Hi lovely ladies. Thank you again for all your kind, thoughtful messages. It really has helped to keep me going and feel a little less alone.
We received a call from one of the embryologists this morning and sadly she said only one of our four embies is developing as they would hope. She said they hope our transfer can go ahead with this one tomorrow but there is a chance it may not be viable.
Really trying to keep positive and praying for a miracle but my heart is breaking a little bit at the moment.
I hope tomorrow brings good news. xxx ๐๐๐คโค๏ธ
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Thanks so much Cinderella. Itโs such an emotional rollercoaster isnโt it?! I think the embryology teams are such special people, it must be so hard to make those calls. Sending you big hugs back too. xx ๐ค
Its horrible, we lost all of our embryos on one cycle and we just werent prepared for that at all....didnt even know that could happen! Got my fingers and toes crossed....come on little embie....grow!!xx
It was tough, we did better on our next two cycles and got 3 blastocysts out of 2 cycles after taking DHEA but no pregnancy. We are now onto using DE so hoping success isnt too far away now! This whole thing is so bloody tough. Let us know how you get on!xx
Thatโs good that you had more success with other cycles. Iโm keeping everything crossed for you and praying for your little miracle. Youโre so strong and inspirational. Sending big hugs. xxx
Oh Iโm so sorry to hear this. Such sad news. Aw I really am, but not all is lost. Itโs easier for us to say of course. But the fact you have one little fighter is all you need and you hear of people on here saying they had the same or less and getting such a positive result. Iโm so sorry this is happening to you and your OH. Please keep in knowledge to be like to yourself. Xxxxx
Thanks so much for your thoughtful message. I think it just came as such a shock as I was convinced it would go ahead today. Praying that our one little fighter develops to Blastocyst stage. ๐ค xxx
So sorry to hear this Kat, you must be devastated. This is such a tough and emotional journey. Praying that your little embie is a fighter and will be ready for transfer tomorrow ๐ค๐ค๐๐๐ค๐ค
Thanks so much for your kind message. So sorry to read about your recent experience too. Sending hugs and wishing you all the best for your onward IVF journey. xx
Literally willing that little embie on. So sad and angry for you the other three didn't make it, but if there is one thing I've learnt with IVF rock bottom can quickly be brighter news the next day so don't give up hope yet. Good luck xx
Thanks so much Daisy. Your words make me feel stronger, thank you. โบ๏ธ๐ค๐ชVery wise advice. Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for your two week wait xx
Hi Kat, how aweful. I know exactly what you're feeling like. We lost all our eggs from our last fresh cycle. It can be extremely hard to deal with after all the energy you put into getting to that point to then lose it all at the end.
Let's hope that your embie hangs in and continues to develop. I'll be thinking of you.
Thanks so much Hannah for your kind message. So sorry to hear about your eggs from your last drag cycle. That must have been heart breaking for you. Many congrats on your BFP! ๐๐ So pleased for you. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. xx
That โoneโ could be the golden egg. I know exactly how tough it is and got tears in my eyes writing this. Think positive and tomorrow I pray you get your good news ๐ค๐ผ๐๐ป๐
Aww thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words. I really hope youโre right. โบ๏ธ๐๐Wishing you all the best with your onward IVF journey. xxx
Thank you so much for your kind message. I really appreciate it. Sending you big hugs too. ๐คWishing you lots of luck for your onward IVF journey. xxx
Heya Hun. So sorry to hear this. Really hope all is well for tomorrow to go ahead. Everything crossed for u๐ค๐ค feels v unfair. All here for u Hun though sorry couldnโt message until now xx
Thanks so much for your lovely message hon. ๐ It was such a shock this morning, I really thought my transfer was going to happen today. The one which is at pre-blastocyst stage is doing well but the embryologist said she couldnโt say for definite if it would be viable for transfer tomorrow. Iโm just praying and hoping overnight that our little embryo gets to the right stage. How are you doing? xxx
Oh lots of hopes for u Hun. Really hope it continues to develop well so u can transfer ๐ค๐ค๐ค
Am ok ta. Been back from the clinic and booked to start again when start my next cycle so exciting but nervous. See what happens this time. Never straight forward but hey
Fingers crossed for the one ๐ค I had two cycles with only one to transfer. Unfortunately they didnโt work but my third cycle did (it made a huge difference going from NHS to a private clinic). I know itโs a blow but donโt give up xxx
Thanks so much for your kind message and wise words. I really appreciate you sharing your experience. Many congrats on your BFP! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. ๐๐ xx
Our cycle that worked was from poorer quality embryos and we never had any to freeze. Where are you having treatment? I havenโt heard of such strict NHS criteria before x
Thanks for sharing your experience. We are being treated in a clinic in London. I think it was because my AMH level was just within the criteria that they set these conditions. If we donโt the go ahead tomorrow, I think I will push for a fresh transfer next time. xx
Thanks so much, I really appreciate your kind message. xx
So sorry to hear your news Kat, I know how hard it is waiting for the dreaded call you feel sick and worry hey, it only takes one though & this little one could be the fighter that ends up being transferred & resulting in a BFP for you, I know itโs hard but fingers crossed this one keeps developing another day can make a positive difference. I will b keeping everything crossed for you. Xx ๐๐ค
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