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BFN Last Try

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So, I tested today 12dp 5dt, it’s negative. My consultant told me to test on Monday, but I’ve been bleeding from Friday (not heavy). I’m pretty sure it’s failed as the test date is longer than normal.

Anyway myself and hubby had already discussed this would be our last try. After 3 failed IVF cycles, we now need to focus on ourselves and the future ahead.

Donor eggs and adoption are not for us, so we just failed in this journey and it’s not meant to be. We’ve given up 7 years of holidays and time for “us” and had a tough ride and we need to put our own future in perspective now, as we not getting younger and the journey isn’t easier.

Good luck to all of you on your journeys and may you be blessed with your miracles, it truly is a blessing to achieve a family! 😘

I will be leaving this site now, as I feel exhausted and need to move on....

Much love to you all...

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I’m sorry you’ve had such a hard journey with this. It’s a big decision and I hope it helps you and your husband move forward. Very best wishes for your future. Xx

Sorry to hear it we have also decided that after this it’s our last go no matter what....

It’s not an easy decision but one that has to be made x

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