passing tissue on Friday was extremely distressing. Hoping that's the worst of it over now.

Sending you big hugs and positive vibes xxx

[Twiglet2]

I’ve had 2 episodes of bleeding one good result one bad. First one ended in chemical pregnancy around 6.5 weeks but I did continue to spot bleed most days after test with that positive test, although mostly wasn’t heavy until the tests showed negative, I then had really heavy cramping and bleeding and passed the embryo. Clinic confirmed with HCG the miscarriage.

2nd positive test and again bleeding including massive bright red blood and clots (on slight cramping though for a short while) HCG was rising so had a scan at 5.5 weeks where the could see sac but also a subchorionic hematoma (blood clot) bleeding continued for weeks including another massive bright red bleed with clots but stopped at 10 weeks and I’m currently 38 weeks with no more bleeding since.

Hope your results today are good news and wishing you all the best 💜 xx

[Matilda04 in reply to Twiglet2]

Wow. That must have been so so stressful for you. Thank you so much for sharing. It really helps xxx

[Twiglet2 in reply to Matilda04]

The good the bad and the ugly will be worth it for us all I’m sure 🤗 xx

[Charlie1399]

I had a massive amount of bleeding with my daughter from weeks 6 to 12. Every day, every colour. Sometimes golf ball sized clots. Twice I was taken into the hospital and told I was miscarrying. It stopped at week 12 and the pregnancy was going great. Unfortunately she was born prematurely at 23+3 due to an undetected incompetent cervix. She died at 5 weeks old. But apparently in no way was that connected to the bleeding. I hope that your pregnancy goes well for you and it’s nothing to be worried about.

[Matilda04 in reply to Charlie1399]

I am so sorry to read this and thank you for sharing ❤️

[HMKing in reply to Charlie1399]

That’s is so sad... I really am sorry xx

[Charlie1399 in reply to HMKing]

Thank you very much. Xx