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I’m officially crazy. I can’t sleep at night for laying in bed awake trying to notice any tell tale cramping pains. I’m convinced it hasn’t work. 😢

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jengi

Oh lovely, it’s so hard to calm our minds when we so desperately want to get a BFP. If it helps I had no symptoms at all other than a bleed at 6 weeks which totally freaked me out. I use the Calm App & when I have those sleepless episodes in the middle of the night I put my earphones in & listen to a sleep story. Most of the time it is enough to distract my crazy brain & send me off sleep, sometimes my brain is just too wired & I don’t think anything would help. Hope you have a positive outcome & that your 2WW doesn’t drag by too much. Good luck Xx

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Millbanks in reply to jengi

Hi lovely, hope you're doing well! With your BFP you had no symptoms - even no sore boobs? I'm a bit obsessed with the boob thing at the moment! xx

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Sarah83ap

oh love, I feel you. It’s so hard. I tried some meditation. Just 10 mins a day. It’s helped. I also found meeting friends who had no idea what was going on, helpful as we chatted about normal stuff just fir a couple of hours! Made such a difference xx

Wishing you lots of luck. Keep sane xx

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Pittapatta

Your not crazy, you just want your little miracle! I am sure we have all had a sleepless night because of our great desire to be a mum! As the other ladies have suggested try to relax. Sometimes it helps to do things that distract you, read a book, listen to music etc. It is important that you also get some time during the day for your focus to be on other things that you enjoy, value just so you can have a break for a little while. The time will pass faster and you will find out how everything is.Stay strong, stay positive, you've got this!!

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Lissydoll_88

Jhenderson i am also 3dpt5dt and feeling like it hasnt worked. I feel no different than normal (i know its too early to feel pregnant) but im just so worried it hasnt worked. This is our 1st cycle, and we didnt have anything to freeze 😥

Good luck xxx

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Jhenderson in reply to Lissydoll_88

Im really struggling to keep a positive mind set today. Keep me posted on your you are feeling and good luck xx

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JenRoy

I’m the same! 5dp2dt. Feeling totally normal. The odd cramp and feeling a bit bloated from progesterone. 3rd cycle with nothing frozen. Just trying to keep sane 🤪xx

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Jhenderson in reply to JenRoy

Did you have any symptoms for your first successful round? I did, I’m sure I was cramping by now, this time I felt some mild cramping on the day of transfer but nothing since. Xx

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Millbanks

When I woke during the night during my 2ww's I would lay on the sofa and listen to a meditation from youtube or just some calming music. Alice Rose is also excellent for short meditations to help you get through it. She's recently released one specifically for the 2ww. Wishing you lots of luck xx

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Cmc2020

I was just coming on to write a post about being 2dp5dt and this one was the first that popped up 😂🙈I am climbing the walls already and it’s only the second day I am trying to stay positive but it’s really hard my test day is next sat 😳

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Jhenderson in reply to Cmc2020

Are you having any symptoms? Keep in touch with how you are doing xx

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LisaBeatrix1980

It’s such a tough wait, hang in there I know it’s hard. If it helps I didn’t have any symptoms or twinges until about d6, just some slight pinching but that was all. Fingers crossed for you. If you haven’t already, try the IVF meditation app, it helped me calm down a lot during the waiting. Good luck x

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Megandmog

I am in the same boat, also 3dp5dt. Zero symptoms so far 🤷🏼‍♀️ but I do know a lot of ladies who had zero symptoms and still got their BFP. All I have is sore boobs, but I’ve had them since stimming.

I’m still working from home which has been a brilliant distraction for me. I thought I’d be worse than I am.

We can get through this 💪🏻 xxx

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raxi

im in the same boat its 5dp5dt. its actually driving me up the wall and due to having to self quarantine, bloods should have been on the 29th October I am now being told not do a test and wait till I can have my bloods done on the 5th November.

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Odette2016

I had mine yesterday and I feel nothing at all, don’t feel any different apart from I could cry but I think that’s just relief that transfer went well! It’s going to be a long two weeks but you have got this. On my last FET I overthought everything and was convinced I was pregnant. This time I’m promising myself I’m going to stay calm x

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