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Hello ladies, I trust the weekend is going on well. Please I need your opinion on this, while on medications are we allowed to have sex with our partners?

I am afraid to because I feel I may get pregnant thereby jeopardizing the IVF process. My main reason for thus venture is to get a set of twins, I do not have any fertility issues.

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I was told no unprotected sex after my period that was the start of my IVF cycle- I was on a long day 21 protocol.

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Oh I see, unfortunately, I was not given any advise in relation to sex at all, I am just using my initiative. I am on the short protocol and I started medication on Wednesday.

I guess it is just safe to abstain until after everything.

Thank you Zoe

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Buisquits

Sex during treatment is fine but you need to use contraceptives , at least that’s what we were told xxx

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Osayuwa in reply to Buisquits

Thank you for your reply Buisquits, I take the hint.

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I’m assuming you are aware that you won’t be guaranteed to “get a set of twins” just because it’s IVF? Don’t want you to be disappointed or anything!!

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Osayuwa in reply to DisneyJL

In as much as I am optimistic, I won't be disappointed if it doesn't happen.

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Depending on how old you are and embryo quality, your clinic may only recommend one embryo to be transferred. It also depends on your own medical history- if you have a history of diabetes or blood pressure problems, they may say that the risk to carry twins is too great. There is also a higher miscarriage rate with twins and risk of premature birth so even if you conceive with twins, it may not continue. It is a lot to put your body through IVF just to get twins if you have no fertility issues as you have mentioned...

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Thank you Zoe, I will be 40 this weekend and I do not have any of either diabetes or blood pressure issues.

I will definitelt stick to what the doctors advise is safe for me and the baby. Fingers crossed!

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