Not sure what to do. Forget IVF or try again.

[Yazlinda]

Hi,

After a few years of trying and 2 failed IVF cycles not sure where to go from here. Financially I can't until end of this year. Given my age not sure if I want to try again with my own eggs or try Donor eggs. Or maybe accept God does not want me to be a mother and forget dreaming and trying. Really torn on what to do. 😢😭💔. Xxxx

[MrsH17]

Please don’t feel like god doesn’t want you to be a mother because that is not true. You have already gone through so much to proof you deserve to be.

I have read 3rd cycles is what they believe is needed for success so maybe give it one more go if you can? Or have you thought about adoption if you don’t feel you can afford egg donation xxx

[marthasmum]

Yazlinda have you had the AMH Test? Sorry to ask but what age are you not that its relevant as anyone can struggle. I had DE IVF in Prague was first time mum at almost 43! It was less than half the price as UK plus so many other reasons why I decided on Abroad x

[Yazlinda in reply to marthasmum]

Hi, AMH 4.2. Can I ask where in Prague? Can you PM me?. Thankyou. X

[Corchi]

Hi also amazing prices in athens greece where I am based if your interested pm me!!!

[Sambab]

I know exactly how you feel. I've just turnt 40 had my 2 ivf attempt in October 2019 and they retrieved one egg which was abnormal. Really want to try again with DE but financially we cant afford to. We are looking at treatment packages in prague but this wont happen till probably next year....by then I will of accepted I'll never be a mum.

[Yazlinda in reply to Sambab]

Hi, I too had a look at Prague but if I do go down the route of DE it will not be around Aug/Sep due to finances as we are still paying off the last two failed cycles. Its hard decided if to try again with own eggs one last time or go straight to DE.