share your positives

[vic77]

so am helping Franco81 out here with a positive story from yesterday. so we swithered whether to go to a frieds husbands opening night of his new interior design shop preferring yet another night on sofa with netflix but we forced ourselves and I even put a dress on.it was a great night..guy there doing fab cooking demos and lots of wine and had a proper belly laugh with some friends..sore head this morning tho but my positive for today is that it is a bank holiday here so am still in bed and considering my yoga class..do I go or not???😂I am so grateful for my fab friend yesterday who has been such an awesome support to us both oh and a quick peek out window shows sun is shining 🌞🌞🌞🌞😎😎have a good day ladies...much love xxx

[Cinderella5]

Ahhh sounds like you had a fab night out Vic, just what the Dr ordered! Sometimes thosw nights out when you've had to drag your ass out are the best! Well done on the positive posts too!xx

[vic77 in reply to Cinderella5]

right Mrs. .all good but where is ur positive? ??xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to vic77]

Oh hell, Im the most pessimistic person on the planet! 🙈 I dunno, its Friday!😂xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Cinderella5]

That’s today’s positive. Where is yesterday’s? 😂 xx

[vic77 in reply to Tugsgirl]

lol I agree Cinderella5 needs to dog deeper😂any wee positive will do 😉xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Busted Tugs & vic77 !🙈 I literally don't have one.....how sad is that?!😂😂xx

[vic77 in reply to Cinderella5]

WELL I am going to make one up..talking to us on here bugging you for a positive will Mayberry make you chuckle xx

[vic77 in reply to vic77]

LOL me saying Mayberry instead if maybe made me giggle 😂xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to vic77]

I did have a chuckle there...knew what you meant! Talking to you guys is always a positive Tugsgirl & you Vic !! Tomorrow is a new day, I'll look for a good one!!💕😜xx

[vic77 in reply to Cinderella5]

YOU do that hun..many a dark day you have lightened for me xxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to vic77]

Awwww you're too kind!! You'll make me cry but defo a positive feeling there.....2 in one day. I have a third, from a patient at work too...!!👍👍xx

[Tugsgirl]

I guess my positive for yesterday is that Hubby cooked tea and very nice it was too. He does the washing up every day too and yesterday was no exception. Normally I cook and he washes up. Then we had chocolate angel delight for pud 😋 I spent the evening catching up on some reading on the sofa with some gentle light and the glow of some scented candles while the wind howled and the rain thudded against the windows. I felt content. That’s another positive xx

[vic77 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Oh angel delight. .retro and yum xx

[Kiedy84]

Hi the best thing yesterday was meeting a girl from this very forum😃😃 we have arranged this almost 4 weeks ago and I was so looking forward to it, we had a lovely chat, exchanged phone numbers and arranged to meet again.

I feel so less lonely now in my city of Newcastle 😍

[vic77 in reply to Kiedy84]

that's fab..as much as I live this forum there is nothing like face to face xx

[Kiedy84 in reply to vic77]

Do you also meet with ladies from here? X

[vic77 in reply to Kiedy84]

nope I haven't would love too though but don't think too many Scottish folk on here xx

[Hidden in reply to vic77]

Me Vic77. I am in Portobello. Where are you? X

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Cindarella is Scotland too if I remember correctly. There is a thingy on here where you can see if people are close by. Then you just have to find people brave enough to actually meet face to face 🤣

[vic77 in reply to Hidden]

OH I love porty...I lived in leith for years...love it..am in Glasgow ..maybe we should arrange a Scottish meet?xxx

[Hidden in reply to vic77]

Definitely. I have a brother and sister in Glasgow. But I will still come through ha ha

I lived on Leith walk before moving to portobello. Was hard leaving Boda and the shore. But it is only 3 miles away ha ha x

[vic77 in reply to Hidden]

well let me know if you are over this way..we are in the southside xx

[Hidden in reply to vic77]

Will do. Xx

[Hidden in reply to vic77]

I will be over that way on 11th October for an early morning scan

[Franco81]

I’m sorry Vic, yesterday wasn’t a great day for me and ended in a huge row with my hubby and me in tears all night, there’s so much going on and I just couldn’t focus on a positive. But those are the times I guess I need to most.

