2nd cycle failed

[L400ynd]

Hi ladies (aka warriors)

Today was my OTD and as suspected, the test was negative.

I feel so numb but I need to move forward any way I can. Just going to throw myself into work and book a holiday for me and hubs to look forward to.

Will think about starting 3rd and last cycle in a few months when my mind is stronger.

What’s meant to be will be and what’s for me won’t go by me. (My wee gran was a great believer in that).

Thank you for all the support again while I was going this. God knows where I would have been without you all.

Lots of love. Xxxx

[Gembunny]

I’m sorry to hear, it’s a feeling no one will ever know until they’ve experienced that disappointment. I’ll remember the lovely quote from your gran and admire your grace, strength and faith, people like you keep people like me hopeful and wish you both all the best luck and love for your next round. There’s always the old saying of the third time. I never pass anything first time and am lucky if I ever pass the second. 😂

Much love to you both. 🙏💪❤️

[L400ynd in reply to Gembunny]

Haha I’m one of those annoying people that pass everything first time 😂😂. Although the one thing I would have loved first time hasn’t happened. Let’s hope it’s 3rd time lucky.

How are you doing sweetie? Xxx

[Hidden]

Sending hugs.. Take care of yourself and enjoy that holiday. Xx

[L400ynd in reply to Hidden]

Thank you xxx

[TTCWithCHSweetheart]

I’m so sorry to hear this. I had my OTD on Tuesday and it sucked when it was negative. I’ve been told to test again on Friday which will be 13dp5dt. Have you been told to stop meds now? Xx

[L400ynd in reply to TTCWithCHSweetheart]

I was just told to take the meds till they ran out, which was today. My period arrived this afternoon so I’m Defo all over.

I’ll keep everything crossed for you my dearie. Please let me know how you get on. Xxxx

[TTCWithCHSweetheart in reply to L400ynd]

I’m so sorry. I just wish infertility wasn’t a thing. I hope you are treating yourself well.

Thank you so much. It’s such a hard journey and I really thought our second cycle would work. I have to keep positive but it’s very hard xx

[HemBella]

So sorry to hear this. Its important to take time out and give yourself and your hubs a rest and enjoy some time together. Its easy to fall in to thinking that the results will be negative, I've been like that too. I've literally never been pregnant. But as your gran says, what meant to be will be, and just keep that flame of hope going.

Lots of love to you xxx

[L400ynd in reply to HemBella]

Thank you. Lots of love to you as well. We both need to keep the faith and be positive. Xxxx

[ttcemmie]

Really really sorry to hear about your result. You're never ready for it and it super sucks. Sensible on prioritising your mind and your emotional health as this is the most important thing in this situation. Good idea on booking a holiday. That'll be something positive. Sending you lots of love. xxx

[L400ynd in reply to ttcemmie]

Thank you xxxx

[CLDxxx]

Sorry to read this lovely.

Make sure you take care of yourself and book the best holiday - you deserve that.

Sending love xxx

[L400ynd in reply to CLDxxx]

Thank you. Xxxx

[Cinderella5]

Aww Im sorry it hasnt worked out again! Hugs. Sounds like a great plan to get some relaxation and fund before starting again....have fun!xx

[L400ynd in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you. Lots of love and best wishes to you as well. You’ve had some time of it. I hope and pray you get it next time. Xxxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to L400ynd]

Thanks, I really appreciate that!xx

[RhinoCat]

Sending hugs 🤗 a holiday sounds perfect . I think it should be included in the price of each round 😂😘 go wag your tail and remind yourself who you are 😘💐💐💐💖💖💖💖

Hugs of understanding brave one

Rhinocat x 💐

[L400ynd in reply to RhinoCat]

Thank you. Lots of love and luck to you as well. Xxxx

[Hidden]

Sorry to hear this. I also threw myself into work when my first cycle in Dec did not work. Take good care of yourself and enjoy your holiday!!! You can try again when you are ready for it!

[L400ynd in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. I’ve recently been promoted so plenty to keep me busy! 😂😂🙈. I hope your next cycle goes well. Xxxxxx

[hifer]

Sorry to hear this. A holiday sounds like an excellent idea. Revamp before your next cycle xx

[Tryagain45]

I'm so sorry that you have sad news. It's really hard to take when you get the BFN....

Take your time and yes book a holiday for as soon as possible - or just a nice night away - with plenty of wine!! Just anything to break from the norm...

Take care and huge hugs

xxx

[L400ynd in reply to Tryagain45]

Thank you for your kind words. You are all a great support. Xxx

[AuroraXen]

I'm really sorry 😢 It's just the worst. So much time and energy and money and most of all HOPE goes into the leadup to that one second when you glance at the test... and that blank result staring back (or even worse, the starkly spelled-out 'Not Pregnant' 🤦‍♀️🤬) is like a punch to the gut. Take all the time you need before your next steps. I know it's hard, but hoping you can find some joy in the things you can do whilst you wait for your next step of the journey xx

[L400ynd in reply to AuroraXen]

Thanks lovely. Yes the first test I did was the not pregnant but I had to test again another 3 days later and I bought the lines cos I knew I couldn’t take seeing that again! It’s bloomin awful.

We are giving it one more try and if that doesn’t work then we will live our lives without kids. We do have a great life so although it will be different to what we imagined it will still be awesome because we have each other and hubs is all I need ❤️

Hope you are well. Thank you for reaching out. Xxx

[AuroraXen in reply to L400ynd]

Ah I SO hope this next cycle is successful for you guys. This is such a hard process, and such a difficult burden to bear 😢 Sounds like you have an amazing marriage though 💜 xxx

[L400ynd in reply to AuroraXen]

Thank you so much. How are you in your journey? Xxx

[Picalilli99]

So sorry to hear that it hasn’t worked again. The BFN’s really do take their toll. So definitely take some time to look after yourself. I think booking a holiday sounds like a great idea. It’s always really good to have something nice to look forward to at these difficult times. Take care lovely and hoping you have better luck on your next cycle ❤️ xxx

[L400ynd in reply to Picalilli99]

Thank you sweetie. Lots of love to you as well. Xxxx

[Rainbowdreams82]

So sorry to hear that. Def book a holiday and throw yourself into looking Forward to that. Some time off the rollercoaster to rest & reflect is the best thing to do. Sending big hugs and I wish you all the luck🍀 for 3rd time xxx

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry to hear this my darling it’s so tough but know that we are all here for you if you need anything xxx look after yourself and booking a holiday sounds like a great idea xxxxx

[L400ynd in reply to Hidden]

Thank you sweetie. How are you doing? ❤️❤️ Xxx