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Hi ladies, so i haven't posted on here for some time after 2 failed rounds. Had a double embryo transfer yesterday of 2 good quality blasts which was amazing as this was the round with the lowest number of embryos and I waa convinced we would have nothing to transfer.

The transfer was emotional, the staff were amazing and even videoed the time lapse for me and gave me the catheter to take away. Although i relaxed all day yesterday my nerves are shot, I'm jumpy and my stomach keeps flipping over like I'm full of nerves. I'm worried I'm going to ruin the chances of implantation through being ridiculous. Woke up through the night after a nightmare and was boiling hot which got me worrying I had overheated, so sent me straight back to google πŸ™ˆ. Deep breaths!! Does anyone else feel like this or is it just me?

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DanABC20

Baby dust to you 😘

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Thank you xx

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Jane8412

Congratulations on your double transfer. I had my transfer on Saturday and had terrible nightmares on Sunday night. I figure it is my body being super stressed. I hope you start feeling better soon. This process is tough enough without your sleep being affected too. Sending you lots of luck xx

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Thank you, I'm throwing myself into work in an attempt to keep off google πŸ™ˆ.Congrats on your transfer too, it's so nice getting to this stage but also mental torture. Wishing you a sane 2ww and fingers crossed for your BFP xx

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Thank you xx

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Baggit

Lots of luck and πŸ’•! It will be positive this time!

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Thanks so much xx

Beautiful embryos! I had one transferred yesterday too. Don’t be hard on yourself, I am sure you’re not doing anything that can effect the result. Otherwise no one with infertility would ever fall pregnant as it’s so stressful and emotional! Good luck for the next 2 week’s, I hope these are the 2 for you!

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strawberriesandcreamβ€’ in reply tostrawberriesandcream

I also had a nightmare last night that I went out and got smashed and ruined my chances...was relieved to wake up sober 🀣🀣🀣🀣

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This made me laugh!! Last night I dreamed axe murderers were trying to get into my house, I need to watch some more light hearted tv before bed I think πŸ™ˆ. I tried to listen to some meditation music in bed too but it just ended up irritating me πŸ€ͺThank you for your reply too, makes me feel a bit better about my craziness! Wishing you all the best too xx

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Sparklylife

Wishing you all the best πŸ₯°πŸ€ž

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Thank you xx

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Olivia1980xxx

Welcome in 2ww hun.

I had my transfer on Saturday and I was very emotional.

When is your OTD ?

Is easy say they done but we need to stay positive πŸ™πŸŒˆ

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Strangely it's the 15th, apparently they've shortened the test time now so its 8 days, probably why im so nervous!I was emotional this time too, I haven't been for the others.

Do you have a 14 day wait? Wishing you all the best for it, what a christmas present that would be 🀞 xx

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My OTD is on 16th .

I don’t even want to buy a test and do it. I

sow to many time just one line that seeing again scared me so muchπŸ˜”xx

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I know that feeling, im dreading the test but trying to imagine how it would feel if it was positive and holding onto that thought xx

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