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I don’t want to go for my scan I’m feeling scared

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Hi ladies

So I have my approximately 7 week scan today and I really don’t want to go Iv been having really bad cramps and morning sickness.

I feel awful and just don’t know what to feel.

My cramps are really bad on a morning and I’m feeling very negative

Please help

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We were scared too - I felt numb before the scan.

Then just cried like a baby when I had it - wish I could have enjoyed it more!

Think how much of a relief it will be afterwards if you get the all clear :)

xxx

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Tugsgirl

It’s only natural to be scared. On my first scan on my second bfp I sat in the waiting room visibly shaking. I hope all will be ok for you and you come away happy and relieved 😌 xx

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strong-girl

It’s just feels so unreal but thank you for your kind words

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Tugsgirl in reply tostrong-girl

Keep us posted how you get on xx

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Wishing you all the best and all the courage. You have to now focus on the positives and try to enjoy the present. Extra anxiety will only wear you down. Sending positive vibes xx

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strong-girl

Thank you all I’m sat here crying feeling so unsure I thought this journey would get easier

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Oh no! Sending you a big massive hug. This is so normal what you are feeling - honestly every day almost someone posts a message saying they are dreading these scans.

Waiting for the scans is like or worse than 2WW.

xxx

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Tugsgirl

How did you get on? xx

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strong-girl in reply toTugsgirl

Hey it went well I’m 6 weeks 5 days and there was a heart beat

I need to go back in the 2 weeks as my ovary is swollen

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Tugsgirl in reply tostrong-girl

And that will explain the pain you’ve experienced (although some cramping is normal). I bet you’re over the moon! xx

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strong-girl

I’m feeling much better now thank u for your support xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply tostrong-girl

Congratulations hun. Very pleased all is ok 😘💖

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So happy for you :) xxx

Congratulations. Massive relief for you. Hope you can relax a bit now x

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Missy_22

I had a scan sat and I was a wreck before I went in. Nearly had a panic attack. By all was well and heartbeat seen. Going back at 8 weeks for reassurance. Glad your scan went well xxx

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