Is this a BFP?: Hi ladies Hoping for... - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

51,964 members57,465 posts

Is this a BFP?

Still_Waiting profile image
22 Replies

Images are hidden by default on this community.

Hi ladies

Hoping for some help. I am on CD34, I’m not sure what day I ovulated as I’ve recently miscarried and was taking some time out but it’s usually around day 14/15.

My cycle is usually 24 days so at 34 I am well overdue. I did a frer on CD 32 and if you squinted very hard there was the weakest suggestion of a line. Started with some symptoms so waited 2 more days and did another frer this morning.

This time I am sure there is a line, so I did a digital which came back BFN!

I know the frer is more sensitive and so will wait a couple more days and try a digital again but I’m going crazy?

Am I pregnant or not? And if I’m almost 20dpo and am does this mean my hcg is not rising quickly enough and im going to have another miscarriage?

Sorry for the ramble my brain is in overdrive, esp as die to isolation I’ve got nothing to take my mind off things!!

Written by
Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
22 Replies
FrancyItaly profile image
FrancyItaly

I’m sorry for your loss. When did you miscarry?

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to FrancyItaly

At the beginning of February. I’ve had one period since the miscarriage, so this was my first month of a normal cycle since.

It took us three years to get that first BFP so can’t quite believe it’s happened again so quick. And with the tests being contradictory I think it’s too good to be true

FrancyItaly profile image
FrancyItaly in reply to Still_Waiting

Ah ok. I would test with a first response early result. That’s the most accurate and at this point the lines should be well dark with that one. Good luck! 💕

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to FrancyItaly

I think this is a first response one. Guess that doesn’t look good then 😞

FrancyItaly profile image
FrancyItaly in reply to Still_Waiting

Which one? The one in the photo is a Clearblue.

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to FrancyItaly

Doh! Sorry it’s not first response. But it is supposed to be an early one. Do you think the first response are better?

FrancyItaly profile image
FrancyItaly in reply to Still_Waiting

Yes they are.

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to FrancyItaly

Thank you - I’ll order some of those. What a rollercoaster xx

Bobbie7 profile image
Bobbie7

Hi x I'm sorry for your lost as well. I am kinda in the same position as you. However I miscarried last May. I am 4 days late in this cycle and feeling a little nausea. I did a Lloyds pharmacy early test and there was a very faint line but I think this was outside of the testing window. I think we both need to keep calm ( she says)and try another test in a few more days first thing in the morning. I wish you the best of luck xx

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to Bobbie7

Thanks Bobbie! It’s so hard to stay calm isn’t it!! Sending you lots of luck xx

Bobbie7 profile image
Bobbie7 in reply to Still_Waiting

Thank you ❤ Yes it really is. To get me through the days until I am able to carry out an accurate test, I am telling myself this could be it! It feels like it, so I am going to think it is for the time being and hope these next few days flys by! Take care and keep us posted please xx

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to Bobbie7

I’m taking the same approach! Feels like the nicest way to deal with it all.

Keep me posted too! Xxx

Bobbie7 profile image
Bobbie7 in reply to Still_Waiting

Will do xx

KiboXX profile image
KiboXX

I can definitely see a line! I think these clear blue early ones sensitivity is 10 whereas the digital ones are 25 so don’t worry. Try a digital one in a day or two and it will most likely be positive! X

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to KiboXX

Thank you! I’ve been squinting at it all morning!! I’ve got more tests arriving in the post on Monday so will test again then 🤞🏻

Cinderella5 profile image
Cinderella5

Sorry for your previous loss. It certainly looks like a line! You may have ovulated later this month perhaps?!xx

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you, yes I thought that, of maybe it implanted later. I’m getting symptoms so keeping everything crossed

Cinderella5 profile image
Cinderella5 in reply to Still_Waiting

Best of luck!!🤞🏻🙏🏻🤗 xxx

Im so sorry for your loss last month :(

I am praying from the bottom of my heart that your hcg will continue to rise. Because there is a line! The digital ones are not as sensitive. Its easy to say and i didnt follow this advice but please if you can allow a day between the testing and dont drink loads before testing in the early morning. X hope this is the round for you ❤️

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to

Thank you this makes me feel better. I actually can’t test till Monday now because I’ve got no tests left 😂.

Some more coming in the post and I know I won’t got to the shops at the moment for this.

Here’s hoping it carries on rising. For now I’m going to believe it’s real. Feels the best way to deal with it. Xx

Brittnbob5 profile image
Brittnbob5

If day pregnant if the FRER lines are there a line is a line because a chemical line would disappear for sure and I wanna YELL CONGRATULATIONS we need happy times in the midst of this shih

Still_Waiting profile image
Still_Waiting in reply to Brittnbob5

Ah thank you. All these kind words are making me feel better. We really do need some hope don’t we! Xx

You may also like...

BFP!!!!!!!!!!! 😅😅😅

done, what if its no etc, and bloody hell it just did the cross saying pregnant pretty much...

BFP !!!!!!!

disappointment of another negative. But the line was there and it was a strong line too What an...

BFP

Can’t believe we have another BFP the day I’m due to start ivf again (today!). My last BFP was also...

BFP 😊❤❤

Morning ladies so it's a day b4 my date to test and yet again I done another test I don't know how...

BFP

testing since day 3dp5dt 💆🏼‍♀️. I decided to share my sticks with you all🥰! My first Hcg test...