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And my IVF journey begins....

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We had our first IVF appointment this week following 3 failed IUI’s and we are able to start at the end of this month!

Im excited, nervous and everything else we all feel when going through this.

Theres quite an overwhelming amount of advice and recommendations, so I think I’m just going to take things steady and listen to my body. This time I have decided to take some time off work- something I haven’t done at all yet! In the hopes that taking care of myself more will help.

Does anyone have any tips or advice around the side affects of treatment?

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SunnyDream

Hello dear! My congratulations with the beginning of your journey. I have no tips just be calm and try to stay positive as faith makes wonders)) You shouldn't lose your hope in case of failure because it is just one of the stairs to the best result ever. The procedure is not complicated so there is nothing to worry about. Eat fresh food, make some walks and be on the fresh air as much as possible. Fresh juice nad no junk food. Don't be nervous as it may have a bad influence on your health. I wish you all the best and waiting for the updates! Baby dust!

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CLou21 in reply to SunnyDream

Thankyou so much for your kind words! Its quite daunting but Im looking after myself as best I can and trying to stay positive :)

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SunnyDream in reply to CLou21

I know, dear, that it isn't so easy to stay positive but it is good for you) I hope you will get the best result ever this time! All my prayers for you, hun!

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Gem2410

Hi,

I don’t have any advice, as I haven’t started IVF yet. But like you had three failed IUIs before this. I just wanted to wish you lots of luck. That is so exciting! How amazing you’re able to start that soon too. Taking time off work sounds good. I hope it all goes well for you. Would love to know how you get on. Fingers are crossed for you 🤞🤞😊 xx

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CLou21 in reply to Gem2410

Hi Gem, I noticed we are at similar stages! I got lucky and we got a cancellation appointment, so its happened quicker than expected- although Im not complaining!

Are you waiting to start IVF? :)

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Gem2410 in reply to CLou21

I bet! That’s great news. We have our IVF appointment August 8th. The waiting is torture 🙈 But staying positive 😊.. xx

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CLou21 in reply to Gem2410

We are pro’s at waiting aren’t we! Keep us updated on how it goes :)

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi CLou. Just wanted to wish you well with it all. Always keep your water intake up as it can help with some of the side effects of medication. have a rest when you can, but keep busy in between. Good luck! Diane

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CLou21 in reply to DianeArnold

Thankyou Diane! Im good with water so thats a start. Thankyou for your kind words ☺️ x

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amandac84

Aw your similar to me 3 rounds IUI and first Ivf. I’m early days into it so can’t say I have loads of advice. But here if you want a buddy lots of luck xxx

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CLou21 in reply to amandac84

Hi Amanda, its nice to hear from those who are going through it at a similar time. Id love to hear how you are getting on ☺️ Best of luck xx

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chickp

We are at a similar stage too. 4 unsuccessful iui’s and first ivf appointment on Tuesday. I’m mainly nervous about work as it’s been really stressful the last few weeks and I have a new headteacher in September - I think it’s a great idea to take time off if you can.

Best of luck xx

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CLou21 in reply to chickp

Hi there, Aw that must be really difficult having a change of head! What is your role within the School? I work for children and young peoples service/safeguarding. Its a really stressful job and up to now Ive found it impossible to take any time off- but im going to make myself! X

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chickp in reply to CLou21

I’m a year 6 teacher with leadership responsibilities so really not easy to take time off even if signed off by the dr. Good luck with everything xx

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Drives

Wishing you the best of luck for this next step of the journey.

Sounds like you're doing all the right things - looking after yourself is number 1 priority. Don't be afraid to do that.

Try and stay as positive as possible and be there for one another. It can be a bumpy road x x x x

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CLou21 in reply to Drives

Hi, yes its a very bumpy road, with plenty more bumps to come I’m sure! Being positive is so hard but so important, Thankyou very much! ☺️ xx

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SunnyDream

I really wish you all the best and hope your tiny will stick at once) Will be keeping everything crossed for you, hun and waiting for news! I have found an interesting article, maybe you will want to read: biotexcom.com/effectiveness...

Best of luck!

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CLou21 in reply to SunnyDream

Thankyou for your kind words! I will have a look at the article too - thankyou ☺️✨

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SunnyDream in reply to CLou21

Hi hun, how are you? Did you check the article? Would be glad to hear your thoughts about it. How do you think what outcome may such treatment have? Would you try it if you have a chance?

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Becki2019

Good luck!!! We are just waiting for our IVF appointment after our funding has been approved!

Nervous excited and impatient all at once. I think it's the unknown that's the worst!

I have been dosing up on antioxidants and acupuncture too which has been incredible!!!

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CLou21 in reply to Becki2019

Hey, so sorry I have only just seen your message! Congrats on the funding being approved, thats great news. Hopefully you wont have to wait too long for your first appointment.

Ive looked into acupuncture, Im not so keen on the idea but I keep hearing about the benefits

:)

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