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Next step after 3rd failed transfer

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So far, I have had 4 retrievals and 3 transfers. I had the first 2 transfers with my former clinic, after the 2nd failed transfer I was advised to try egg donor. We decided to change clinic to try again with another doctor before thinking of egg donor. I don’t know if I should just give up now

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ToughCOOKIE78

I’m so sorry to hear about your failed transfer hun 😢I was rooting for you! I know it’s really hard....how old are you?

I’m 40 and after 3 failed cycles I’ve decided to move to egg donor (and as you know my first cycle hasn’t gone as planned...).

There’s a lot of emotions involved but at the end of the day I see it as when someone needs blood or an organ, they have a donor.

This is the same thing, we just need help and it’s ok to get it.

Let me know if you want to take more about this, happy to help ❤️Xxx

Stay strong!

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Sharon2000 in reply to ToughCOOKIE78

Thank you for rooting for me. I am 41 and I think I wld just move on to egg donor at this point. And yes , please I don’t mind talking about it.

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ToughCOOKIE78 in reply to Sharon2000

Feel free to drop me a private message and ask everything you’d like to know xx

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Vhee

Hello Sharon, i’m really sorry to hear it ended in a BFN for you. Please look into donor eggs at this point and please don’t give up. When you finally hear the cry of that baby it will be worth it all.

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Sharon2000 in reply to Vhee

Thank you so much Vhee for looking out. I wld definitely look into donor eggs at this point. ❤️ to your twins

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Lapinblanc88

What were the reasons for the failed transfers? Was it the embryos or your uterus receptivity?Were the embryos genetically tested?

I don't think you should give up using your own eggs either.

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