So this morning we had a long walk, talk, hug and cry and we’re focussing forward. I’m not working today so my Dads coming round to see my new place and I can’t wait to see him! So there’s my positive for now and I’ll post again tonight with hopefully lots of positives from today xx

[AS100 in reply to Franco81]

Hope you’ve had a good day with your dad Franco81 💟

Long walk and hugs sound good ☺️ xxx

[vic77]

so sorry hun..we all have days like that so no stress I am your positive partner in crime here and just wanted to continue what u started💜💜today will have lots of positives. ..don't be too hard on yourself hun xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Iv been following these and wanted to post but was hesitant too as I'm pregnant. I know lots of you will say it's for all to get involved. So here goes.

My positive for today is getting a lovely text and email from my grandad ( only recently we've got back on speaking terms since my grandma passed 4 years ago) and it was lovely as he asked how I'm getting on and how I'm coping with the weather

Also kept me updated regards other family matters. Which means so much as I don't have a, relationship with my mum or siblings anymore had zero family support throughout this pregnancy it's been really hard. So to have this now late on is really nice. 😘💝

[Hidden in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

That sounds so hard. But you at least have that line of communication now. It must be bad to have lost all communication and your mother not being there for you.

Take heart from the fact that you are now creating your own wee family and really it doesn't matter about the rest of the world. Big hugs to you from your Healthunlocked family xxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Hidden]

Tbh my mums never been there for me she left us with my dad at age of 4 iv tried numerous times with her to have a, relationship but since I had my daughter she seems to stick her nose in where it really isn't appreciated or respected for obvious reasons. It's took her to go that step to far for me to realise I can't have someone like her around my family. It is hard because I crave motherlove but I'm never going to get it and just need to make sure I give what I wanted to my children who I'm so extremely blessed to have and would never treat them the way she has us.

This is why iv really appreciated having you lovelies help and support throughout my losses and this pregnancy because I just don't get it apart from OH and a friend who is very busy.

Thanks so much Camilage for your reply that's another positive to add to my day

😘😘💝💝

[Hidden in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

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[vic77 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

YOU are amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to vic77]

So are YOU 😘😘💝💝💝

[Cinderella5 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Wow, just Wow! Bless you my sweet. I can't even imagine what you've been through and the loss of you dad. You are just simply amazing, I'm sure you're just a wee Angel on here.....!! You are super kind, humble and give us all so much support!! Huge hugs.xxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Cinderella5]

Awwww bless ya cinders. I didn't share for yous to feel sorry for me, just letting Camillage know it's something I'm used too, although would, be nice to have my mum around for support. It's just not going to happen. We're both completely different ppl.

Thanks Cinders I really feel you lot are just amazing and wonderful ppl

Huge hugs to you too 😘💝💝

[Cinderella5 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Oh no, it's not feeling sorry for you! It's pure admiration to be honest!! You're so strong & supportive.....those are the things that have shaped you & made you he person that you are and im grateful to have you and everyone here !!💕xxxxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks lovely, I'm greatful for you all too. Means a lot what you've said hun

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[vic77 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Woh lovely lady enough of that..positives are not solely for those of us still without our miracles ...share away gorgeous xxxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to vic77]

Thanks Vic. Lots of love to you hun 😘😘💝💝💝

[Hidden]

Oh, nearly forgot to put my positive. Today I went to the hairdressers and got a new sleek short bob with a full fringe and back to my "more natural" hair colour. I feel fab! Xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Hidden]

Sounds fab. I'd love to go short don't have the guts though

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[Hidden in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

I went short short a couple of years ago. Now growing again. Secret is to have an amazing hairdresser. They will keep you right. X

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Hidden]

Iv yet to find one it's such a nightmare. Xxx

[vic77 in reply to Hidden]

I used to go to a fab hairdresser in portobello years ago..my pal says finding a good hairdresser is harder than finding a good man 😂xx

[Hidden in reply to vic77]

That's hilarious. Come back and go to Kirsty for a cut x

[AS100]

Love your positive story (+ all the others 😊) and love a good belly laugh! My positive for today is sunshine, seeing my dad and it’s friday!! Xx

[vic77 in reply to AS100]

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