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[anonmous23]

Hi ladies

Just wanted to say whoever going through a hard time at the moment hope you all ok sending out lots love. I had my 2nd failed FET. Went to a family gathering and all had children apart from me and partner it choked me so bad I cried for days after. This whole fertility crap is bollshit. But gotta crack on.

Its been hard but lets pray to god we all become mothers very soon with gods miricle. Xxx

Just wanna send out love and hugs to all going through a hard time. Maybe we can help each other. Xxx😘

[recidwen]

Hey! I just had my second failed transfer too. It is soooo hard! But you are right we have to dust ourselves off and get back to the fight. Xxxxxx

[anonmous23 in reply to recidwen]

We do hun, its so draining and its been just a couple weeks since my second failed one and I just do not want to be defeated and I just want to spread strength to the rest of us.xxx lets not give up.

[Reetz]

I’m so sorry to hear that! Sending you lots of virtual love and praying you become a mum soon. X

[anonmous23 in reply to Reetz]

Thanks so much, its words like this that we need to hear that may bring us luck.xxx

[Scarlett13]

You sound strong and positive and selfless so you will get there xxxxxx

[anonmous23 in reply to Scarlett13]

Thanks so much for kind words xx

[DianeArnold]

Hi anonmous. That's so thoughtful of to wish others well when you are hurting s much yourself. So sorry to hear your cycle failed. Sending love and hugs back to you , and obviously I hope you have a different story to tell next time. Just be careful who you spend your time with just now, and look after you. Thinking of you. Diane

[anonmous23 in reply to DianeArnold]

Hi Diane, I was on the NHS system here in the UK because I can't afford IVF. The free system here is just like a standard protocol, I feel I was just put through the system as so to speak. Its not fair. We should at least get offered a 2nd fresh cycle. I have to go abroad now that's my only option, I am hoping to get another one done within the next 6 months on private abroad somewhere, I am hurting a lot at the moment but just wanted to support other woman in my situation. If and when I become a mum I will set up events for woman who I can give support and advise to. This is one of the hardest things to do. thanks so much for your wishes. xxx

[DianeArnold in reply to anonmous23]

Hi anonmous. Would it be possible for you to enter an egg sharing scheme, and share half the egg collected during IVF with someone else for free or reduced paid treatment? You would need to be under 35 to do this - just a thought. Diane

[anonmous23 in reply to DianeArnold]

Didn't even know this was a thing? to late for me I am 39 next month to old lol. xxx

[SunnyDream]

Hello! I am very sorry to hear that(((((. Several years ago I had an IVF and got a negative result. My doctor told me that I probably would never have my own children. I was depressed. We have been TTC for 5 years but couldn't. Last year, I decided to give a chance for both of us, my DH and me, to become parents and went to Ukraine for several more IVF cycles but with DE this time. We got bfn for our first attempt but didn't lose hope to get bfp after the 2nd one. Now I am preparing for this procedure. I am exhausted physically and mentally but still hoping for the positive result.

Don't lose your heart, just believe! There are miracles and I definitely know that sooner or later we will bring our long-awaited babies into this world!

[anonmous23 in reply to SunnyDream]

Hi SunnyDream, I am in the same situation, we have been trying for 4 and half years now. I am 39 next month so need to crack on, I am starting acupuncture next month and I have changed all my supplements, DH off to the Urology department next month to.

Whats DE mean sorry?

Yes I believe God and Miracles are powerful and we will be blessed. xxx

[SunnyDream in reply to anonmous23]

Sorry for this abbreviation. DE means donor eggs

With all my heart I believe that you will succeed!

[anonmous23 in reply to SunnyDream]

Thanks so so much xx