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16+4 our angel was born!

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This is incredibly hard for me to post. As most of you know we lost our little girl last year at 23 weeks. Yesterday we gave birth to our perfect little girl following a traumatic labour.

No words I guess but we are devasted again. We think I have issues with my cervix.

So we will wait for post mortem and follow up with a consultant to plan a head. I’m not sure I can go for ivf again but who knows how I will feel later.

God luck to all you lovely ladies wherever you are on your journeys.

Xx

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Hollibob

Sorry you have gone through this again...as you say, no words can help at this time x

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Cinderella5

Oh Missy Im so dreadfully sorry, I have no words and cant imagine thet pain you have been through and going through again!! Love and hugs to you both!xxxx

I simply dont know what to say to you, I'm sitting here in total shock that this has happened to you again. I simply cannot imagine your pain. Please just know I am thinking of you and wishing you the strength to get through this again. Clearly you are an amazing woman, all my love to you and your partner, X.

Oh bless you, this is utterly devastating to read. I can't even begin to imagine how heart breaking it must be to go through it once let alone twice. Beyond cruel. Thinking of you & sending you love xx

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Franco81

Oh Missy, I just want to send love and strength to you and your partner to find a way through this xxx

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genten

I'm so so sorry.

No words but sending love to you. Xxx

This is so heart breaking to read. There are no words except I am truly sorry for your losses. I hope you have lots of support around you at this devasting time. Thinking of you xxx

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londonrc

I am so so sorry to hear this devastating news. Sending you lots of love and hugs. Xx

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Sammy18

This is so sad to read, I'm so sorry you are both going though this. Take some time to grieve, you appear to be a very strong women, I can only imagine your pain. Look after each other I'm sure you will both need each other. Big hugs to you both xx

I’m so so sorry xxxx

Such devastating news. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family in this difficult time.

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Tugsgirl

No words really except to say I’m so very sorry for you and your Hubby. I hope your friends and family are providing you with lots of love, support and understanding. I’m so sorry xx

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Masha111

So sorry to hear of your losses. May you find strength and support to help you through this difficult time. You have been through it twice. Cant imagine ehat you must be going through. Thinking of you both. Xx

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misswinky34

I’m so very sorry. prayers and love.

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Jane_30

I am so sorry....

So very sorry. Thinking of you and sending love ❤️

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Lou9

So sad to read this. Sending love and strength to you. X

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Missy_22. What an incredibly brave girl you are! You've posted, which is the first step in receiving so much support from all the other ladies on here. Such a terrible loss to go through again, my one was dreadful, so I can only try and understand what you are feeling now. Hopefully, the "incompetent" cervix if found to be the problem, can be stitched as a prevention when you are ready to try again, which I do hope you find the strength to do. Sending you much love and I shall be thinking of you. Diane

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E_05

This is just devastating to read, I’m so sorry. Sending strength to you x

Im really gutted to read this 😥. So sorry for your losses. I hope you have family and friends to support you during this time Missy. I will be thinking of you. This whole journey can be so cruel. One minute you have good news only to be knocked down again. I truly hope you will be ok. Sending you lots of hugs Xxxxxx

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Lou7744

I’m so sorry to read this. Sending you lots of hugs at this sad time 💕 xx

Oh no, i am so so sorry to read this. Really hope you get some concrete answers. You are so brave and strong. You will get your dream xx

Sending lots of love your way this is truly devastating news big hugs 😘 xxx

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Autumnmoon

Can only imagine your grief sorry feels inadequate but I hope the messages and love behind them bring a little comfort to you x

Im terribly sorry .sending hugs to you .

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Lolepops

I am so sorry for your loss 💔x x

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Emma04

I am so so sorry to read this and I am so very sorry for your losses. There are no words that can be of any comfort at this time, you and your family will be in my thoughts. Xxx

My heart bleeds for you. Nothing make sense and me sayin am sorry even though I feel as do some of us feel that breaking pain. Be kind to yourself do whatever it takes and even if right not you can only cope minute by minute then that’s ok we all can get through 1 minute at time time.

Right now just do 1 minute until you can do 2 and so on.

Huge huge hugs...

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staceymac83

So sorry to read this 💔 sending u lots of love xx

Oh I’m so sorry and sad to read this missy, I can’t begin to imagine how you feel, it’s heartbreaking. Sending love and prayers to you and your husband xxxxx

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Waterfall2

I'm so sorry. There aren't any words to make this better is wish there were. Keeping you in my thoughts.

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Orla9298

I am so, so sorry, I’m thinking of you. Lots of love xx

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Freckles28

Hiya i lost my baby boy 30th january 16+2. Its just so so heartbreaking. Im really thinking of you xxxxxxx

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Kari55

So sorry, sending love ❤️ xx

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Mifkipi

I'm so sorry to read this :(. I can only imagine how devastating it must have been. I really hope they will be able to determine the cause. In the meanwhile, hope you rest up. Take care and sending you strengths to get through this terrible time ♥️

I'm sorry to hear that. That's just so bloody unfair having that happen twice in a short space of time!

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kt_11

I’m so sorry to hear this. I can’t begin to imagine how this feels for you but am thinking of you and feel truly devastated for you. Sending my love to you and your angels. Keep strong xx

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Clover5

I’m so sorry for both of your losses. Life can be so cruel. Heaven has gained another little angel. Sending love and thinking of you at the tragic time 💕 xX

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Sweets1

So sorry, thinking of you xx

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baby2016

Oh missy, there are just no words. How utterly heartbreaking for you all. I cannot even begin you imagine your pain. Sending you such a huge hug of support and love. I really hope you get some answers xxx

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Mantaray75

So so sad to read this. Thinking of you. x

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Elynn

So sorry ......much love.

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vic77

there are no words for this pain you are going through. I am so so sorry for your loss. .sending love and strength xxx

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Hope85

So sorry for your loss. Lots of love 💕

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry, this is just awful newd😔. I hope that you are coping as well as you can. Sending hugs xx

I am truly sorry to read this. 😢I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through. Not much I can say, but I’m thinking of you during this awful time. xoxo

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SConnor

So sorry, I guess there are no words that can possibly help in this situation but I send you my love and loads of strength xx

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Shirazlover2013

I’m truly so sorry for you. Its not something anyone should have to endure. Look after yourself as best you can. Sending big hugs xx

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Caroliono4

I'm so very sorry to hear this xx

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Birdboy1

I am so so sorry, nothing I could say could ease your pain. Sending you loads of love xxx

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tiger-cub

Oh missy ! I’m so so so sorry . I’m just dumb founded. I can’t imagine how u r coping up . Loads of hugs and kisses

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Aleelilook

I’m so very sorry for your terrible loss 😞xxx

So sorry, sending you big hugs x

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