Final FET tomorrow at some stage 🤯I love it when the vague embryologist calls 🤷🏼‍♀️🥺

[RhinoCat]

The closer tomorrow comes ..... the more my inner freak out builds 😫😖😣

She said the same stuff as the last time but this time all I heard was ...... it’s a low grade , it might not survive the thaw, don’t leave the house until we are sure the transfer is happening 🤭🤔 not feeling the confidence at all. ( she said Grade c and that was all)

Ivf is scary. And scary and did I say scary? 😱

The anxiety def builds the more twists and turns ya go through.😰

Dear husband told Me to focus on the fact that 90% of embryos survive the thaw and to go for a walk. 😩😤.....Sooooooooo helpful as he is off doing his own thing whilst I get myself in a knot at home.

So easy to tell which one of us is full of hormones right now 🤪😜🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅

I’m defo going for a walk with loud music though! I’d love a glass of wine and a cappuccino with a side of doughnut and French fries 🍟🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

Trying to hold on to hope at least until this pain of the journey is over 🙏🏻 Not long to see if it’s for happening or not 🤭

Hugs to anyone else in the FET limbo land 💖🤣💐

May all of the frozen 🧊 eggs 🥚 of hope make it 🙏🏻💖💐😘

Rhinocat 🦏 🐈 x

[Hidden]

MEN!!! haha

Good luck lovely, you can do this. Sending you so much positivity and luck and hope this is the sticky one! Ignore the grades etc.. I know so many people whose baby has come from the worst embryos they froze. All will be well x

[RhinoCat in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Daisy 🌼

[Lovemylion]

I agree with Hidden ignore the grades. My friend recently gave birth to a grade 3/4. And I've heard plenty of people on here also getting pregnant with low grades. My embryologist said that quite often when there is fragmentation (which is often what gives them a lower grade) the embryos often get rid of it/repair it when they multiply or even draw from it to get extra nutrients. Really rooting for you hun! Every embryo has a chance! 💪💕😘💗🙏🥚 Xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to Lovemylion]

Love this 🌷 thank you 🙏🏻

[Faith103]

Keep positive ❤️❤️ sending luck your way for tomorrow xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to Faith103]

Thanks so much 🌺

[Hidden]

U were so close last time! You can def do it 💐💐💐

[RhinoCat in reply to Hidden]

😱🤷🏼‍♀️😘😘😘😘💖🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💐

[Hidden]

Oh ! This sounds like me! Vague embryologist, even vaguer consultant who did the transfer. Left deflated and sad... at home now and trying to keep my spirits up!Hope ur ok and the transfer goes well xx

[RhinoCat in reply to Hidden]

I guess they get to see everyone’s story and ours is just another to them! Not helpful eh 🙄 Hope you are ok and able to chill and feel relax now 🙏🏻😘💖💐💐💐💐💐💐💐 #letitbe 🙏🏻💐

[hifer]

Loads of luck for tomorrow. Thinking of you and keeping everything crossed 🤞 🤞xx

[RhinoCat in reply to hifer]

Thanks so much Hifer 😘🙏🏻💐 Hope you’re ok 👌🏻

[Miracle43]

Lots of luck for tomorrow 🍀🍀🍀🍀. I know it’s hard but try to keep positive.

Everything crossed for you xx

[RhinoCat in reply to Miracle43]

Thanks 😘💖💐

[KiboXX]

I’ve got bloody everything crossed for tomorrow. Come on little frostie. I’ve got faith ♥️♥️♥️♥️ xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to KiboXX]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🥚🧊🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😘💖💐 Thanks Kibo 😘💖🙏🏻💐

[Millbanks]

I love this - I want wine too!! Sending you all the luck in the world xx

[RhinoCat in reply to Millbanks]

🥛 cheers 🤣😘💖🙏🏻💐

[Millbanks in reply to RhinoCat]

🍷

[Vicster80]

Best of luck for tomorrow RhinoCat. Got everything crossed for you xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to Vicster80]

Thanks so much 🤪😘💖🙏🏻💐

[JoyfulStar]

All the best RhinoCat. Sending you positive vibes and will have you in my thoughts. 💫

I remembered being really scared of getting the call that my one and only embryo during my first cycle would not survive the thaw so I do get how you feel!

