I’ve tested 11dpt, due to test tomorrow. It’s negative. I’m guessing that’s it now? It’s over?

[Sunny39]

I have work tomo and I’m off today so I tested so I could brace myself for tomorrow. Could it still be possible? Or do you sometimes get a positive a few days later then expected?

It’s my first ever round. Thanks in advance. I know the reply’s may not be what I want to hear, but I appreciate your honesty and help x x x

[Lisichka]

Hi there SunnyI’m sorry that it’s a bfn. I don’t want to be negative, but from my experience, if it’s a bfn from day 8 onwards, it’s not a good sign. It depends on the test too so I only ever use First Response as they’re very sensitive.

Take care xxx

[Sunny39 in reply to Lisichka]

Thank you Lisichka. I thought that too to be honest. Of course you always have that tiny shred of hope 😏. Yeah that’s the ones I’ve been using. It sounds weird but I kind of weirdly lost hope around Sunday, which isn’t like me, I think I knew then. I’m sorry to ask, or remind you of a bad time for you. Thank you for your honesty x x x

[Lisichka in reply to Sunny39]

I wish I could be more positive! And yes, I know you always hold out that bit of hope for OTD. I remember I tested negative too on day 10 but still went for a blood test and of course it was a bfn but I did have a tiny hope that it would be positive. Don’t give up hope, your next cycle could be the one! IVF is a numbers game, eventually most of us get there! It took me 5 transfers but many people get lucky a lot sooner. It’ll happen xxx

[Sunny39 in reply to Lisichka]

No I really did want honesty, and its helpful to finally know one way or the other. It sucks, but we will be ok ☺️ It’s just so disappointing x x x

[Hk12]

Hi Sunny39, I don’t want to be negative but I remember being in your position not long ago and asking people whether results can change if I had a negative on 10dp5dt... unfortunately, I was told by the nurse that it’s very unlikely and when I tested again 12dp5dt, it was BFN again.. I’m so sorry... this process is so cruel. Please take good care of yourself and fingers crossed it will work next time xx

[Sunny39 in reply to Hk12]

Thank you, it’s so heartbreaking, but I knew the chances of success were stacked against me all the way through. It just seems so cruel that you make it to this stage and then have it taken away. I know others have had it happen much later and that must be so much harder. Yes I will, I do have one frozen so I’m of course hoping that one might work, but I will have a few months off for my sanity I think. I know I’m lucky to have one last try.

Thank you for your reply x x x

[Hk12 in reply to Sunny39]

Sunny, it’s so cruel and heartbreaking but you are right, probability is against us that’s why it’s called a numbers game and as we try more probability increases! I remember feeling so lost after the first failed FET.. I’m so happy you have another frostie so wish you best of luck!! Only advise I can give is to check your thyroid and progesterone levels before your next transfer. Heard these are very important. Good luck ❤️❤️

[Sunny39 in reply to Hk12]

Thank you, I will get them to check x x x