Last post until testing day I promise.

[Cheeky_84]

I would just like to people to really not test early, I am really regretting it and am now fixated on it as worried lines are getting lighter. Please dont do it, it just causes unnecessary stress. Xx these are cheaper ones and have ordered first response but I have learnt from this xx

[L400ynd]

Thank you lovely. I was starting to consider testing early. I hope you get your BFP xxx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to L400ynd]

Thank you, I really hope so too. I just wish I listened to everybody xx

[MrsH17]

Ahhh I feel for you Cheeky. I did test early with my failed FET and it really screwed me up but it’s done now and you can’t be too mad at yourself. Please try to relax and get a good nights sleep. Hopefully you will get an answer with the first response. Did you have a 5dpt or 3? Was it fresh or frozen? Xxx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to MrsH17]

It's just a nightmare, so mad with myself for doing that. I had 5dpt and it was fresh xxx

[MrsH17 in reply to Cheeky_84]

From the pictures your blue ones are darker. Maybe the pink ones don’t have that strong dye. Also your urine is probably too weak. Try a first morning wee. Don’t get to disheartened they are still ALL positive xxxx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to MrsH17]

Thank you, I just noticed ur reply and it's really cheered me up xx

[amandac84]

Oh I’m sorry. I did that with my last round and it was brutal. Still hold out hope and fingers crossed for you xx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to amandac84]

Thank you xxx

[L400ynd]

Ps when were you told you test? Xx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to L400ynd]

This Wednesday 19th, so did 6/5 and 4 days early xx

[L400ynd]

And when did you get your transfer? Xx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to L400ynd]

5th February, it was a day 5 transfer xx

[L400ynd in reply to Cheeky_84]

So they are actually taking you right to the 14 days? I was told to test on 19th and I only got my transfer on Monday 10th. Mine was fresh and 5 day transfer as well. Xxx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to L400ynd]

Yeah 14 days bang on, wish I d waited. Good luck to u too xx

[L400ynd in reply to Cheeky_84]

Haha oh now you’ve got me paranoid. 🙈. Hopefully we both get out BFP. Sprinkle that baby dust about. Lol. Xxx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to L400ynd]

Oh no sorry, didnt mean to do that. We ve got this xx

[L400ynd in reply to Cheeky_84]

We have xxx

[TTCWithCHSweetheart in reply to Cheeky_84]

Hey. We’re on a second round after the first failed before transfer.

My test day was yesterday at 10dp5dt and it was negative.

I’ve been told to test again on Friday but I’m already convinced it hasn’t worked.

I’m so sad.

Good luck to you all

[Lou7744]

Hey there, I’m the same! I’ve done this on every transfer that I’ve had. It really does mess with with your mind. I’ve got my fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞💕 xx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to Lou7744]

Did u get faint positives and then it changed? Xx

[Lou7744 in reply to Cheeky_84]

I had one occasion where the line progressed, but unfortunately I went on to have a miscarriage and the other time my lines got lighter and ended up being a chemical pregnancy 💕 xx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to Lou7744]

That's what I m worried about, thank u for sharing ur experiences with me xx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to Lou7744]

Thank you xx

[Hidden]

Hope you’re ok? It’s hard work this 2ww wait isn’t it 😩xx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to Hidden]

It sure is. I m ok thanks, just annoyed at myself that I gave myself hope and I just have a feeling its away to be taken away xx

[Hidden]

Don’t be so hard on yourself lovely and keep the faith xxxx I am praying you get your BFP ❤️

[Cheeky_84 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you, did another cheap test this morning, u can just see the line under a light (very faint), but it's got lighter, today 12dp is lighter than 9dp, no symptoms at all, no spotting/bleeding xx

[Hidden in reply to Cheeky_84]

As long there is a line even if faint it’s good news xxx hang in there my lovely you got this ❤️

[Cheeky_84 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you xxx

[Coral86]

Do it on the day I made myself go insane kept doing them days before and had faint lines then negative on the day 😞 praying for you xxx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to Coral86]

Thank you xxx

[Weareback2]

I also agree. I didn't test early and waited for the blood tests. From the blood tests it came up borderline. The doctors were able to prepare me that whilst it is in the pregnancy zone it is likely to end in with a eptoic or miscarriage. I had reguarly blood tests and scans for two weeks ti check tge progress. The HGc levels were increasing but not at the rate it should be. Had I tested at home I would have got the double line and been excited. With the doctors saying this from the first test I felt more prepared for it not progressing, which resulted in a miscarriage at 7 weeks. Please don't test ladies as it will just play with your emotions more!

[Akhta1]

Hello

I know it's not easy but it's the thinking and anxiety of it all. Just be patient and all will be well.

Takecare

[Cheeky_84 in reply to Akhta1]

Thank you very much x

[ttcemmie]

Thanks for the advice on not testing (although it will be hard!). You have done quite a few tests!! You've still got positive lines so I would try not to worry about it. A line is a line! xxxx

[Cheeky_84 in reply to ttcemmie]

Aaww thank you xx

[dreams28]

Hi sorry to hear what you are feeling. Whishing you all the best. These tests are not very good at picking up hcg and because you have used 2 different tests its difficult to compare as they will most definitely have different sensitivity.

I am an early tester but always used frers early test. These tests I would avoid when testing early. Hope your frees brings you a darker line x

[Cheeky_84 in reply to dreams28]

Thank you xx

[12356]

My darling it will come out well for you, I did mein early it was BFN, infact I did it with my general praxis doctor , I did my FET 14th January and my official test was suppose to be on 27th January I was very sick and went to normal doctor and explained everything to them , so one of the nurse that is my freind decided to do early test because I was so curious and it came out BFN I was so mad, then she advised that I wait until the "D""day , so early morning of my test day, I used clear blue and it came out BFP and I went to blood test it was the same BFP, I have done my 7 weeks scan and every thing is fine,

With my first Son , I pass through exactly what you are going through and I ended up having my cute Son who will be 2 years this year, just hang in there , everything will be fine okay,

[Tiddly1984]

Hi Cheeky, you must be so anxious. It’s hard not to test so don’t beat yourself up about it too much. I’d wait until OTD now but if testing again use a FR test as cheap tests can be unreliable and are unlikely to provide consistent result. Fingers crossed for you. Hoping those cheapies are of the useless kind...x