We just had our private scan at 17+3 weeks and all looks good with baby.
My placenta might be low lying so we have to check again if it changes at 20 week scan which she says happens often, so not to worry.
And the gender is a girl!!! We are totally shocked and had not thought for a second it was a girl....
Feel a lot calmer....😊💕
Thank you everyone for your kind responses to my previous post below.
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I felt totally fine after the reassurance of our 13 week scan and all seemed fine.
But worry is creeping in again as 13wks to 20 wks is quite a long wait to see if everything is still ok.
A good friend is also pregnant and they forked out for the Harmony scan to do indepth testing and this made me panic a bit that we didn't do it! She is all excited she could get the all clear at 11 weeks!
I didn't want to pay for this scan as I felt it may just cause more stress for us and there was no indication that we needed it....
Just want to know if anyone else has found this patch tough....
Just wish I could get more regular looks to see if all is growing normally in there....
Sorry for the rant.