Feeling crap

[Millbanks]

Hi girls,

Not sure if it’s the weather or it’s starting to sink in that I’ll never get pregnant naturally after my tube clipping, but feeling pretty low today.

I know the end result is what I’m after, regardless of how I get there, but cant shake the sadness of my loss of natural chance.

My OH is sad too but somehow that makes me feel worse 😢

Hoping to have our first transfer in my October cycle but now feeling so much more pressure on that working.

Sending lots of love to you all, struggling or not 💖💖💖

[GF1989]

Hi Millbanks. I haven’t been in this situation so can’t offer any advice but just wanted to say I’m thinking of you and offer some support. It’s completely understandable how you are feeling after what happened and it’s natural to take time to get your head around it. I know it’s easier said than done but try to focus on the positive that you have a transfer coming up and keep yourself feeling as good as you can for this. Have a lovely September and good luck next month.

[Millbanks in reply to GF1989]

Thank you. That does help! You are right xx

[Jenny_]

Hope you get over this feeling soon and your October transfer successful.

[Millbanks in reply to Jenny_]

Thanks Jenny. Good luck with your transfer. I was wondering the same about BBT but if you’re taking progesterone then your temps would be higher anyway so it wouldn’t tell you if you were pregnant unfortunately xx

[Jenny_ in reply to Millbanks]

Thanks. My problem is that after the progesterone intake, my BBT doesn't increase, which is really annoying. I am probably going to be another one later this year.

[Millbanks in reply to Jenny_]

That’s really odd. Hope you get an answer for that x

[Jenny_ in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you. 😊