I know that there is a lot of ‘luck’ in IVF but having recently turned 41 I am grappling with when (and if) to stop trying for baby #2. I have endometriosis but other than that for our ages my partner and me score well on the usual fertility metrics. Age is likely to be our biggest obstacle now!
My IVF history is below.
Once I recover from my recent MMC I was thinking of either doing a fresh IVF cycle with genetic testing or simply transferring our remaining 2 untested frozen blastocysts back. I think we have the energy and emotional strength to try another 2 cycles of IVF. However, I worry due to my age that we may well be wasting our time. I’m not sure I want to go down the donor route. What would you do if you were me?
Also, I would love to hear from any other ladies over 40 about their paths to success with their own eggs? I don’t want to give up prematurely, and worry that what I need to do is simply accept that this time it may take longer due to my age.
Thanks for reading and listening, x
Ps seeing my fertility doc next week, but recognise much of the decision making is ultimately ours.
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Age 39 - IVF #1 yielded 7 blasts (from 14 mature eggs). I’ve had 2 MMC and my son from this cycle with 1 day 6 blast in the freezer. All were FETs due to overstimulation.
Age 40 - IVF #2 yielded 4 blasts (from 13 mature eggs). We had these and 2 day 7 blasts genetically tested and all were genetically abnormal.
Age 41 - IVF #3 yielded 1 blast (from 10 mature eggs). This is genetically untested and in the freezer.