No again after 7 attempts

[Angels2us]

Hi I did post on here earlier, it is hard any I know so many of you have had the same if not worse I just thought this was the one , well got it wrong yet again, I am waiting on bloods now just to confirm.

Heads been spinning, haven’t got the funds at the moment to go again , I was thinking aboard because it’s cheaper, I need donor embryo, but I know there’s still no guarantee again

Now I thinking adopting, but I really only want a baby new born, I thinking there probably hard to get ? I don’t know, if I went aboard would I have more of a chance at getting a baby , does anyone know please ? Sorry got going on just feel, Well you know xxxx.

[Miracle43]

You have so much going on and I know sometimes it helps to deal with if you have a plan, what to do next. I totally understand how you’re feeling ❤️

I can’t really offer any advice, I’m in a similar situation as you know.

See what your bloods come back with.

Abroad maybe cheaper but with everything going on at the moment travel can be restricted. Unfortunately we have no guarantees 😢.

Adoption is another option, friends adopted a beautiful little girls age was 9months old. Maybe take sometime to process what you are going through and see how you feel xx

[Angels2us in reply to Miracle43]

Really twins got how perfect, feel like my hearts been ripped out again , sorry for being downer , I would love to adopt could you ask your friend maybe for some details, how long does it take ? I imagine a while, I really not holding my breath on the bloods but we will see , I prayed so much been married for 23 years now , I am 46 so I not to old to adopt am I ? I wanted to carry my own but I don’t ever think it’s going to happen xxxx

[Miracle43 in reply to Angels2us]

Please do not apologise, cry, scream do what you feel. Yes, I know the feeling of your heart being ripped out 😢.

I don’t think you are too old at all to adopt.

I think it took all in all about 12months, I have another work colleague who fosters, they have had quite a few babies, they have also adopted one of those babies, maybe that’s an Avenue to also look into.

Like you I want to keep trying, it’s an individual choice on how much you keep trying, I’m here to support you if I can xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Angels. So sorry t hear that you have been through so much, and I hope you've got plenty of support and maybe some counselling from your clinic? I assume you have had all tests to check your womb out via a hysteroscopy and your Fallopian tubes are OK. It's hard to know where to go from here, trying again, egg donation or perhaps trying to look at adoption. However, to do that, you need to have given up all forms of fertility treatment. There are many adoption agencies around, so perhaps see your GP and see if he/she can recommend where to go. Obviously I wish you success with whatever you decide. Diane

[Angels2us in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you xx

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Hi my friend used to foster babies sometimes from birth it does take quite sometime as usually there not given up by birth parents they’re taken into care and have to go through the progress of courts etc usually 6-9 mths but still babies. I have a few friends who have adopted multiple children.

[Angels2us]

Really , I know my heads every where at the moment but I would get a baby to love and.cherish for sure could you message me some details , I been trying for 18 years now just feel heart broken xxxx

[Kookypie]

I'm so sorry Angels2us. If the world was fair you would definitely deserve a baby by now! I don't know why the world works the way it does. It honestly seems like you've tried everything.

I think looking into adoption is good as even if you do have more treatment at least you have a clearer plan B which might help focus you. I think I am going to do this if my next FET fails.

It's obvious you have a lot of love to give so an adopted child would be lucky to have you x

[Angels2us in reply to Kookypie]

Yes definitely I don’t think I can do it again plus I am 46 I know I was using donor embryo for a younger person, but still there is no guarantee, Xxxxxx