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Hi ladies

So I checked on Friday HPT came back positive which mean after my FET am 4 weeks tonight I saw this

Am having miscarry or what ?

I hate this feeling after 4 cycles am devastated

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Hello. Please don't worry. If you have done ivf it could be pessaries causing this. Unless you have enough bleed to fill a pad with red clotty blood in under an hour then general rule of thumb is all will be well xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Looks like it could be implantation discharge hun. Theres no clots or anything hopefully it'll settle. Congratulations hun 😘💖

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LadyMM

Just went to the bathroom and saw very tiny bits of clots . Am crying and heartbroken don't know if this is an implantation or am losing my pregnancy

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DisneyJL in reply to LadyMM

Try not to worry at the moment, my partner had the same at 5 weeks, & was very worried. The clinic told us that almost all women who have ivf get this at around 4-6 weeks, & as long as it’s not heavy & enough to fill a pad, then it’s likely to be implantation.

A week after that, she passed a very large clot, so we were convinced it was over. We went to the early pregnancy unit & they did a scan & all was ok. She is 12 weeks today!

They couldn’t tell us what caused that big clot, but said some women bleed all the way through their pregnancy & still have a healthy baby. My advice would be to see how it goes today, & if it continues then contact your clinic for advice. Keeping everything crossed for you! 🤞🏼

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Thank you all am hoping my pregnancy will survive and am going to rest tomorrow probably not going to work on Monday as well until I speak to my GP .

I will accept my destiny what ever meant to be will happen all I will do just pray

Big hugs to you! I had pink spotting like this, and proper bleeds, I'm now 26 weeks pregnant. Try and relax today, and contact your clinic tomorrow if you're still worried xx

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Mrsplant

I wouldnt worry.. it cud be just bedding in deeper in 2 ur womb xx

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LadyMM

I just went to the LO and wiped my self I found pink watery discharge and brown discharge . I can't discribe my feeling am just Sad and worried

I had this for 9w6d hun. From the very start of getting my positive until then and then the spotting and brown blood stopped. I had a miscarriage in the December Christmas Day at 5 weeks and then I was pregnant again February. I understand how worrying it all is as it's so wanted but that I did have last time and I now have an almost 9 month old little boy. My miscarriage was nothing like that either. I miscarried 8 days after my positive hpt. The miscarriage my tests got lighter till negative so I knew my hormone levels were dropping. My successful one they got darker and I had 2 weeks of implantation bleeding too. Try not to worry. I had several tips to EPU due to the bleeding and was told to take it easier but not bed rest as they like gentle exercise to keep blood flowing to the womb, drink lots of water and no lifting or carrying. Sending you huge hugs hun as I know what a scary time it is xx

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LadyMM

Am still bleeding , I doesn't fill the pad but once am in the Lo I can drops coming out and when I wipe my self .

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to LadyMM

Bless ya, will you be getting your hcg levels checked with your clinic? Xx

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LadyMM

They took my hcg on Thursday still waiting my results . I just HPT it still say positive and I called EPAU they said to be in bed rest and if there is heavy bleed to go to A/E am worried but am hopeless at this stage I can only pray and hope

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to LadyMM

Once you've got your results it'll be worth taking another hcg to see if it's rising at it should. Really hoping it's not a loss hun and it's just one of them bleeds that many ladies get and be fine. Let us know how you get on.

Lots of love 😘💝

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LadyMM

I went to the LO and once I cleaned my self I saw my blood sitting in there no clots Although My pad wasn't full my heart aches . I guess I have to prepare my self for the worse .

Try to hang in there and get back on phone to your clinic I the morning xxx

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Sunset81

Sending all my prays and best wishes to you hope everything goes your way x

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Laceygirl

sending you lots of love and praying all will be ok for you. Please keep us updated if you are able. Fingers crossed xxxx

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LadyMM in reply to Laceygirl

Heavy bleeding with clots it doesn't want to stop so devestated and upset I didn't tell my family nor my husband

Am in AE doctors taking blood and sending me for scan . My HCG level came i did it on Thursday 14 it's quite low so they are going to repeat it . So anxious I need my peace of mind

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to LadyMM

Awww lovely. I'm so sorry your going through this. Sending so much love and, hugs 😘💝

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LadyMM

It was confirmed I had a miscarriage

Iam so sad and hopeful at the same time

It was my 1st BFP and I hope it want be the last . I will move on and hope for the next try it will be success

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So sorry to see this post. Hope you can recover and get your BFP soon. Xxx

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DisneyJL

So sorry to read this hun, but like you said - take some hope from the fact that you had a BFP, so you know there is a good chance of it working one day! xx

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