10dpt BFN

[Sashaxo]

I’m absolutely heart broken. My friend has just told me she’s pregnant aswell

[Sunshineraye]

So sorry to hear this it’s absolutely heart breaking and I’ve been in the same position with friends and family in the past and it’s so hard. Sending hugs your way xx

[Sashaxo in reply to Sunshineraye]

I don’t have any frozen either I’m absolutely heartbroken words can’t desrcibe how I’m feeling

[Sunshineraye in reply to Sashaxo]

I know it’s horrible but looking at the test again there does look like a faint line like catDV said.

I would try and test again x

[CatDV]

Hon, I don’t want to give you false hope, but unless it’s illusion from the picture, I think that I can see a faint line?

Maybe repeat the test just in case?

[Sashaxo in reply to CatDV]

I’m going to now but I can’t stop crying. I didn’t realise I would feel like this. Is ten days too early ???

[DanniiJean in reply to Sashaxo]

Awww hun, these tests are awful, never clear. Try a first response test tomorrow morning with the first wee of the day. I’m sending you a big hug xxx

[CatDV in reply to Sashaxo]

So sorry you are feeling so low.

I agree with the ladies, FRER are so much easier to read.

10dpt should be enough to show a bfp in most cases, but not always! I’ve seen ladies only having BFPs on 12dpt or even 14dpt. Not impossible

But I really hope that my eyes are not lying and you have a bfp right there.

Wishing you luck and strength 😘

[AJJ123]

I can see a faint line. I don’t fully trust blue dyes so I recommend first response - I completely understand how you feel though. It’s like you keep getting kicked when your already down. Keep us updated xx

[Dreamer94]

So sorry to hear that I know the feeling it’s getting My test date has always been 13 days after transfer. Maybe try again in a couple of days and hopefully it changes xxx

[Sashaxo]

It’s not at alllll, I just took another one and no line whatsoever

[CatDV in reply to Sashaxo]

Really sorry to hear 😔

[AJJ123 in reply to Sashaxo]

I don’t think you’d see much on a new test if it’s the same as before, get a frer and test tomorrow x

[Sashaxo in reply to AJJ123]

I changed the test I just went and got a different one and there’s nothing there. I don’t understand tho because I had a 5BB hatching embryo is there a blood test I can do

[AJJ123 in reply to Sashaxo]

Yes at your clinic u can get a blood test.

With home tests I don’t like blue dye ones - I’ve had fake bfps on them. The only ones you can trust are first response for very early pregnancy. After 4-5 weeks go digital xx

[Beebeestar]

So sorry you going through this...

My doctor told me to test 14 days after. It seems quite long compared to some but I think I’ll stick to that because it should be more accurate. His a top IVF specialist, so he must know the best date. I think you should re test in a few days.

When did your clinic tell you to test?

[Sashaxo in reply to Beebeestar]

They told me to test Saturday but when my friend messaged me I burst into tears and run to get a test. She hasn’t stopped drinking and going out for months as she’s in uni and I just feel devastated. I have work tomorrow and don’t know how I’m going to go. Do I stop the meds

[Beebeestar in reply to Sashaxo]

No, don’t stop the meds. Continue with them until the date they mentioned and re test then. I know it’s really hard but keep following your doctors instructions, it’s very early and not everyone is the same. It’s hard not to test when you see so many girls doing it on here, but it’s important to stick to your treatment.

[PurpleLove19]

So sorry! This is my worst nightmare. You wouldn’t wish this on anyone let alone your best friend but at the same time you know you’re going to struggle.

Sending lots of love x

[Lifelongdream]

This is really hard.. the other weekend i had 3 baby scan photos within 4 days from friends telling me their pregnant! I really do sympathise. Sending you lots of hugs x

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry. It’s the worst feeling in the world. I’ve been there, along with several pregnancy announcements.

Sometimes good things take time. Please don’t give up hope xx

[ICSIBaby86]

I can see a very faint line 🤞🏼 maybe test again tomorrow xxxxx my OTD was always 14dpt xx

[Sashaxo]

It’s still negative this morning so what happens next. I don’t have any frozen so will they look at changing something next time. I can’t affordvto pay and every single person in my life is a mum or pregnant

[DanniiJean in reply to Sashaxo]

Your OTD isn’t till Saturday so I would test again then just to make sure. Is this your first cycle? Do you not qualify for anymore funded cycles? Sorry things are so bad xxx

[Sashaxo in reply to DanniiJean]

I get one more cycle for free xxx

[Hidden]

it's always the way isn't it when you are trying for a baby it feels like pregnant women and pushchairs pop up out of cracks in the pavement just to upset you!

[Sashaxo in reply to Hidden]

I know my friend has been out drinking everyday having the best time and I’ve been out with them haven’t touched a sip and she’s pregnant and I’m not, isn’t fair

[Hidden in reply to Sashaxo]

Too right it's bloody unfair! Years ago I was telling a story about how I had cried at an assembly about Valentine's Day when one of my friends had said how they had done a Mother's Day assembly at their high school and how one girl had cried as her mum had died and it was a reminder of what she had sadly lost out on so I said about crying at Valentine's assembly and how I had felt silly for having cried and they said its not silly at all and how it's always the way when you have lost out on something it gets shoved in your face everywhere you turn which was right and we were 15 at the time and had come to the conclusion that the undeserving get everything and the deserving ones don't from our experiences of life!

[Hidden]

Really sorry to hear this. And I’ve been there so many times with friends & family, it’s so heartbreaking. But keep believing that your time will come & all this will be worth fighting for. It’s a struggle but it’s one you can & will win. xxx

[hifer]

Really sorry to hear this. I understand that you are devastated which is totally understandable if it is negative. Sending you lots of love xx

[Hidden]

I would test on your official test date. Don't give up hope just yet. x

[Babypleasexx]

I am so sorry you are going through this. I have a sister in law pregnant at the moment who drinks, smokes blah blah and I am more than likely very early miss-carrying for second time. Is this your first transfer. Don’t loose hope. Keep going xx