Advice needed 🥰

[Klndmr]

Hey my lovely ladies hope you are all doing well.

I’m doing FET this month with my last remaining frozen embaby. I need to start progynova on day 1 of my bleed. Spoke to my clinic yesterday for instructions if af shows over the weekend. So I started spotting around 12pmand getting to fresh blood now tmi 🙈 and I wonder should I classify today as day 1 or tomorrow? 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[ama4]

Hi huni how exciting. I was told to start on full flow which was the day after my spotting xx

[Klndmr in reply to ama4]

I never have a day of spotting only. Started with spotting few hours ago and gets to a red blood now tmi 😹

Thanks hun very very exciting I really my last one will be he one 🥰🥰🥰

[Millbanks]

Hi lovely, wishing you all the luck in the world for this cycle. My doctor always says day 1 of period is the first day of red blood, not spotting. Xxx

[Klndmr in reply to Millbanks]

TMI spotting at first and now starts with red blood 😃 how ivf makes us share so private things with complete strangers 🤩

Xxxx

[Millbanks in reply to Klndmr]

Oh it does!! Then I would classify day 1 as today. Fingers crossed for you xxx

[Lavender96]

Hello, my clinic says the same as the ladies above. Day 1 is classed as the first day you wake up with a full bleed, not spotting. Good luck xx

[Klndmr in reply to Lavender96]

Thanks hun 💕 The thing with me is I don’t get a day of spotting only but spotting and then straight to red blood so that’s why I’m so confused 🙈

[Lavender96 in reply to Klndmr]

Ahh there’s nothing like waiting to start treatment to put us on edge and get us confused! I think it plays tricks on us when desperately waiting for AF to arrive, it’s the only time mine is ever late 🙈😂

[PurplePiggie]

I was told by the doctor that day 1 is the day you wake up bleeding, not necessarily the day you start bleeding. Good luck! x

[Klndmr in reply to PurplePiggie]

Thanks hun. I’m keep thinking is I should call the emergency number of my clinic but the only things that’s stops me is that mine is not a tea emergency 🙈

[Shelleybean in reply to Klndmr]

I’d phone them! Explain you realise it’s not an emergency, but wasn’t sure what to do and need some advice. I work in the NHS and you’re being paid to be on call, so no big deal to answer the phone and give someone a quick piece of advice. Best to be sure hun as my clinic said as long as you’re fully bleeding by the afternoon that’s day 1 so different clinics saying different things xx

[Klndmr in reply to Shelleybean]

Will do that. Thanks hun xxx

[CLDxxx]

I always have this issue 🤦🏻‍♀️ I would give it a bit more time and see if it gets heavier and if so count today as day 1.

Good luck lovely! 💕

[CLDxxx in reply to CLDxxx]

Actually I have thought about it and realised the time also 🤣 and I think if after a certain time it isn’t day 1, tomorrow would be. Xxx

[Baby_gurl]

I was told if my period came after 3pm then I should count Day 1 as the next day and if it’s before 3pm I should count that day as day 1. However I would advice you to call your clinic for peace of mind as everyone here will have different ideas on when Day 1 is.

Wishing you the very best of luck 💞💞

[Klndmr in reply to Baby_gurl]

I think I will give a call yes much better 💕💕💕

Thanks hun xxx

[Kiedy84]

Hey hun, I will be keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🤞💕💕

[Klndmr in reply to Kiedy84]

Awww thanks hun. Hope everything with you is going great 🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕xxx

[Lots8788]

Eeek good luck hun! They said to us if we start proper bleeding after 12pm then start the next day xxx have everything crossed for you xx

[Klndmr in reply to Lots8788]

I should of thought of asking you. Silly me 😂 I didn’t want to call the emergency number as this is not really an emergency anyway.

Thanks hun 💕 Hope you are Doing well xxxx

[Lots8788 in reply to Klndmr]

😂😋Good luck for day 1 tomorrow lovely!!🤗🤗🤞🤞😘😘💕💕xxx

[Klndmr in reply to Lots8788]

Thanks lovely 💕💕💕💕

[Klndmr in reply to Lots8788]

Hey hun I’ve been thinking of you. How did everything yesterday go? Xxxxx

[Lots8788 in reply to Klndmr]

Hiya hun,ah bless you. Have another scan Thursday as still showing positive tests and no proper bleeding really since scan on 27/12 where 1 sac was present still, despite 2 doses now of medical management 31/12 and 4/1 🙄 the wait continues. Just had some acupuncture to see if that can help. How are you doing? Xxx x 💕💕

[Cinderella5]

I was always told day 1 was full flow but if after 12 then it's the next day. So I would say day 1 is tomorrow.xx

[Klndmr in reply to Cinderella5]

That’s my last thought as well. So let tomorrow be day 1 yayyy

How are you hun? Xxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Klndmr]

I'm doing ok thanks....well apart from having the lousy winter cold bug!!!🤧🤒 Hoping yo get back on the treatment rollercoaster soon too!!

