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So after getting a positive on the 10/5/18 i thought ill do another digital test just to see maby the 1-2 weeks indicator change to maby 2-3 weeks ...... i thought wrong πŸ’” any advice ladies as i do not know what to do ive rang my clinic and there ringing me back .... ive had no bleeding and im still on the lubion injections.... i tested on 10dp5dt and again on my actual test day both tests positive now this πŸ˜©πŸ˜©πŸ’”πŸ’” ....

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destiny121 profile image
destiny121

Perhaps the clear blue ones are too sensitive... have you tried a first response.... its still very early days. I hope so my lovely xx

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Rachael_ in reply to destiny121

Ive no idea what to do .... i feel like im back in my 2ww but worse as ive had a glimmer of hope and then its been snatched away from me 😩 xx

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destiny121 in reply to Rachael_

I can imagine what you’re going through right now.... such a worrying time... i would really use a different test and use first response xx good luck xx

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Amanda86

First response are more sensitive, clear blue not so much. Also did you use first morning urine?

Hcg levels in early pregnancy can be fairly low so not using first morning urine (most concentrated) can impact on the test. Xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to Amanda86

Thankyou for your relpy This was the second wee i woke up at 5 then around half past 8 i did this one ..... im so confused my second test was also digital and positive at around 2.30 in the afternoon ... ive stuck to the same brand same kind thinking and trusting them 😩 Xxx

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Amanda86 in reply to Rachael_

I’d maybe buy some first response, they’re honestly much more sensitive so better when your early on.

I’d also hold off testing until tomorrow morning, using your first pee but if you did decide to test again today it’s best to hold your urine for 4 hours and don’t drink anything so that your urine is concentrated.

Could you maybe see if your clinic would do a blood test? Xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to Amanda86

Thankyou ive just spoken to the nurse booked in at 9am tomorrow for bloods she said she hates clear blue there horrendous for faulse results i will know more tomorrow lunch time hopefully .... i cant get the words chemical pregnancy out of my head xx

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Amanda86 in reply to Rachael_

The fact you’re not having any bleeding is definitely a good thing.

Best of luck πŸ€πŸ€ž xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to Amanda86

I asked the nurse this and she was hopefull but said it could also be the lubion injections so will know more after tomorrow ..... gosh its soo hard to focus on anything else x x

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Shivvyboom79

Could it be a faulty test. Do you have another test that you can do.

Thinking of you xxxx

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Rachael_ in reply to Shivvyboom79

I really hope this is the case this is torture 😩xx

Have you had a bloodtest? Xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to

Hiya booked in for 9am tomorrow πŸ’”πŸ™πŸ» x

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Phew ok. Wishing you luck. Xxx

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Rachael_

Thankyou πŸ’”πŸ™πŸ» xx

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elle80

Hopefully the test is faulty!!! Fingers crossed for tomorrow hun xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to elle80

Thankyou i really hope so the nurse said that the clear blue tests can be a pain as they pick the hormone up aswell really low ... deep down i feel its a chemical i cant seem to think positive at all xxx

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elle80 in reply to Rachael_

I really hope it isn't. I hope the time goes really quickly so that tomorrow is here and you can get some answers. I really feel for you, and I know that you must be feeling really worried. I've got everything crossed for you. Xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to elle80

Thankyou michelle ❀️ xxx

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elle80 in reply to Rachael_

😘

Stupid question; was it first urine of the day at the early stage that makes a difference.

I hope the clinic gets back to you and can arrange blood tests to see what is going on.

Truly hope it’s good news for you 😘; I had a chemical pregnancy last year it’s awful for anyone to go through. I had lots of bleeding so knew it was over xoxo

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Rachael_ in reply to

Yes it was my first wee although my partner thinks this isnt the case because ive drank alot in the night feeling thirsty, i have been recently moreso ... hes still in hope thats the case and my urines not been strong enough to detect the hormone ... that little bit of hope eh, .... all i wanted to do was watch the weeks change .. what a shock i got instead .. i just don’t understand it at all as the second digital test i took day 11p5dt was around 2.30 in the afternoon after lots of drinking and toilet trips and it came up positive straight away ..... i have zero hope that theres a little baba growing now after this πŸ’”πŸ˜’thankyou for the support jess Xxx

I been there ; I had to wait between my bleeding and a scan to tell me what I knew. The waiting is agonising and I wish there was something I could say or suggest to make it better. I really Hope everything is ok and it is just a β€œblip” and perhaps the urine was more diliuted 🀞🏻The fact you haven’t bled or had cramping is a very good sign I’d stay positive till you have a reason not to be xoxo

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Rachael_ in reply to

Thanks jess i really hope that your right xx

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wemma83

Hope everything is ok tomorrow, Rachael. Keep us posted <3 xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to wemma83

Thankyou so much i will do ❀️ xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Wishing you all the best for tomorrow hun, bloods will give you a definitive result really hoping your urine was diluted too much for them clearblues.

