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Feeling a bit low today 😢

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Hey,

Hope everyone is well! I had a FET last Saturday with a really good embryo, but have had no symptoms this week at all (last time I had a bfp I had spotting and cramps). I also feel like I have my regular period pains today, and I’m due on in the next day or two so they’re right on time.

I’m feeling really deflated at the moment like it’s never going to happen. I have two frozen embryos but I’m feeling negative about everything. My husband is also pretty negative and I need some encouragement really!!

I know it’s such a journey, but as I fell pregnant on my first go (which sadly ended in a miscarriage this past April) I’m just feeling lost. I’m normally the post upbeat and positive person normally, so I feel like I’ve let myself down with my negativity.

Anyone feeling the same or have any advice? Xx

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Niki_B

Hey hun, seems like your at that stage in the 2ww where the sense of failure or it hasnt worked sets in..totally normal. With both my pregnancys (sadly first one ended in MMC at 11 weeks) I had NO spotting or implantation bleeding at all both times. The one thing I did have both times...was cramps which felt exactly like AF cramps. So in my eyes cramps are a good sign. Just try and hang in there you've got every chance! I have everything crossed for your OTD. Sending hugs and lots of baby dust 😘💖

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Catlady12345 in reply to Niki_B

Thanks Niki 😊 xxx

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Catlady12345 in reply to Niki_B

I spoke too soon, have just come on my period 🙁 I guess I just need to pull myself together for the next round xx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Catlady12345

Awww I'm sorry Catlady!!😥 Hugs.xx

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Peanutchips in reply to Catlady12345

I’m so sorry. It’s so hard. Sending love. Be kind and do something nice for yourself over the coming days xxx

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Niki_B in reply to Catlady12345

Aww I'm sorry hun. BFN are always so heartbreaking. Look after yourself and I hope you have a good support network around you. Big big hugs xxxx

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Faith103

❤️❤️❤️ always here if you want to talk. Look after yourself.xxxx

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Twiglet2

So sorry to hear this one didn’t work out for you 😢 sending hugs take extra care of yourself xxx

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