The closer tomorrow comes ..... the more my inner freak out builds 😫😖😣
She said the same stuff as the last time but this time all I heard was ...... it’s a low grade , it might not survive the thaw, don’t leave the house until we are sure the transfer is happening 🤭🤔 not feeling the confidence at all. ( she said Grade c and that was all)
Ivf is scary. And scary and did I say scary? 😱
The anxiety def builds the more twists and turns ya go through.😰
Dear husband told Me to focus on the fact that 90% of embryos survive the thaw and to go for a walk. 😩😤.....Sooooooooo helpful as he is off doing his own thing whilst I get myself in a knot at home.
So easy to tell which one of us is full of hormones right now 🤪😜🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅
I’m defo going for a walk with loud music though! I’d love a glass of wine and a cappuccino with a side of doughnut and French fries 🍟🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Trying to hold on to hope at least until this pain of the journey is over 🙏🏻 Not long to see if it’s for happening or not 🤭
Hugs to anyone else in the FET limbo land 💖🤣💐
May all of the frozen 🧊 eggs 🥚 of hope make it 🙏🏻💖💐😘
Rhinocat 🦏 🐈 x
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Good luck lovely, you can do this. Sending you so much positivity and luck and hope this is the sticky one! Ignore the grades etc.. I know so many people whose baby has come from the worst embryos they froze. All will be well x
I agree with Hidden ignore the grades. My friend recently gave birth to a grade 3/4. And I've heard plenty of people on here also getting pregnant with low grades. My embryologist said that quite often when there is fragmentation (which is often what gives them a lower grade) the embryos often get rid of it/repair it when they multiply or even draw from it to get extra nutrients. Really rooting for you hun! Every embryo has a chance! 💪💕😘💗🙏🥚 Xxx
Oh ! This sounds like me! Vague embryologist, even vaguer consultant who did the transfer. Left deflated and sad... at home now and trying to keep my spirits up!Hope ur ok and the transfer goes well xx
I guess they get to see everyone’s story and ours is just another to them! Not helpful eh 🙄 Hope you are ok and able to chill and feel relax now 🙏🏻😘💖💐💐💐💐💐💐💐 #letitbe 🙏🏻💐
All the best RhinoCat. Sending you positive vibes and will have you in my thoughts. 💫
I remembered being really scared of getting the call that my one and only embryo during my first cycle would not survive the thaw so I do get how you feel!
I am loving your positivity and humour! 😀 I pray all will be well tomorrow. 🙏🏾❤️
Dear 🦏 🐈 it has to work. I will pray for you tonight 🙏🏼💪🏼🙏🏼 you are such a strong woman and you deserve this so much. Fingers crossed this is your lucky beautiful healthy 🥚
Yip not bad, in the middle of nasal spray hell 😂 next scan on Tuesday so hopefully lining will be thick enough to start the pessaries and injections! The fun is never ending 🤯😂
Yeah, to be honest I was shocked she said about it because my clinic don’t normally say grade . They usually say top grade , good grade etc..... think I was talking to miss fact . I’ll not sleep tonight or else I will wake far too early 🥺😅
Awww RhinoCat, embryologists sure can be creatures of doom and gloom. I guess they need to prepare you but it really doesnt help the nerves. I've seen a few ladies on here have successful pregnancies on here never mind thaws so it defo can happen!! I hope the walk helped clear your head a little. Got fingers and toes crossed for you tomorrow....sending positive vibes too!! Good luck.🤞🏻🙏🏻🥰🤗xxx
Awe, crossing fingers for you, really hoping it's your time for a little miracle!! Try to get some sleep if you can, think of it meaning tomorrow will come faster. Goodluck🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
Oh RhinoCat, so sorry for you. This just stinks!! I read your cycle stopped as egg didn't survive the thaw. Not fair!, be sad, be angry, get answers as to why, grieve and after a while pick yourself up and hopefully feel a bit better so you can move forward. Big hugs
Good luck for tomorrow, I believe grades dont matter as much. My sisters successful ivf outcome was was from the slowest developing embroyo which was a low grade and her linning wasnt thick either just borderline, hence her consultant didnt want to risk any of the 'higher' grade embroyos. He is now a healthy 14 month old, whilst her top grade 'A's in previous rounds never stuck! Baby dust to you xx
Lovely to hear 😘💐 my best blasto didn’t stick either , my last one same quality worked for a bit, who knows 🤷🏼♀️ None of the grading says anything about the genetics so they don’t really know 🤷🏼♀️🙄☺️🤯.... thanks for your lovely message 🙏🏻😘💐
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