Hi guys,
I did my test this morning and it was a BFN 😢. It’s so sad and I feel sooo disappointed. I don’t know about anyone else but I did the usual self preservation trick of not allowing myself to think it might work. But oh my does it hit hard. Xxx
When is your blood test scheduled?
I don’t have one scheduled. I have let the clinic know via the app and am waiting to hear from them. I used clear blue which is meant to be super accurate. Xxx
U still have ur beta hcg test to confirm your pregnancy...
So still have time....
Just relax for now.
Hi sayusayme,
A lot of clinic in the UK don’t do beta blood tests and just ask you to do a home test.
Really sorry to hear that Yogi42, I know that telling yourself it hasn’t worked doesn’t make it any easier.
Have you spoken to your clinic yet? They may ask you to stay on your meds a few days extra and retest. Your OTD is quite a few days earlier than mine and we had our transfers the same day. Sending big hugs xxx
Hi Kibo, I feel absolutely gutted 😢. Nothing prepares you for it. I will have to have a laparoscopy now (3 month waiting list) then round 2.
I’m just waiting to hear from the clinic.
How are you feeling 🌟?!. Xxx
Hope the clinic gets back to you soon. Was this your first cycle? Sorry that you can’t go straight forward with the next one, hope it’s not too long a wait for your appointment.
I’m feeling ok, happy and terrified still. Obsessively testing like a crazy person 🤪 just hoping it sticks!x
It was my first cycle everything had gone so smoothly and then not so today.
Aaahhh you must be sooo excited i’m so happy for you 🌟!.
Still waiting to hear from the clinic. Xxx
Thank you 😘♥️ xxxx
Did the clinic get back to you?x
They did, I have to re test Sunday if i don’t start bleeding heavily. I have my follow up appointment on 3/2. I don’t really want to do another test and feel that horrible feeling all over again!. Xxx
I know exactly how you feel, my last clinic made us do the same and I just felt like it was needlessly prolonging the torture 😣
However, my last round I did there, a close friend was also doing hers, our transfer dates were literally one day apart. She got a bfn on OTD and then a BFP 2 days later. I know it’s super unlikely but it does actually happen so it’s worth hanging in there, even just for the smallest possibility. X
Ahhh sorry to hear this it really is sad 😔 I was surprised at how it made me feel when I failed my FET in November. It’s does get easier that I can promise.
Will you try again? Xxx
It is crazy!. I think it was shock then I just cried for a couple of hours and now I just feel flat 😢. I will try again after a laparoscopy.
Did you get straight back to work or have a few days to digest?. Have you tried again?. Xxx
I know exactly how you feel. I couldn’t face seeing family for the first few weeks. I just sent the not pregnant test to them. I did find when I was open and talked about it I felt better even though I really thought I couldn’t talk about it. Yeah I went back to work I dreaded it and thought I wouldn’t get through a 11 hour day but it did me good to get back to normality and I was fine.
I went to the clinic on Wednesday to set up doing a fresh cycle soon.
Xxx
Oh great!!!. You must be excited/anxious, i’m Wishing all the best for you.
I am meant to be back to work tomorrow on a 12 hour shift then nights next week at the moment it feels impossible but I know it’s the best thing to do!. I also feel better when I talk i’m not one for holding my emotions in 🌟. Xxx
I had the weekend to take it all in. 12 hour day seems so long but might be quite good for you ♥️ when I went back to work on a Monday I asked my boss for a pay rise to take my mind off the BFN (I never would have asked otherwise!!) he asked why I thought I deserved one so I explained and it worked lol the distraction did help 🤗 try and do something positive to take your mind off the sad news xxx
Brilliant!. Maybe i’ll try that 🤔. Xxx
I am excited and anxious lol. I booked it as soon as I knew it had failed it was like I needed to be proactive. I am in no rush to start like I usually am so will be a few months probably. We might end up doing a cycle at the same time 
xxx
I'm so sorry yogi it's the worst feeling in the world, sending big hugs to you 💗 xx
Thankyou so much 💞. Xxx
Im sorry to hear this, never gets any easier to see that stark white test!! Hugs.xx
It’s horrible makes your heart sink. Xxx
Be kind to yourself, you deserve it!xx
I'm so sorry 😔 hope you're ok ♥️ when I had my BFN I found it so hard, it was horrible. Spoil yourself and do everything you couldn't have done before 💫♥️ xxx
I am taking today to take it in and go to hot yoga which I gaven’t Been able to do for 2 weeks!. Thankyou for the advice 💜. Xxx
Great idea 🥰💫 xxx we are all here for you
Thankyou so much 💖. Xxx
So sorry to hear this BFNs are so so tough sending hugs xx
So sorry hun xx big hugs
Sorry Yogi. It’s very disappointing and in some ways very hard to prepare for no matter hard you steel yourself. I’m sure the future will be kinder. Hugs x
Nothing can prepare you for it 💔. Xxx
Sorry to hear that lovely, it never gets easy x
No, I don’t think it can. I think the hope is to simply not experience the disappointment at all. My first transfer didn’t work, but my second transfer did. I truly hope next time you have better results...x
That’s fantastic!!!. I have everything crossed for round 2 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼. Thankyou for your support. Xxx
Thank you and you’re welcome...x
So sorry to hear this. It is just the worst feeling. Sending you huge hugs. Enjoy your hot yoga! xxxx
Thankyou 💖!. I’m sure it will make me feel a bit better 🧘🏻♀️. Xxx
So sorry Yogi42 😔 Sending you a big hug! We are all here for you X
Thankyou 💞!. You are all a great support 😊. Xxx
So sorry to hear that, I know the feeling. Clearblue are not so sensitive though. First response are better. I hope you’ll have your baby soon x
Oh really!. I have to re test Sunday so i’ll Try first response. Xxx
The ones you can use 5 days before period is due are very sensitive. Good luck, I hope you get a BFP on Sunday! 🙏🏻
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