Sending lots of love and hugs

πŸ’πŸ˜˜πŸ’

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Rachael_ in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thankyou so so much cat ... i hope this is the case ive tried my best.... in a way i wish ide never tested.... why did i do it...... i was so hopefull and positive now today im a mess im praying the nurse rings me tomorrow with positive news after my bloods β€οΈπŸ™πŸ» xx hope your ok xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Rachael_

It's so hard not to resist to test. I totally get it. But them clearblues are lethal hun the amount of heartache ppl have experienced due to them is crazy. I'm sure that's how they make their money.

Really hope tomorrow offers you some positive reassurance hun.

Big hugs my love.

πŸ’πŸ˜˜πŸ’

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Rachael_ in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

β€οΈπŸ’–πŸ™πŸ»πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ€πŸ˜˜Xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Rachael_

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Rachael_ in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thankyou you give me hope ... Im trying my best to get the words chemical pregnancy out of my head ...... im never peeing on one of those things ever again ❀️xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Rachael_

Their notorious hun. Iv experienced headache with them. It's awful. It would be so much easier if we could accept a positive test and leave it there but we find it hard not to and that just makes our mental state go crazy.

I'll be looking out for your update tomorrow

πŸ’πŸ˜˜πŸ’

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Rachael_ in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thankyou cat ❀️ did you retest after a positive xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Rachael_

Yes I have done with clearblues they affected me real bad when the weeks weren't changing. After that I decided not to anymore l. I just used cheap tests to see if line was getting darker and they did my head in too. It really is about urine concentration. Blood tests are the way forward I believe to get a clear result of what's going on. It's so hard not too know what's going on a camera into our womb would be fantastic πŸ’πŸ˜˜πŸ’

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Rachael_ in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

This has given me hope although i feel sad that uve had to deal with this aswell its horrible ... they should say on the pack ..... had ivf well stay the hell away...... is so hard isnt it i hope my case is the same ... ive just spoken to my mum who has given me a huge boost also ... i need to think about the stress im putting on myself just incase im praying that the bloods take this strain away ..... thankyou cat 😘Xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Rachael_

Wishing you all the best for tomorrow hun

πŸ˜˜πŸ’πŸ˜˜

Flimzee profile image
Flimzee

Sorry to hear you are having this worry and stress... it is not nice. I have also had issues with clear blue being unreliable. Wishing you all the best for your blood test tomorrow. I hope it is good news. Fingers crossed xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to Flimzee

Thankyou so much ... im hoping its just the test ❀️..... xx

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Autumnmoon

Can only imagine your thoughts at the moment along with everyone else hoping bloods are good for you tomorrow x

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Rachael_ in reply to Autumnmoon

Thankyou lovely ❀️xxx

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Jm82

Everything crossed for good news tomorrow, try and stay positive xx

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Rachael_ in reply to Jm82

Thankyou im trying my best to remain calm and positive ... ive just spoken to my mum whos given me a huge boost im praying for good news .... i wish i could rewind time and gone in for the blood test since day 1 when i could as this has to be mentally harder than the whole ivf process πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ™ˆ xx

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Looby25

Fingers crossed for good news tomorrow, I know it’s hard but try and have a calm evening, put your feet up and watch a comedy with chocolate!! Let us know how you get on x x

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Rachael_ in reply to Looby25

Thankyou for your lovely words ❀️ and i most certainly will do you ladies are amazing xxx

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Wishfully

Oh how stessful for you, I can understand why you feel so down... but had bleeding in both of my chemical pregnancies, so I think the fact you are not bleeding is a very good sign. Hope the test tomorrow gives you positive news xx

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Rachael_ in reply to Wishfully

Thankyou i really do hope that your right... sorry that uve had to go through the chemicals if this is a glimspse of what it will be like this feeling off loss already I really do hope tomorrow’s news is gona be positive πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ’” xxx

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Wishfully in reply to Rachael_

Keeping my fingers crossed for you xx

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Rachael_ in reply to Wishfully

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AmbK in reply to Wishfully

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss! Even I've been through the grievous loss twice and none were without the symptom. Once TTC naturally about a year and a half another this FEB after my 3rd IUI and both the time I bled with cramps... the pattern was same. It only got severe with time, till I was sure it's gone. Thankfully, Racheal does not have any of it. That's why even I'm feeling positive that's it's just glitch with the Digital HPT. Also, I've read numerous posts and know some ladies in person who complain about the digital tests.... saying they've had to do 2-3 to be confirmed as one of them always showed a false negative.

