Birth partner...

[Klndmr]

Soo here we go.... My husband's best friend and his wife are expecting she got pregnant on first try despite the fact she got the morning after pill.. Long story short, she has no friends here, no family, nobody... She is now in the hospital just been induced and I'm her second birth partner... I said yes because the guy is like my brother and he asked me to... Im not ready to do that, don't know how i will feel but he is like family and i can't let them down... Send some positive vibes my way i hope this experience won't bring the anxiety and sadness back but will make me stronger... Have a lovely evening everyone 😍😍😍😍😍

[here-_to_get_support]

Good luck!! xx

[Klndmr in reply to here-_to_get_support]

Thank you. Will need that... For one month 2 of my friends had babies, im keeping myself up and looking forward to my first ivf cycle. I can do that and i will (hopefully 😆). Xxxxx

[here-_to_get_support in reply to Klndmr]

You will, I believe having a different journey to most makes us and our OH's stronger. You are an amazing woman doing this. x

[Klndmr in reply to here-_to_get_support]

Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤

[Kiedy84]

Oh my goodness, I really admire you for wanting to do this. I don't think I could. You sound very strong! so lovely you want to help your friends. Good luck! xxx

[Klndmr in reply to Kiedy84]

I couldn't say no. Im worried but i can do that and i will! We should never leave people in need isn't it? ❤❤❤❤xxxx

[Hidden]

Wow. Well done to you. Hopefully by being there supporting your friend your body will get the message of what it's meant to do.

Hats off to you most definitely. It is a tough situation and one that many would not be able to cope with. Xxx

[Klndmr in reply to Hidden]

I haven't beenthinking about it to be honest. I mean i said yes and i forgot about it cause i had so many things on my head. But i feel fine for doing it, let's see how will be afterwards ❤❤❤❤xxxx

[Masha111]

Hiya. You are a lovely person being there for other people, i hope when you need support the same people (and others) are there for you too. Hope all goes well. Good luck xxx

[Klndmr in reply to Masha111]

I hope the same thing. That's what hubby says as well hahah. Xxxx

[Kempton]

That's really kind of you. Sometimes the second birthing partner just ends up being a spare part to get drinks and essentials etc.

And you'll probably end up having a very special relationship with the baby! Surely that's gotta be good for baby dust lol.

Good luck

[Klndmr in reply to Kempton]

True. Ended up just bringing stuff to the hospital and supporting them out of the labor room 😍😍😍 Im already a God mother to my bf baby who came a month ago hahah xxx

[Hidden]

You are one strong lady and I really admire you for being so supportive when you are going through your own stuff xx

[Klndmr in reply to Hidden]

Ended up not going in which was a good thing tbh. This year was full of babies hahaha at one point i thought i will get mad. Ny BF had a baby a month ago and im her God mother.. Since this baby came I've totally changed my point of view and stopped getting so upset and anxious. Xxxx

[a1234567]

Well done for doing this, she is very lucky to have you as a friend. Despite our tough journey, life with infertility is still life and sometimes we need to be there for our friends. The couple chose you to share one of their special moments, you must feel very proud that you are loved and appreciated. Try to see it in a positive way. You will be a mother one way or another, you just don’t know when. Good luck and very well done xx.

[Klndmr in reply to a1234567]

Thank you for your lovely words. I ended uo not going in but supported them over the phone all night and will go to bring them some stiff in the hospital. Xxx

[a1234567 in reply to Klndmr]

You still did what was good for you and you were there for them at the same time. If they are good friends of yours I’m sure they will understand and be very happy that you found an alternative way to support them. Very best of luck, you deserve the same happiness xx.

[precioce]

What a selfless thing to do. Good luck.xx

[Klndmr in reply to precioce]

Thank you. It was a year full of babies hahaha at one point i thought Im getting crazy. But soon to start my first cycle and im much more calm now xxx

[Waterfall2]

You are doing a truly wonderful thing, it's so kind of you. If there is an ounce of karma in this world your good deed will be rewarded and it will be your turn soon.

[Klndmr in reply to Waterfall2]

Hey. Thank you. Its been a tough year everyone eas pregnant and had babies. I'm evena God mother of my vest friend's baby. She came a month ago and i love her as she was my child. Xxx

[MissSaoPaulo]

I have to say, I really admire you for doing this! It's very selfless and shows enormous character and strength. Hope it all goes smoothly xxx

[Klndmr in reply to MissSaoPaulo]

Thank you. I ended uo not going in but supported them all night over the phoneand Im on myway to go tonthe hospital and bring them some food and stuff. Xxx❤❤❤

[MissSaoPaulo in reply to Klndmr]

Probably the best thing you can do for them right now. Glad to hear it all worked out in the end

[Klndmr in reply to MissSaoPaulo]

Yess i think this was the best that could happen. I still spent two hours in the hospital with mum and het newborn baby 😍😍xx

[Hidden in reply to Klndmr]

Well done xx

[Klndmr in reply to Hidden]

❤❤❤xx

[runsoncuddles]

Sending you lots of good wishes! You're very kind for being there for them

[Klndmr in reply to runsoncuddles]

Thank you. There was no need for me to go in but spent good 2 hours in the hospital with the mum and her newborn 😍😍😍xxx

[Sweets1]

Ohhh your so kind! Good luck xx

[Klndmr in reply to Sweets1]

Thank you 😍 They didn't need me for the birth but spent 2 hours in the hospital with thr mum and her newborn. Newborns are such an amazing thing, little miracles... ❤❤❤