Best of luck, I'll look out for your updates.xx

[Klndmr in reply to Cinderella5]

Awww get well soon 💕 everyone around me is I’ll too and I’m trying to keep away from them 😄

Thanks hun and I hope soon you will be back too and the next one will be your last one ending with what you most wish for!!!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[Cinderella5 in reply to Klndmr]

Thank you! Here's hoping 2020 is the year!!xx

[Klndmr in reply to Cinderella5]

Yayyy 🥰xx

[gattonero]

Good luck hun!!!

[Klndmr in reply to gattonero]

Thank you ever so much! 💕

[Kyell2]

I was told after 12pm then day 1 was the following day. Either way, how exciting that you are getting started again 😊 xx

[Klndmr in reply to Kyell2]

That’s what I decided as well. No need to rush by one day 😂 so let tomorrow be day 1 💕

Hope you and your little bubba are doing great 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[Kyell2 in reply to Klndmr]

You’ll be ready for the FET in no time!

We’re doing good, although I’m high risk for blooming everything, and can’t escape daily injections even now but beyond blessed.

I’ll look out for your updates. Good luck lovely xx

[Klndmr in reply to Kyell2]

Everything will be great! You can do this 💕🥰🥰🥰🥰

Thanks hun 💕xxx

[Tugsgirl]

Today, if it has progressed from spotting before this afternoon. Good luck lovely lady xx

[Klndmr in reply to Tugsgirl]

It did progress to full flow but I will start from tomorrow 💕 Thanks hun xxxx

Hope you are well and happy 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰xxx

[Corchi]

Fresh blood counts as day 1 from what I know

[Klndmr in reply to Corchi]

I got way too confused today but a lady who uses my clinic reminded me that if periods starts after 12 we count the following day as day 1 💕 So starting my meds tomorrow 🥰🥰🥰🥰xxx

[Olivia1980xxx]

Hey hun I hope u ok .

I never had medicated frozen so cannot be very helpful but I may have one maybe next month just waiting for Nures to let me know if or what blood tests they want up to date.... I had natural one last August and I do have option to decide which one to go ahead with...

Hun I fallow u all the way and I admire u for the strength u have because u went through so much and I wanna wish u very very Big Fat Positive .

Please keep us updated hun xx

[Klndmr in reply to Olivia1980xxx]

Awwww that so nice of you. I’m trying my best to stay as positive as I can even though sometimes I just feel like screaming my heart out 😃 but luckily all the negative feelings and thoughts don’t really stay too long in my head. Thank you!

I really hope your next cycle will be the one tooo!!! Believe and never give up 💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🥰😍🤩🤩🤩🤩xxx

[3005]

Good luck on this cycle hun xxx

[Klndmr in reply to 3005]

Thank you ever so much hun!

How’s everything with youuuu??? 🤩🤩🤩🤩

[3005 in reply to Klndmr]

I’m good thanks, no symptoms yet which is making me worry but probably completely normal at this stage. Going to the doctors tomorrow for my blood test, I’ve been to scared to take another home test just gonna wait for my bloods and I think I’ll ask for an early scan too. Maybe then it’ll sink in lol

[Klndmr in reply to 3005]

So you didn’t test at all after the two you’ve posted? Well done that definitely saves you the anxiety. Try and stay calm and you have all my fingers crossed for you and will be looking out for some very good news!!! Sending lots of luck and positive vibes your way hun 💕💕💕💕🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞xxxx

[3005 in reply to Klndmr]

Thank you x x x

I did a digital one which said pregnant 1-2 but since then I haven’t done any I’m too chicken lol

[Klndmr in reply to 3005]

That’s good enough. Keep as calm as you can I have a very good feeling for you 🥰🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕💕💕🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞xxxx

[Gem2410]

Good luck for this cycle. Sending lots of positive vibes 💖💖💖 xx

[Klndmr in reply to Gem2410]

Thank you ever so much hun. I really really hope the last one will make it 🤞🤞🤞🤞

Hope you are doing well 💕💕💕💕 Sending much love your way xx

[Gem2410 in reply to Klndmr]

I hope it does too. You so deserve it 😘 xx

[Klndmr in reply to Gem2410]

We all deserve it! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[Dreamingofbaby]

Hey. Good to hear u starting another round. Really hope this could be your time. Best wishes to u xx

[Klndmr in reply to Dreamingofbaby]

Thank you ever so much hun!

