Hi guys, I had my FET yesterday two embies put in and praying with all my heart one or two stick. All went well, they said one is doing better than the other. I was so relaxed and positive yesterday. Didnt sleep very well last night and today I feel a little moody and stressed 😣 trying to force myself to remain positive but so scared of the result. Any tips to help me stay positive? xxx
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I was on a downer with my second transfer so I had takeaways and tried not to dwell on things!I will say is don't test early (even thought I'm not a champion of this!) and out of all the bfps in two weeks time there isn't any reason why it can't be you. Eat some cake, watch good films, get some cuddles and picture that little one getting nice and comfy! All the best to you! ❤️ Xxx
Defo need a cuddle lol! X
Well here is a super virtual one from me! You have no control over the outcome of this now, its down to your body doing its thing. So have trust that it's going to and as I always say, know that nothing good ever came from negative thoughts so kick them out when they creep in as they have no place. Replace with a NO my body is great and this is my time! Rooting for you xxx
Aww so pleased it went well. Sending good vibes to you and the little embies! I don't think you can beat watching a few comedies or relaxing with a good book. I always think it's such a shame you can't have a bath during the stressful 2ww but anything else that makes you feel good is worth a try! Some people have recommended an ivf mindfulness podcast so that might be worth searching out? You are doing great 😘
Thanks hun 🥰🤗 I'm back at work today as I wanted to keep busy, just on a bit of a low lol. Yes I love a nice hot bath too 🙄 you guys always make me feel happier ♥️ I might do some mindfulness tonight x
Don't work too hard 😉 and yes lots of relaxation tonight! I'm getting my test results back later today and I'm bricking it! Might need to follow my own advice Xx
Oh my goodness, I was just reading through 'Littlepeax' comments, before I commented and saw yours! How are you doing? Wishing you the best of luck and praying for you it is good news xx
Aw that's very kind ☺️ should have said my tests are not the exciting kind unfortunately just checking my blood for any issues before my next FET as I've had a couple of BFNs now. I kind of hope they find and issue so I can sort it but then also hope everything is fine. It's a right game isn't it?! Hope alls well with you xx
Oh I see, sorry! I did try and check your profile before sending my the message, but didnt see any recent/ recent posts, so sorry Oh that is a good idea though, defo and yes I know what you mean...if there are any issues, they can hopefully resolve them and then get your BFP! Thank you, all good with me, just in the process of taking meds for a FET. Best of luck you get the results sorted today xx
Thanks so much 😊 Hope you are feeling ok with the meds and wishing you all the best for your FET Xx
Did you get any news? Xxx
Yes ☺️ Thanks for asking. Everything came back okay, no issues at all with blood test results and they tested for loads. My vitamin D was just about in the right range so I need to continue taking supplements but I can go ahead with next FET so I'm really happy! Hopefully it will be third time lucky 🍀 good luck to you, I'll make sure I follow you 😁
Thanks ♥️🤗 ahh whatever it is they can fix, at least you will know more. Let me know how you get on xxx
All results came back fine 😊 Hope you are feeling better today x x
Glad all went well! Your little embies are back in the best place so try to rest up a bit today now....wishing you a positive result.xx
No advice I'm afraid apart from rest up, maybe try some meditation (there is an ivf meditation app).
Congratulations on the 2 embies 🤞 for you xx
Ah well done love.
I know you said you’re back in work (which I think is a good thing to keep you occupied) but spoil yourself when you’re done for the day! Good luck x
Ahhh like everyone else has said, nothing more you can do now, so just think positively, do anything that makes you smile, laugh and feel good and I also think the mindful ivf app is quite relaxing, so maybe download that later on, once you get home.
Best of luck to you! How long do you have to wait to do a test with FET? I really cant remember, even though I have done a few!! And am in the process of an FET myself xxx
How exciting! Sending lots of positive vibes your way 😘
Thanks 🤗🥰 how are you getting on xxx
I caved and I’ve had a positive test ☺️ official test day for bloods isn’t until Tuesday though!xx
Oh my goodness that's absolutely amazing!! Huge congratulations to you 🥰💫 xxx
Thank you!!! Hoping this is you next week 🤞🏻♥️
Aww thank u me too!! 🙏🥰 what day did you test? Can you give me any tips haha did you carry on working xxx
I tested 5dp5dt and got an absolute squinter. I had to convince my husband it was there 😂
6dp and got a better line and a digital test said pregnant!
I’m 7dp today. First morning wee doesn’t work for me, later in the day I get a stronger result 🤷🏼♀️
I’m not working at the moment but have stuff planned every day so I’ve been keeping busy. I haven’t done anything special, just take your vitamins and try not to go crazy 😘 xx
Thanks everyone for all of your amazing kind comments, I am honestly feeling a little better already ♥️♥️♥️ it's good to talk 😊
Just wanted to with you best of luck and sending lots of baby dust your way! Keep calm and try to keep yourself busy with watching Netflix, go for walks with friends and just think positive! Everything will be great! 🤞🤞🤞🤞
I’m going for my transfer in an hour 🤞🤞🤞💕💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️Xxx
Ahh I’m glad the transfer went well!! Keeping your mind busy is definitely a good thing, do lots of things you enjoy but also lots of relaxing with a good boxset too!! Wishing you loads of luck🤞🏼🍍😊 xx
Good luck! It’s such a nerve wracking but also exciting time. Two embies feels extra special so here’s praying that one (or both!) stick and you have some wonderful news next week. Remember you have done everything you can and should be proud of yourself for getting this far. Keeping fingers and toes crossed for you x
Good luck, there every chance that this could work! Look after yourself and watch some funny things on tv! Spend time with family & friends and just hope for the best! Positive vibes your way hun 🤞🏻🤞🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💓xxx
Brilliant news. Good luck 😉 how did you manage to get 2 embryos put back in at such a young age? Xxxx
Take ur vitamins, dont anything strenuous or stressful and try to watch some addictive Netflix etc. I had a double transfer recently and now pregnancy with twins! I was really relaxed this transfer and kept busy. I know people say dont test early but I did at 9 days after transfer with a clear blue early detection test..really wishing u all the luck in the world!!xxx
I had two put back with my FET and one stuck. I personally do think the odds increase with two. Best of luck. Just believe it’s worked.
Sometimes I think when our mind/body is aware we want to get pregnant it prevents it. It may just be due to the stress, or might be natures way of keeping the population down. Either way try to relax and distract yourself doing the things you love.
I tried to laugh a lot and make myself happy so that my body had no reason to reject my egg or to believe I desperately wanted to be pregnant. Sounds silly but who knows 😊
Good luck...x
Aww thanks so much for your great advice 🤗🥰 I haven't been too bad sonce writing this, been doing some meditation that's really helped. Just been quite emotional for some reason lol 🤷♀️. That's amazing congratulations ♥️💫 how many weeks are you? Did you get any symptoms, I'm 3dpt and nothing yet 😑 xxx
I’m glad it’s helped. I think being relaxed goes a long way but its also difficult to escape the fact that it’s a highly emotional journey. I’m 26 weeks now and I had a host of symptoms but I’m aware that that’s equally not the case for everyone. Our bodies are all different in the same way that I continue to experience nausea going into my 3rd trimester but most women don’t. So if you have no symptoms don’t worry. It’s all very unpredictable and might as well be random given the little we know. Best of luck...x
Hey hi
We both had fet on same day Tuesday 21/01/2020....best of luck to both of us