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Hi guys, I had my FET yesterday two embies put in and praying with all my heart one or two stick. All went well, they said one is doing better than the other. I was so relaxed and positive yesterday. Didnt sleep very well last night and today I feel a little moody and stressed 😣 trying to force myself to remain positive but so scared of the result. Any tips to help me stay positive? xxx

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HollyT7

I was on a downer with my second transfer so I had takeaways and tried not to dwell on things!I will say is don't test early (even thought I'm not a champion of this!) and out of all the bfps in two weeks time there isn't any reason why it can't be you. Eat some cake, watch good films, get some cuddles and picture that little one getting nice and comfy! All the best to you! ❤️ Xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to HollyT7

Aww thank you so much 🥰🤗

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Littlepeax in reply to HollyT7

Defo need a cuddle lol! X

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HollyT7 in reply to Littlepeax

Well here is a super virtual one from me! You have no control over the outcome of this now, its down to your body doing its thing. So have trust that it's going to and as I always say, know that nothing good ever came from negative thoughts so kick them out when they creep in as they have no place. Replace with a NO my body is great and this is my time! Rooting for you xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to HollyT7

Haha thanks so much Holly, means alot 🤗 My body is great and this is my time!!! ⭐♥️⭐

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Keepingfaith85

Aww so pleased it went well. Sending good vibes to you and the little embies! I don't think you can beat watching a few comedies or relaxing with a good book. I always think it's such a shame you can't have a bath during the stressful 2ww but anything else that makes you feel good is worth a try! Some people have recommended an ivf mindfulness podcast so that might be worth searching out? You are doing great 😘

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Littlepeax in reply to Keepingfaith85

Thanks hun 🥰🤗 I'm back at work today as I wanted to keep busy, just on a bit of a low lol. Yes I love a nice hot bath too 🙄 you guys always make me feel happier ♥️ I might do some mindfulness tonight x

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Keepingfaith85 in reply to Littlepeax

Don't work too hard 😉 and yes lots of relaxation tonight! I'm getting my test results back later today and I'm bricking it! Might need to follow my own advice Xx

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Michael30 in reply to Keepingfaith85

Oh my goodness, I was just reading through 'Littlepeax' comments, before I commented and saw yours! How are you doing? Wishing you the best of luck and praying for you it is good news xx

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Keepingfaith85 in reply to Michael30

Aw that's very kind ☺️ should have said my tests are not the exciting kind unfortunately just checking my blood for any issues before my next FET as I've had a couple of BFNs now. I kind of hope they find and issue so I can sort it but then also hope everything is fine. It's a right game isn't it?! Hope alls well with you xx

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Michael30 in reply to Keepingfaith85

Oh I see, sorry! I did try and check your profile before sending my the message, but didnt see any recent/ recent posts, so sorry :( Oh that is a good idea though, defo and yes I know what you mean...if there are any issues, they can hopefully resolve them and then get your BFP! :) Thank you, all good with me, just in the process of taking meds for a FET. Best of luck you get the results sorted today xx

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Keepingfaith85 in reply to Michael30

Thanks so much 😊 Hope you are feeling ok with the meds and wishing you all the best for your FET Xx

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Michael30 in reply to Keepingfaith85

Thank you so much too xx

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Michael30 in reply to Keepingfaith85

Did you get any news? Xxx

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Keepingfaith85 in reply to Michael30

Yes ☺️ Thanks for asking. Everything came back okay, no issues at all with blood test results and they tested for loads. My vitamin D was just about in the right range so I need to continue taking supplements but I can go ahead with next FET so I'm really happy! Hopefully it will be third time lucky 🍀 good luck to you, I'll make sure I follow you 😁

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Michael30 in reply to Keepingfaith85

Ahhh thats great news! Yes defo 3rd time lucky it is :) when will you start? xx

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Keepingfaith85 in reply to Michael30

My period is due any day now so it should only be a few weeks till my next FET all being well xx 💕

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Littlepeax in reply to Keepingfaith85

🥰💫 that's great xxx

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Michael30 in reply to Keepingfaith85

oh amazing! Ill follow you too and good luck to jumping on board with us FET ladies soon! xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to Keepingfaith85