I am loving your positivity and humour! 😀 I pray all will be well tomorrow. 🙏🏾❤️

[RhinoCat in reply to JoyfulStar]

Thanks so much 🙏🏻💐💖

[Chel91]

Best of luck lovely, will be thinking of you! 🤞🏻🙏🏻💖💗 xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to Chel91]

Thanks pet 😘💖🙏🏻💐 hope you’re ok 😘💐

[Corchi]

Dear 🦏 🐈 it has to work. I will pray for you tonight 🙏🏼💪🏼🙏🏼 you are such a strong woman and you deserve this so much. Fingers crossed this is your lucky beautiful healthy 🥚

[RhinoCat in reply to Corchi]

I hope I hope I hope 💃🏼🙏🏻💖😘🥚🌺

[Jam-master]

Good luck for tomorrow!! Will be thinking of you xx

[RhinoCat in reply to Jam-master]

Thanks 😊😘💖💐 are ya getting on ok?

[Jam-master in reply to RhinoCat]

Yip not bad, in the middle of nasal spray hell 😂 next scan on Tuesday so hopefully lining will be thick enough to start the pessaries and injections! The fun is never ending 🤯😂

[Picalilli99]

Lots of luck for tomorrow lovely 🍀. Hoping so much for you that this little one is a keeper 🙏. Will be thinking of you. You’ve got this 😘 xx

[RhinoCat in reply to Picalilli99]

Thanks 😘💖💐 it’s a Wee bit hard right now 😣

[butterfliez]

Wishing you the best of luck for tomorrow, I hope your little embryo is the one & everything goes ahead as planned. Will be thinking of you !

(I hated the waiting for the embryologist calls & dreaded what they were going to say)

I didn’t have any grades for my embryos sometimes it’s good not to know all that , fingers crossed this is it !! Xx

[RhinoCat in reply to butterfliez]

Yeah, to be honest I was shocked she said about it because my clinic don’t normally say grade . They usually say top grade , good grade etc..... think I was talking to miss fact . I’ll not sleep tonight or else I will wake far too early 🥺😅

[PurplePiggie]

So sorry you've been given this added anxiety, will be thinking of you tomorrow and sending you all the positivity 😘😘 xx

[RhinoCat in reply to PurplePiggie]

Thanks so much 😘

[Jonesy84]

I still have my fingers crossed from last time 🤞 such an anxious time but you got this xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to Jonesy84]

🤪 thanks 🙏🏻😘💐💐💐💐💐

[Panda16]

Will be thinking of you tomorrow and sending positive vibes. Xx

[Cinderella5]

Awww RhinoCat, embryologists sure can be creatures of doom and gloom. I guess they need to prepare you but it really doesnt help the nerves. I've seen a few ladies on here have successful pregnancies on here never mind thaws so it defo can happen!! I hope the walk helped clear your head a little. Got fingers and toes crossed for you tomorrow....sending positive vibes too!! Good luck.🤞🏻🙏🏻🥰🤗xxx

[Pittapatta]

Awe, crossing fingers for you, really hoping it's your time for a little miracle!! Try to get some sleep if you can, think of it meaning tomorrow will come faster. Goodluck🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

[RhinoCat in reply to Pittapatta]

Got a good sleep. Still waiting on THAT call 🥺🤪💐

[Pittapatta in reply to RhinoCat]

Oh RhinoCat, so sorry for you. This just stinks!! I read your cycle stopped as egg didn't survive the thaw. Not fair!, be sad, be angry, get answers as to why, grieve and after a while pick yourself up and hopefully feel a bit better so you can move forward. Big hugs

[Sammy246]

Good luck for tomorrow, I believe grades dont matter as much. My sisters successful ivf outcome was was from the slowest developing embroyo which was a low grade and her linning wasnt thick either just borderline, hence her consultant didnt want to risk any of the 'higher' grade embroyos. He is now a healthy 14 month old, whilst her top grade 'A's in previous rounds never stuck! Baby dust to you xx

[RhinoCat in reply to Sammy246]

Lovely to hear 😘💐 my best blasto didn’t stick either , my last one same quality worked for a bit, who knows 🤷🏼‍♀️ None of the grading says anything about the genetics so they don’t really know 🤷🏼‍♀️🙄☺️🤯.... thanks for your lovely message 🙏🏻😘💐