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Rachael_ in reply to AmbK

Thankyou im praying this is the case i really am i wont loose that glimmer of hope even though i feel so numb right now .... im sorry to hear youve had to deal with this your so strong to keep going because at the min its hard not to ... your 100% about keeping emotions stable my mums given me the same advice ❀️... xxx

I will keep my fingers crossed that tomorrow is good news and it was just a crappy test πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€xx

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Rachael_ in reply to

Thankyou so so much ❀️ xxx

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ChloBo84

Keeping everything crossed for you that it’s just the test honey. 🀞🀞🀞🀞 xx good luck tomorrow xx

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Rachael_ in reply to ChloBo84

Thankyou lovely i really do hope so xxx

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AmbK

If you've tested positive twice and have had no cramps or spotting, chances are the negative HPT is just a glitch. Though symptoms can be weird at times, appearing without apparent reason or just staying silent when things are actually amiss. But I don't think it's the case with you because this whimsical BFNs happen with the digital tests. Couldn't figure out the reason though as these are supposed to be more sensitive, detecting early and be more accurate. However, you shouldn't panic right now no matter what... till the time your clinic calls back or you take a beta (if that's possible). You're being emotionally stable is the best you can offer the baby inside you... so you've got to try and stay calm. WIsh you all the luck in the world! Keep me updated. XOXO

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Rachael_ in reply to AmbK

Thankyou for your kind words and i really do hope this is the case im praying it isnt a chemical i feel as though when i tested on the 10th maby this was the start of it and both tests picked up the last strain of hormone .... your head plays tricks on you at a time like this dosnt it ... your post has given me a glimmer of hope so thankyou i really do hope your right lovely ❀️Xxx

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AmbK in reply to Rachael_

Yes, the head definitely plays tricks when we're stressed over something. And going through infertility issues myself I know very well that when you've had to go all the way to assisted fertility your mind starts counting the odd even at the slightest twitch that's not supposed to be there. But as I said I strongly feel there's nothing to worry; it won't be much reassuring at this point I know. God Bless You dear one! :)

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Rachael_ in reply to AmbK

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Marietay

Aw so sorry to read this Rachael. Fingers crossed for tomorrow πŸ’• xxx

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emu2016

This bloody journey! Thinking of you for tomorrow xx

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Rachael_

Thankyou ladies ❀️❀️xxx

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staceymac83

Rachael I’ve just seen this (been taking a break from the forum) I have my fingers crossed that everything goes well for you today..... stay positive 🀞🏻 xx

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Rachael_ in reply to staceymac83

Thankyou stacey .... hope your ok think ill have to do the same for a little wile of its bad news today ... alot to get your head around isnt it .... i still have a little bit of hope πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ€Xxx

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staceymac83 in reply to Rachael_

Am not too bad, really trying to focus on other things at the minute. Am due to start my FET in July 😬 keep me posted and stay positive xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to staceymac83

I will do did the clinic book you straight in for your fet when you rang im thinking i want to jump straight back on this asap if its bad news today deep down i know its the case xxx

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staceymac83 in reply to Rachael_

Yeah, once I called up to confirm the test was negative they booked me in for the first space they had available but I was thinking July anyway as am away on holiday in June. I was the same as u and just want to get back into it but fingers crossed U won’t need to worry about that xxx

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Rachael_ in reply to staceymac83

Do u know when you can tell there’s something wrong in getting bad pains today i had them yesterday also. I know AF it trying its best to break through but the lubion injections wont allow it just yet i think once i stop those ill bleed ... i just want to get it over with now i know it hasnt worked and its chemical 😩 xx

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staceymac83 in reply to Rachael_

I know the feeling well 😒 it’s not over yet 🀞🏻 xx

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LHow81

Will be thinking of you today, good luck x

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Rachael_ in reply to LHow81

Thankyou x x

in reply to Rachael_

Thinking of you Rachael. Hope it goes ok xxx

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Sharonl75

Good luck this morning. Fingers crossed for you.x

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Saya85

Oh Rachael! I’m so gutted for you and yet so hopeful that this is just a glitch!!

Almost 9am so desp waiting for your update and good news πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

Good luck for today Rachael. I hope it was just the test xx

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Rachael_

Thankyou ladies ill let you all know when i get the news xx ❀️

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Rachael_

Thankyou to each and every one of you for your support ❀️ xxx

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