Hope everything is great with you and your little girl is growing nice and strong 🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕💕xxxx

[Core]

Hope you figured out when to start I hate when it starts in the weekend. Good luck with your FET I’ll probably be just a couple of weeks behind xx

[Klndmr in reply to Core]

A lady who uses my clinic reminded me that clinic counts it as a day 1 of af shows before 12pm so I started today .

When is your due to come?

Best of luck to you too hun 🥰🥰🥰🥰💕💕xxxx

[Core in reply to Klndmr]

Thanks, I think about 2 weeks today but I’m trying not to get too hung up on dates as things never seem to go to plan 😂 and not sure if the early miscarriage will have thrown things out xx

[Klndmr in reply to Core]

Nothing ever works the way we want it isn’t it? But w shave to carry on with positive thoughts and endless strength 🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕💕💕💕

[Michael30]

Hey, I agree defo the first day of full flow

😣 how are you feeling about this FET? I start meds on Friday for our last embie for this cycle too. Do you have any idea when roughly your transfer will be? We may be 2ww buddies? 😊xx

[Klndmr in reply to Michael30]

I did start the meds today.

I don’t really know how I feel to be honest. After 4 chemicals all together in a row (2 conceived naturally and 2 from ivf last year) I don’t really want to put my hopes up. At times I’m really calm and relaxed and then all of a sudden I feel quite anxious. But at the end of the day whatever happens, I can do my best and be positive and hopeful and pray for the best outcome. I think is all goes well my transfer should be around 20-25 January.

How about you? How do you feel? 💕💕💕

[Michael30 in reply to Klndmr]

Totally understandable! So sorry to hear about your chemicals 😢It’s such a roller coaster but a positive you seem to fall easily...are they changing any meds due to your chemicals? I am feeling mixed as always, same as you. Excited/ nervous and anxious 😂I think my transfer will be around the 2nd week of Feb as I do long cycles. Let’s keep in contact and best of luck to you! Xxx

[Klndmr in reply to Michael30]

Nope not changing any meds or anything. They said my body responds well and they can’t really do anything about the chemicals.... I asked 10 times I managed to make them do bloods for Lupus and antibodies which all came back normal so they said we stick to the plan. So the only thing I have left is to pray and hope.

Keep me informed on how you getting on hun and let the luck be on our side! 💕💕💕💕🤩🤩🤩🤩🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞xxx

[Michael30 in reply to Klndmr]

Oh bless you! Sounds like me (asking 10 times) Well I wish you all the best of luck and will be praying for you too I will do indeed - starting the Burserilyn on Friday and quite excited now...what are you on currently? xxx

[Klndmr in reply to Michael30]

I’m doing FET without down regulation. I started progynova on Sunday and have scans booked for 14th and 17th so hopefully transfer will be in the week of the 20th ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

[Michael30 in reply to Klndmr]

Oh I see...how exciting! I dont know much about progynova - is it injections or tablets? Good luck and keep us posted xxx

[AcuFertilityDoc]

If I learned one thing from this string is that there’s not a standard “professional” opinion on the matter. The way I look at it is if you experience a normal flow, even if you started out the day spotting, it’s the first day of your period. Simplified common sense I think. Good luck with your little embaby!!!❤️❤️❤️😊👍

[Klndmr in reply to AcuFertilityDoc]

I do think the same but my clinic thinks and proceeds in different ways. If you start before 12pm then it’s day 1 🥰

Thank you ever so much 🤩 hope the last one will be THE ONE 🥰🤞🤞🤞

[KiboXX]

I think we might end up being tww buddies, I’m 7 days into my tablets 😊 Got my first scan Friday to check lining 🤞🏻

[Klndmr in reply to KiboXX]

Yayyy how exciting 🥰🥰🥰 I have my first scan on Tuesday 🥰🥰💕💕💕

Here we go for a big fat Positive this time yayy xxxx🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

[KiboXX in reply to Klndmr]

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