Thanks ♥️🤗 ahh whatever it is they can fix, at least you will know more. Let me know how you get on xxx

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Keepingfaith85 in reply to Littlepeax

All results came back fine 😊 Hope you are feeling better today x x

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Littlepeax in reply to Keepingfaith85

Awww Keepingfaith that's amazing news! Very happy for you. Seems like it will defo happen for you then, just luck of the draw so have to keep going ♥️♥️♥️💫 yes I'm feeling alot better today thanks, I did some mindfulness last night that helped so much xx

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Cinderella5

Glad all went well! Your little embies are back in the best place so try to rest up a bit today now....wishing you a positive result.xx

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Littlepeax in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks so much Cinderella 🥰🤗

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MiskyB

No advice I'm afraid apart from rest up, maybe try some meditation (there is an ivf meditation app).

Congratulations on the 2 embies 🤞 for you xx

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Littlepeax in reply to MiskyB

Thanks Misky 🤗 I'm going to do that tonight such a great idea x

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Solly-44

Ah well done love.

I know you said you’re back in work (which I think is a good thing to keep you occupied) but spoil yourself when you’re done for the day! Good luck x

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Littlepeax in reply to Solly-44

Will do and thanks so much Solly 🤗🥰

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Michael30

Ahhh like everyone else has said, nothing more you can do now, so just think positively, do anything that makes you smile, laugh and feel good and I also think the mindful ivf app is quite relaxing, so maybe download that later on, once you get home.

Best of luck to you! How long do you have to wait to do a test with FET? I really cant remember, even though I have done a few!! And am in the process of an FET myself xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to Michael30

Will do thanks so much 🤗🥰 next Thursday 30th is my OTD so luckily not too long xxx

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Michael30 in reply to Littlepeax

You are welcome! Ahhh so 8 days to go...thats not too bad. Good luck xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to Michael30

Good luck to you too xxx

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Michael30 in reply to Littlepeax

Thank you xxx

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KiboXX

How exciting! Sending lots of positive vibes your way 😘

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Littlepeax in reply to KiboXX

Thanks 🤗🥰 how are you getting on xxx

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KiboXX in reply to Littlepeax

I caved and I’ve had a positive test ☺️ official test day for bloods isn’t until Tuesday though!xx

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Littlepeax in reply to KiboXX

Oh my goodness that's absolutely amazing!! Huge congratulations to you 🥰💫 xxx

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KiboXX in reply to Littlepeax

Thank you!!! Hoping this is you next week 🤞🏻♥️

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Littlepeax in reply to KiboXX

Aww thank u me too!! 🙏🥰 what day did you test? Can you give me any tips haha did you carry on working xxx

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KiboXX in reply to Littlepeax

I tested 5dp5dt and got an absolute squinter. I had to convince my husband it was there 😂

6dp and got a better line and a digital test said pregnant!

I’m 7dp today. First morning wee doesn’t work for me, later in the day I get a stronger result 🤷🏼‍♀️

I’m not working at the moment but have stuff planned every day so I’ve been keeping busy. I haven’t done anything special, just take your vitamins and try not to go crazy 😘 xx

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Littlepeax in reply to KiboXX

5dp wow that's amazing! And getting stronger 🥰🤗 haha did you feel stressed at all or is it just me? Putting so much pressure on myself lol but I defo feel better than I did this morning. Thanks to all of you, nice to feel your not alone Xx

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KiboXX in reply to Littlepeax

I am still stressed! So you’re definitely not alone 😘x

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Littlepeax

Thanks everyone for all of your amazing kind comments, I am honestly feeling a little better already ♥️♥️♥️ it's good to talk 😊

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ttcemmie

Best of luck! Here's hoping this is the one (or two)!

