Broken mirror day before embryo transfer

[Claire1sticsi]

I have always been a little superstitious.....

my frozen embryo transfer is booked for 14.30pm tomorrow and my other half has just knocked the hallway mirror off of the wall while sweeping.... smashed into pieces....

so silly but now I’ve got so much dread for tomorrow..... where I was calm

[Beanybeanz]

Don’t worry 😊 it will have absolutely no effect on the outcome - same as worrying, having a takeaway, an accidental smidge of blue cheese or the odd small glass of wine in the weeks before beginning ivf - all things people worry about but if they were massively detrimental no babies would ever be born 😃 you’re not the first and certainly won’t be the last who smashes a mirror before conceiving! Relax and enjoy a quiet Christmas with lots of lovely chocs in front of the TV xxx

[Beanybeanz in reply to Beanybeanz]

p.s great excuse to buy yourself a fancy new mirror! Xxx

[Claire1sticsi in reply to Beanybeanz]

Thank you xx just haven’t been thinking too much about tomorrow really, I suffered from a chemical in august so haven’t really got too excited about this and have taken each day as it comes with no planning too far ahead but that did make me have a massive melt down. It’s so true about how others conceive etc think we just all know too much and want to blame it on something if it doesn’t work. Thank you for replying....

Sending baby dust and best Christmas wishes to you xxx

Ps a new £90 Zara mirror ordered..... he will be more careful next time lol xx

[Bluelady-sing]

No black cats good luck

[Claire1sticsi in reply to Bluelady-sing]

God I hope not lol x

[Goldie24]

Please don’t worry. When I got home from my lining scan there were two robins sat on my husband car bonnet and I was convinced it was a sign from my grandmas to say everything would be ok this time. Then my transfer was scheduled for my uncles anniversary so I thought that was a sign too and then I saw two magpies on the way to the clinic. When we got home my husbands rugby team played amazingly and won (rare occurrence), followed by an England win. And I dreamed of positive pregnancy tests in the run up to the OTD. Then I got a BFN 😂😂 and now I think it’s all a load of bollocks! We desperately search for signs and superstitious nonsense and I do it to the extreme but it really is just rubbish xxx