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I said I wasn’t testing today. But after the news last night, I had to be sure. I’m 11DP5DT. I decided to do a Clear Blue Digital- I needed it in black and white. I was shocked it says 2-3 weeks this early. So now I am reassured, I need to speak to work.

They have said pregnant women are to work from home where possible, avoid social gatherings and peak times at the supermarket.

I need to tell my boss that I’m very early days and that I’m taking no risks.

I work in a school, so we may be shutting soon anyway. She did say I could have this week off but needed a drs note.

Anyone else in this position?

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Pinkpaw2

Congratulations x

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Abbywithag

Congratulations, amazing news! Xxxx

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Sammy40

Congratulations! I’m similar to you but 10DP5DT and have just received a positive test. Given the news yesterday I’m planning on working from home from now on Xx

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PurpleLove19 in reply to Sammy40

Congratulations hun. I don’t blame you. We need to keep safe. We have all beeb through enough haven’t we?

I’m worrying about the other pregnant women now- will they be taking the time off but then I thought- have they had IVF? Have their bodies been through treatment? No so I’m doing what I feel is best x

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Sammy40 in reply to PurpleLove19

Thank you! We certainly have been through it so I don't want to be taking any chances. Xx

Congratulations!xx

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Suzy86

I work in a school and have been told I’m not allowed back for the foreseeable future! I would speak to your head and see what they say. If not then your union will back you if you choose to stay home. Congratulations on your positive test!! Xxx

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PurpleLove19 in reply to Suzy86

Thank you- congratulations too.

I spoke to my bosses. They sent me home x

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peapop33

Congratulations xx

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Sorax

Congrats i would deffo work at home 🤗

Congratulations xx

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ttcemmie

PREGNANT! BTW the NHS advises you can have a week sick and self certify without any note from the doctors.... However, would your clinic provide you with a note if needed? Personally, I would take NO risks. Plus, the government are going to bring out additional guidance soon for the vulnerables (including pregnant ladies) which I think will be asking to self-isolate for 12 weeks (so not even trips to the supermarket I imagine). You're right schools are probably shutting soon anyway. I'm betting this Friday! So what's a few more days... Your pregnancy comes first! xxx

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PurpleLove19 in reply to ttcemmie

I had a week self certified as it was after treatment. This week, if I’d of had to recover too, I would have needed a drs note. Because it’s government guidelines I don’t think I need one.

My pregnancy is definitely coming first. My mum said she isn’t coming see me either at the weekend as she works for the NHS. It’s crazy x

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ttcemmie in reply to PurpleLove19

Ahhhh already done the one week thing. My work has emailed saying pregnants and oldies to stay at home, so I think you're right - if it's government-mandated, it shouldn't need a doctor's note. I can't imagine doctors would be too impressed if they had to write doctors' notes for all of these people! My parents aren't coming to see me either as we are treating me as pregnant even though I'm just in the 2ww. Better to be safe than sorry. xxxx

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KiboXX

Congrats!

I understand the worry, we’ve spoken to my stepsons school this morning (he lives with us) because I’m 11 weeks pregnant and they told us we have we take him out for the rest of term and see where everything is at after Easter. He’s 16 and prepping for his GSCEs so not ideal but have to try and be as safe as you can xx

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PurpleLove19 in reply to KiboXX

I saw them talking about that. Pregnant women who already have kids at school. I’d take them out too x

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KayCan

Congratulations to you on your BFP!

I would just like to point out that we are all entitled to self certify for 7 days, then after such time we require doctors note so your boss is wrong there.

It's a scary time at the moment, think we are all feeling it at whatever stage we are at, and we all have to be sensible and take the proper precautions and take no chances. Take care xx

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PurpleLove19 in reply to KayCan

I self certified last week hun. This would have been my second week post transfer. My boss said I could have had but would need a drs note. Now I’ve been sent home because of the virus I’m not sure what I need as it’s government guidelines x

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KayCan in reply to PurpleLove19

Ah I see. Hopefully you'll be allowed to work at home so no impact to pay etc. 🤞 xx

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Kyell2

Congratulations 😊.

You can definitely self certify for a week, I think getting a sick line at the moment will be difficult anyway given how much pressure is on the NHS.

It’s so difficult to know what to do for the best x

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PurpleLove19 in reply to Kyell2

I was sent home anyway hun. I wouldn’t entertain going my GP at this time x

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Flower5000

Hi Purplelove19

Congratulations on your positive test. You can definitely self-certify for the first 7 days of sickness. This is what I have done for post egg collection. I am due transfer tomorrow, we were offered to freeze all if we wanted to because of covid but decided we had waited so long to get to this stage and we would carry on.

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PurpleLove19 in reply to Flower5000

I did hun last week. I wanted go back this week as I was going insane. But I’ve been sent home.

Thank you- I don’t blame you. Good luck x

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Kyell2 in reply to PurpleLove19

Oh that’s good that you’ve been sent home.

I messaged my boss last night and said I wasn’t coming back for my last 2 weeks of work as it’s not worth the risk. I feel really guilty but I’m not putting myself/baby at risk!

You did the right thing x

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amandac84

Congratulations to you xx

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Tryagain45

Awww fantastic news!!! Take care xxx

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Chel91

Congratulations on your amazing news! 😊 Keep yourself safe! I've just done a huge shop last week, going to stay inside for the next 2 weeks (longer if I get my BFP). Your doctor can do phone consultations if needed, don't put yourself at risk xxxx

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PurpleLove19 in reply to Chel91

Thank you hun- good luck. I hope you get your BFP x

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alittlelife

Congratulations! I know there is so much uncertainty at the moment but I hope you can still enjoy this moment and celebrate getting so far x

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Hope4040

Awww hey congrats 🤗 you must be over the moon xx

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Khess124

Congratulations! Xxx

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Lulubrighton

Congratulations!! we will have similar due dates 😊

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PurpleLove19 in reply to Lulubrighton

Is it Dec or Nov? X

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Lulubrighton in reply to PurpleLove19

26th November x

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PurpleLove19 in reply to Lulubrighton

Very precise hun. Thank you. I hope we both battle through to that date 🌈

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hifer

Congratulations, amazing news xx

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