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Littlepeax in reply to ttcemmie

Thanks so much 🥰🤗

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Klndmr

Just wanted to with you best of luck and sending lots of baby dust your way! Keep calm and try to keep yourself busy with watching Netflix, go for walks with friends and just think positive! Everything will be great! 🤞🤞🤞🤞

I’m going for my transfer in an hour 🤞🤞🤞💕💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️Xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to Klndmr

Aww thanks so much 🥰🤗 honestly all of you guys on here have helped me so much. That's amazing! Hope all goes well today xxx keep me updated xxx

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Lavender96

Ahh I’m glad the transfer went well!! Keeping your mind busy is definitely a good thing, do lots of things you enjoy but also lots of relaxing with a good boxset too!! Wishing you loads of luck🤞🏼🍍😊 xx

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Littlepeax in reply to Lavender96

Thank you Lavender 🥰🤗 I will do xx

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alittlelife

Good luck! It’s such a nerve wracking but also exciting time. Two embies feels extra special so here’s praying that one (or both!) stick and you have some wonderful news next week. Remember you have done everything you can and should be proud of yourself for getting this far. Keeping fingers and toes crossed for you x

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Littlepeax in reply to alittlelife

Very kind of you, thank you ♥️💫🤗

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Skippy1982

Good luck, there every chance that this could work! Look after yourself and watch some funny things on tv! Spend time with family & friends and just hope for the best! Positive vibes your way hun 🤞🏻🤞🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💓xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to Skippy1982

Thank you so much Skippy ♥️🤗 xxx

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Nix321

Best of luck 😊

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Littlepeax in reply to Nix321

Thank you ♥️🤗

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Faith103

Brilliant news. Good luck 😉 how did you manage to get 2 embryos put back in at such a young age? Xxxx

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Littlepeax in reply to Faith103

Thanks so much ♥️🤗 my Dr asked if I would like two this time around, he recommended it to me.. I have bad endo so maybe he thought I needed all the extra help I could get 😭

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Katbaby19

Take ur vitamins, dont anything strenuous or stressful and try to watch some addictive Netflix etc. I had a double transfer recently and now pregnancy with twins! I was really relaxed this transfer and kept busy. I know people say dont test early but I did at 9 days after transfer with a clear blue early detection test..really wishing u all the luck in the world!!xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to Katbaby19

Oh my goodness that's absolutely amazing, twins 🥰🥰🥰 huge congratulations to you! How magical. Thanks so much xxx

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Tiddly1984

I had two put back with my FET and one stuck. I personally do think the odds increase with two. Best of luck. Just believe it’s worked.

Sometimes I think when our mind/body is aware we want to get pregnant it prevents it. It may just be due to the stress, or might be natures way of keeping the population down. Either way try to relax and distract yourself doing the things you love.

I tried to laugh a lot and make myself happy so that my body had no reason to reject my egg or to believe I desperately wanted to be pregnant. Sounds silly but who knows 😊

Good luck...x

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Littlepeax in reply to Tiddly1984

Aww thanks so much for your great advice 🤗🥰 I haven't been too bad sonce writing this, been doing some meditation that's really helped. Just been quite emotional for some reason lol 🤷‍♀️. That's amazing congratulations ♥️💫 how many weeks are you? Did you get any symptoms, I'm 3dpt and nothing yet 😑 xxx

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Tiddly1984

I’m glad it’s helped. I think being relaxed goes a long way but its also difficult to escape the fact that it’s a highly emotional journey. I’m 26 weeks now and I had a host of symptoms but I’m aware that that’s equally not the case for everyone. Our bodies are all different in the same way that I continue to experience nausea going into my 3rd trimester but most women don’t. So if you have no symptoms don’t worry. It’s all very unpredictable and might as well be random given the little we know. Best of luck...x

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Littlepeax in reply to Tiddly1984

Yes you're right I will just try and remain calm and relax lol and not symptom spot 🙈 Aww 26 weeks 🥰 how exciting, not too long to go then. Xxx

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Tiddly1984 in reply to Littlepeax

Not too long at all now and it’s flown by. Hopefully your journey began 3 days ago 😊Fingers crossed for you xxx

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Sayusayme

Hey hi

We both had fet on same day Tuesday 21/01/2020....best of luck to both of us

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Littlepeax in reply to Sayusayme

Thank you ♥️💫 good luck to you. How are you feeling xx

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Sayusayme in reply to Littlepeax

No symptoms except slight constipated....but am ready for anything this time also ....it's my second fet and not much hopefully like first one

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