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Start of the 2ww

Clairenix
Clairenix
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Hey ladies,

It's been a while since I last posted but just a little update, I'm currently in the Czech Republic and had my FET yesterday, we decided like last time just to have 1 put back in, the transfer went really well and the embryo was a really good grade and wasn't effected by the thaw so all we can do now is pray.

Before traveling I was very anxious due to our last experience but now feeling calm and positive,although not looking forward to the dreaded 2ww 😐

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Masha111

Good luck to you Claire. Hope your embie sticks and that its a great start to the new year for you. Keep yourself busy with relaxing activities. You can do this. You will beat the 2WW and you will get your BFP ans go on to have a happy and healthy pregnancy and birth xxx

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Clairenix
Clairenix
in reply to Masha111

Thankyou Masha, ive booked next week off work and have some nice outings planned to keep my mind occupied,well as much as it can be haha. I'm really hoping it's third time lucky xxx

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DianeArnold
DianeArnoldAdministrator

Hi Claire. Safe journey home, and find time to have a rest in between keeping busy while you wait. Fingers crossed. Diane

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Clairenix

Thankyou Diane, I have next week off work so planned a mixture of outings with a couple of days kept aside for Christmas film binge watching. Hope your well x

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Clairenix

Hi Diane, would you mind answering a query for me? Is it safe to have the flu vaccine just after a FET, I'm a bit paranoid about getting ill and thought it may be worth having the vaccine just in case but not sure if it would have a negative impact so soon after a FET

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DianeArnold
DianeArnoldAdministrator
in reply to Clairenix

Hi Claire. Yes, I’ve always been advised to recommend that patients have the flu vaccine, no matter at what stage they are with a treatment cycle. Diane

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Clairenix

Thanks Diane for coming back to me, I will do that then when I get home

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DianeArnold
DianeArnoldAdministrator
in reply to Clairenix

Xx

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Tugsgirl

Wishing you luck. I hope you’re having a nice little mini break too.. travel safely xx

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Clairenix
Clairenix
in reply to Tugsgirl

Thankyou, it's been lovely visiting the Christmas markets and going out for nice meals, although did have an allergic reaction Thurs night which panicked me as was night before transfer but rang clinic and they said I was ok to take my steroids and antihistomines xx

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Tugsgirl
Tugsgirl
in reply to Clairenix

I’m glad that was quickly sorted..

Oh how magical it sounds xx

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Cinderella5

Wishing you all the luck in the world Claire!!🤞😙 Enjoy your time over there, hopefully you've got a couple days left to enjoy the Christmas markets.xxx

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Clairenix

Thankyou hun, it has been a lovely time (apart from see post above to Vicky!!), I felt so much more relaxed as soon as I landed and feeling positive, I am looking forward to getting home tomorrow,missing snuggles from my moggy Sabrina, she's been with me every step of this journey!! How are you doing? Xxx

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Cinderella5

Oh heck that must have been very scary!!😨 Glad you're doing ok after that drama & well done on feeling calm! I'm ok ta, just waiting to get started again....impatience has set in, as usual!🙈 Im hoping I can start on next AF but with it being Xmas I'm not sure I will be able to get scans etc....standard for me, nothing ever simple!!😂xx

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Clairenix

Yes I'm all good now,I'm a nightmare to go anywhere with,have a severe allergy to selfish but also recently found out I have a exercise induced anaphylaxis (very random and can be bought on just from walking)!!

Xmas is such an inconvenience isn't it!! I would be exactly the same,patience is not one of my traits,I really hope you don't have to wait too much longer xxx

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Clairenix

Shellfish not selfish haha!!

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Camillage

Good luck Claire. Keeping everything crossed. So good that you are feeling calm x

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Clairenix
Clairenix
in reply to Camillage

Thankyou Camillage, as soon as I stepped off the plane I felt calm and have been enjoying the trip, had a nice long walk around the castle and the markets and been out for nice meals, I'm off work next week so planned things to keep my mind off everything.

How are you getting on? Xx

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Camillage
Camillage
in reply to Clairenix

Going ok thanks. At 10 weeks now which is scary, still worry and anxiety but amazing. The way you are is just how I was this time. Really hoping you get your bfp xxx

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Clairenix
Clairenix
in reply to Camillage

Thankyou 😄 Hopefully you will get some more reassurance on Christmas Eve when you go for your scan, this Christmas is going to be a magical one for you xxx

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Camillage
Camillage
in reply to Clairenix

How are you getting on? Xx

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Clairenix
Clairenix
in reply to Camillage

I'm good thankyou, this week has really flown by as I've kept myself really busy, back at work Mon but finish Weds and not back to the New Year so luckily I'll be off next Fri which is test date. I haven't had any bleeding this time round so not sure if that is a good or bad sign but trying not to analyse everything.

How you doing, counting down the days to your next scan I expect ❤ xx

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Camillage
Camillage
in reply to Clairenix

Oh that's not long. Glad you are doing well. I am really hoping for the hoped for outcome this time. You are really sounding so relaxed. This must be the time.

All good here. Symptoms come and go which is annoying, worrying and relief all at the same time. I am starting to get nervous about next Monday. But hey, only a week to go.

Fingers crossed for us both xx

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Clairenix
Clairenix
in reply to Camillage

Thankyou, I'll probably be a bag of nerves next week!!

Yes fingers crossed for us both, I'll be looking forward to hearing from you xx

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Lou7744

Wishing you lots of luck and hope the 2ww goes super fast 💕 xx

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Clairenix
Clairenix
in reply to Lou7744

Thankyou, I've got lots planned when I get home so I'm hoping it won't drag too much xx

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Phillipsjp

Good luck hunny, sending you lots of baby dust for your 2ww 😘

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Clairenix

Thankyou that's much appreciated, I am feeling positive xx

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Scarlett13

Good luck!!! I’ve just had transfer so I’m on the 2ww too, my 5th! X

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Clairenix

Thankyou Scarlett, how are feeling? When is your test date?

At times I did have second thoughts about the timing of the transfer due to Christmas as it will either be a fantastic one or really disappointing but anytime of the year is hard isn't it!! X

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HollieW

Good luck on your 2ww and fingers crossed for that BFP 🤞 xx

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Elle32inz

You can get through this and make sure you spend your days busy xx you have got this good luck xx

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Clairenix
Clairenix
in reply to Elle32inz

Thanks Elle 😃, I have some days out planned catching up with family and friends and also a day date tomorrow with the Christmas channel, last time I wasn't too bad in the 2ww so hopefully I can stay calm this time!! Xx

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